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Kink Dating Community & Forum

Vanilla Mobile

Designed for iPhone

    • 4.2 • 228 Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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Use Vanilla Umbrella for chat & dating with singles or couples around you, make friends, find romance or meet swingers. Whatever your fetish is, find others to chat about bondage, DDLG, latex, leather, femdom, mistresses, slaves, whiplash etc.
Only users with real interest in BDSM, fetish & kink, as well as swinging.


NEW: BDSM Education section, with educational learning videos and articles, forum answers to questions etc. provided by experienced figures in the pro industry. We encourage all users to ask questions, to learn about Safety and Rules of Respectful and Appropriate Behaviour in the BDSM scene.

Enjoy Fetish Dating - Chat, Meet New People via the Open Chat (the only Mobile BDSM Fetish Forum with instant notifications). Find events, munches, fetishes (breaking the bondage, DDLG, ropes, shibari, daddy baby girl etc.). Use the personals to find a mistress, a submissive, a unicorn or a couple.

Instead of using different sites with different features (fetlife,, collarspace etc.) VU is all in one and is mobile: Community, Dating and Forum.

VU is the perfect discreet site for genuine single women, single men or couples, whether they are Black, White, Asian, Latino, Straight, Gay, Lesbians, Bisexual, Queer or Transgender. VU is the safest kinky fetish, BDSM dating community in the United States, Canada, Australia, Germany, Norway, Sweden and all Europe, UK, England, Ireland, Scotland, and across the world.

What’s New

Version 2.9.3

Fix bugs

Ratings and Reviews

4.2 out of 5
228 Ratings

228 Ratings

NotInTheMafia ,

Great app but too many dead profiles.

The app itself is really good. It just needs more users. There are lots of profiles near me, but the “show who was active in the last 7 days” option always shows slim pickings. There are tons of profiles that have been inactive for years.
If inactive profiles were hidden, and there were more users I’d give it 5 stars.

05191999 ,

It’s got potential

So I’m loving the app but, you’re trying to make money off it... which is perfectly understandable we gotta make a living. My only thing is that you limit people to the extreme and having to pay just to shoot someone a message or modify useful settings and what not just drives people away from your app I might stay but, it’s the best app I’ve found so far just really wish you were more focused on people finding connections rather than trying to make money on it. Though I think the vip is nice it should be more optional and not pushed upon on to make the apps experience more enjoyable.

Cirsten Strank ,

Great app to meet people on same page

I’ve been on this app for over a year and have watched it develop. Yes, in the beginning it was laggy and it would crash but it was new and that’s expected but it’s a good platform to meet people on the same page. It’s nice to have an app where you can look for people that are into the same things as you and with their new contact updates it’s a great app! Thanks VU

App Privacy

The developer, Vanilla Mobile, has not provided details about its privacy practices and handling of data to Apple. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

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