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Use Vanilla Umbrella for chat & dating with singles or couples around you, make friends, find romance or meet swingers. Whatever your fetish is, find others to chat about bondage, DDLG, latex, leather, femdom, mistresses, slaves, whiplash etc.
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What’s New

Version 2.9.2

Fix bug in iOS 14

Ratings and Reviews

4.4 out of 5
256 Ratings

256 Ratings

Aft tech ,

Love it

It needs a better notification system and the messages could be easier to find instead of having to wait to load more and if someone sends one while you are trying to go to the bottom of the list you are screwed but I still really love the app itself

05191999 ,

It’s got potential

So I’m loving the app but, you’re trying to make money off it... which is perfectly understandable we gotta make a living. My only thing is that you limit people to the extreme and having to pay just to shoot someone a message or modify useful settings and what not just drives people away from your app I might stay but, it’s the best app I’ve found so far just really wish you were more focused on people finding connections rather than trying to make money on it. Though I think the vip is nice it should be more optional and not pushed upon on to make the apps experience more enjoyable.

Cirsten Strank ,

Great app to meet people on same page

I’ve been on this app for over a year and have watched it develop. Yes, in the beginning it was laggy and it would crash but it was new and that’s expected but it’s a good platform to meet people on the same page. It’s nice to have an app where you can look for people that are into the same things as you and with their new contact updates it’s a great app! Thanks VU


Vanilla Mobile Ltd
21.4 MB

Requires iOS 9.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.



Age Rating
Infrequent/Mild Alcohol, Tobacco, or Drug Use or References
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
In-App Purchases
  1. VIP 1 Month $19.99
  2. 50 Credits $15.99
  3. 200 Credits $32.99


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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