Paired: Couples & Relationship 17+

Questions, Quiz, Games, Advice

Better Half

    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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Love more. Stress less. Paired is your guide to improve communication, stay connected, and deepen intimacy as a couple.

With our daily questions feature you get a fun question to answer every day with your partner. Each question comes with a research-based fact of why answering it will help your relationship, and only by answering the question yourself can you unlock your partner’s answer!

If you’re looking to identify your relationship strength and growth areas then our couple quizzes are here to help. Each week the quiz is on a different aspect of your relationship, and when your partner answers the quiz you’ll be able to compare answers.

Think you know your partner well? Put your knowledge to the test with our couple games! Guess your partner’s answers to funny, thoughtful, and downright silly questions and see how many guesses you get right. The partner with the highest score wins the game!

Lastly, our couple exercises are created by the world’s top couple therapists and academics and draw on decades of research to help you learn about, and discuss key relationship topics. Each exercise includes a discussion point and helpful answer prompts for you to complete together.
Join the community of people around the world building lasting love with Paired today.

* Answer fun, research-based questions with your partner each day to bring you closer together
* New questions are available daily, and by answering the question you’ll unlock your partner’s answer
* Play couple games to test your knowledge of your partner
* Guess their answers to Mr and Mrs style questions, and see who knows who best!
* Pair with your partner’s app by sharing your unique codes with each other
* Complete couple exercises on different relationship topics, from managing conflict to developing sexual intimacy
* Our couple exercises are created by the world’s top relationship academics and therapists
* Identify your relationship strength and growth areas by completing couple quizzes each week
*Get ready for any relationship milestone, from moving in together to planning for a baby, with our dedicated question packs

Please note that Paired and the materials and information contained herein are not intended to, and do not constitute, medical, psychological, or mental health advice, or diagnosis, and may not be used for such purposes. You should always consult with a qualified physician or mental health professional about your specific circumstances.

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What’s New

Version 1.514

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Ratings and Reviews

4.7 out of 5
63.4K Ratings

63.4K Ratings

Evajan_bieber ,

It’s so worth it

My bf and I have been together for 4 years. We are currently long distance and looking for ways to continue being intimate with each other despite the distance. I feel like we are already really open and honest with each other but this app has taken it to another level. It’s helps facilitate conversations that we haven’t thought of or convos that we may be unsure of how to bring up. I love that our answers to the “question sets” are locked until we both answer so that we aren’t biased by what the other person’s response is. It may seem like a lot to spend $70 for the year for it but man it’s so worth it. Just look at it like a date night, dinner+drinks and a tip and this app is for the whole year. Go with the year subscription (it’s cheaper than the monthly) and really just explore this app with your partner. We’re learning new things about each other and our relationship and I am loving it. I also love this app because when I’m using it I feel like those who created the app are really passionate about what they’re doing here. I feel like I would want to be apart of the company, I just love this product. The concept and execution are a dream, so I get why they charge what they do. It’s worth the money. We briefly tried another app, but it almost felt like it was created and no one went back to continue making it better. This is the real deal, and can be a great asset to your relationship. Highly recommend.

Developer Response ,

Thanks so much for your review! We've shared your comments with the rest of the team. We hope the app can keep bringing you and your partner even closer 🙏 If there's anything else you'd like to share, you can always shoot us a note at 💜

MxOnyx ,

Queer Friendly!

My partner of 3 months and I are both transgender, nonbinary, bisexual, and polyamorous, so we were worried that an app like this wouldn’t include our experiences. We were pleasantly surprised from day 1! I love all the little images for the questions throughout the app, they will be like abstract kissing heart faces, or two marshmallows, or two origami boats- very cute and genderless! There are question packs that deal directly with queerness such as the “pronouns pack” and many of the descriptions talking about the research for why the questions are important talk about lgbtq+ relationships. There is even one “tip/exercise” called “metamour agreements” which was a pleasant surprise as a polyamorous couple. Overall, we have really enjoyed the app, it’s fun and has definitely helped us learn about eachother and become closer, even as a new couple.

A few suggestions to be even more inclusive- I would love to see even more about polyamory, especially catered towards already very open and non-hierarchical structures (not just written for primary partners considering opening up). I’d also love to see something about caretaking dynamics in the case where one partner has a disability.

Also for the games, it would be cool to be able to see all 4 answer choices again once the results are in. Right now you can only see whatever answers you each picked but it would sometimes be fun to remember what you had to choose from.

@selfmadekayd (on TikTok) ,

Me and my husband (both ftm🏳️‍⚧️) LOVE this app but there’s no monthly payment option??🥹

As the title says, we love this app so much! We signed up for the free trial, and did SO many quizzes/activities, which helped us learn so much about each other that we never thought to bring up until then. We went to pay for the subscription after only a couple days of using the trial because we loved it that much, but saw there was only an option for a YEARLY cost of $60 instead of also including a monthly option.. We are currently living paycheck to paycheck, so we couldn’t dish out $60 right then and there, BUT we were willing to pay each month, until we saw there wasn’t an option to do so…:( If you guys ever do decide to add a monthly payment option, we would subscribe in a heartbeat!! I also think it would possibly help other people who may be in a similar situation as us, if that option was added! Only one thing that we were kinda upset about was that we answered soooo many activities (the open ended questions, specifically) right before our free trial ended, and as soon as it did, we couldn’t read/access ANY of each others answers that we hadn’t gotten a chance to read yet, which really sucked because we spent HOURSSS on this app answering them for each other, and were looking forward to seeing each others answers:( Other than that, this app is absolutely AMAZING! I’d give it 100🌟s if a monthly subscription option was added🥰🫶🏻

Developer Response ,

Thanks a lot for this lovely review - we're so happy to hear you've been loving the app lately 💜
We do have a monthly offer, but you might not be able to see it if you're already on a free trial or yearly subscription. Don't hesitate to email us at, we'd love to help you through our different plans 🙌


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