ITL: ENM Lifestyle Dating 12+

ENM Dating & Communication

ITL Ventures

    • 1.0 • 2 Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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Are you looking for an alternative lifestyle app? ITL a.k.a. Into The Lifestyle is a chat and dating app for open-minded individuals and couples. Here you can chat, match, meet & date Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) & polyamorous couples, groups & singles. Get into the Lifestyle!

Our casual dating app will help you have playful chats and safe connections with like-minded people. The ITL app is built for all relationship types: ENM people, swingers, polyamory, polyamorous dating, and much more. It is open to everyone who is looking to explore their dating desires in a safe and private space. From open-minded couples to curious singles, from straight to gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, or transgender.
SAFE Ethical Non-Monogamy first!

We have built a unique three steps to connection:

Discover. With our advanced search function, customize your search and find exactly who you are looking for: couples, groups, singles, and much more!

Connect. Whether you are seeking to meet new people for friendship or romance, or even something hotter, you can connect and flirt and be naughty in this secure dating app .

Chat. Get our ENM connection app and chat with singles or couples who are seeking the same things you are!

Fake profiles, scammers, and nudity are strictly prohibited and we actively monitor our app to make sure you have the best experience possible.

Some of our Unique Features:
Verified Members.
Unlimited messaging.
Choose partners based on your preferences.
Send disappearing photos.
Travel mode
No Ads
Group Chats and MUCH More!

Unlike other free dating apps, ITL lets you discover new relationships you never knew were possible. This app is designed specifically for those who want to meet people looking for Ethical Non-Monogamy, open relationships, and other alternative relationship dynamics found in the lifestyle.

Welcome to the safe space with like-minded people. Here you can date and chat with swingers, polyamory people and meet the awesome members of the ITL Community.

Start your fantastic Ethical Non-Monogamy journey into the lifestyle with our ENM app.
Meet Your people on ITL today!

About us: ITL a.k.a Into The Lifestyle has been bringing people together since 2009, back then we created one of the world's largest web-based lifestyle social networks.
Our team consists of people passionate about connections and revolutionizing relationships. We understand the basic human need is to connect with like-minded lovers and friends. We are excited to create tools that help you discover new ways to live and love and build a circle of people to fit YOUR lifestyle.

Learn more at:
EULA Terms of Use:

What’s New

Version 1.0.1

Bug Fix - corrected an issue with premium subscriptions auto upgrades

Ratings and Reviews

1.0 out of 5
2 Ratings

2 Ratings

Robert Brownlie ,

I want a refund

The app does not work at all. It keeps asking to buy a membership to do anything when I already purchased it. The search function does not work at all as it ignores the selected search parameters. Just horrible

Squeezable2Some ,

Poorly run site

The app needs a lot of work! Clicking on icons and membership info doesn’t work half of the time and search settings are lagging. Good potential but not there yet.

App Privacy

The developer, ITL Ventures, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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