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Fed up with the bog-standard dating apps? On FET we're different. We're kinky and unapologetically open. It doesn't matter if you're kink-curious or a BDSM lover, you'll feel welcome in our diverse and inclusive fetish & BDSM dating community. Get ready for BDSM dating with fellow kinksters that's out of this world!

New to the FET lifestyle or an experienced kinkster? No problem, FET is a safe place to learn and explore BDSM and fetish. Whatever your kink or your fetish, we support and encourage our kinky community to share and learn from each other. On FET, we want everyone to master their kinky lifestyle, so come on in, get kinkd up with us!

FET is the place to uncover more about the BDSM and fetish lifestyle, find munches, fetish parties, BDSM dating and more. You're sure to find tons of like-minded kinksters who share your fetishes. No matter where you are - whether playing in the deepest darkest of dungeons or out and about in your daily life - the FET community is here for you!

Whip your profile into shape. Upload that selfie and tell kinksters a bit about your kinky self. ;) Safely share your photos and show off your kinky FET lifestyle...

Finding and keeping in touch with fellow kinksters is easy with our 24/7 newsfeed, free messaging and live chat. If you're looking for that special sub-one, there are kinksters for everyone out there in the Fetish & BDSM dating community - or right here at your fingertips. With just a few taps, start meeting kinksters near you.

With great kink comes great responsibility #SSC: For added confidence and a #kinktastic BDSM dating community experience, everyone can verify their profile for free on FET. Having a verified kinkster profile is an excellent way to show other kinksters that you're authentic and not a bot. You can also discreetly sign up with your Facebook account; no one has to know, but you.



The app is free to download and use. FET also offers an optional subscription package.

Subscription Service Conditions:

• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency).
• Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase

• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period

• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase

• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.

More details here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms

All personal data is handled under the terms and conditions of FET's privacy policy. More details can be found here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy 

Our vision is to be the world's most trusted Fetish and BDSM dating community. A safe, sane and consensual home for kinksters and the kink-curious that demystifies alternative lifestyles and provides a user-friendly dating solution.

What’s New

Version 4.4.0

New feature! See popular chat rooms from your newsfeed, so you never get FOMO again.
New feature! Find kinky events happening near you! Or why not host your own?
Improved! Naughty kinksters in the Live Chat no more! The chat rules are front and center any time you need them.
Improved: Get in touch with kinksters you're vibing with easily via a new message button!
New Feature: Ready for some summer fun? You can now highlight your Kinky Ads in the newsfeed!
New Feature: The more, the merrier! Invite your friends to the FET App and be rewarded with loads of points.

Ratings and Reviews

4.2 out of 5
589 Ratings

589 Ratings

Oldredgoat ,

Great app, except.

The amount of catfish accounts is astonishing. I have had the app for probably 3 months and there are more and more fake accounts daily. I report and while in a few days they do get deleted but I’m sure these people just make new ones. I feel if you don’t verify your account upon creating, then you won’t be able to be seen by anyone. They really ruin it for everyone.

Developer Response ,

Hi, thanks so much for the review, we really appreciate it. We're constantly improving our systems and have recently introduced new measures to identify and stop fake accounts from ruining the experience of genuine users. Fakes try every trick in the book these days, but we're getting there in stamping them out!

CoutDoe2021 ,


So I downloaded this app two months ago at first I really loved this app it seemed nice enough. However, in my first month with this app I discovered that it has sever flaws in its system. For example, the lobby at times can act like a mob. Where they pretty much go after newbies and trolls alike. Not thinking anything of it I joined in until I felt like it was a bit too much. Minus the snarky attitudes the next item on the list is the double standards for members. If someone pays they can blatantly post the N word in lobby and have no repercussions. However, if you role play then all of a sudden you the bad person. In my second month I discovered that you can use your points that you collect to achieve a membership. Which is great and all but it isn’t any better than a non paying member. Lastly if someone goes after you butting into your conversation when it isn’t warranted and they happen to be petty or childlike enough to report you the site will not contact you they just ban you. Over then that have fun getting screwed over. I am throughly disgusted and, glad for the ban. I do not nor will I ever recommend this site to anyone.

SusieQxx ,

Can’t even get verified

Just because there are fake accounts doesn’t mean everybody is fake! I have been waiting three days to be verified. Took a pic and then took one with my name and date. Next you will want DNA. All other apps that require verification do it instantly. No reason it should take days. That being said there as many fake men on here as there are women. I deleted my first account because I thought I met someone genuine and he was turned out to be a sex trafficker and is now locked up. I now made another one and even though I am real, you take 20 years to verify my account. I do feel verifying is good. However, it should be instant.

App Privacy

The developer, Ideawise Ltd., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • User Content
  • Identifiers
  • Sensitive Info

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • Contact Info
  • Usage Data
  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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