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Use Vanilla Umbrella for chat & dating with singles or couples around you, make friends, find romance or meet swingers. Whatever your fetish is, find others to chat about bondage, DDLG, latex, leather, femdom, mistresses, slaves, whiplash etc.
Only users with real interest in BDSM, fetish & kink, as well as swinging.


NEW: BDSM Education section, with educational learning videos and articles, forum answers to questions etc. provided by experienced figures in the pro industry. We encourage all users to ask questions, to learn about Safety and Rules of Respectful and Appropriate Behaviour in the BDSM scene.

Enjoy Fetish Dating - Chat, Meet New People via the Open Chat (the only Mobile BDSM Fetish Forum with instant notifications). Find events, munches, fetishes (breaking the bondage, DDLG, ropes, shibari, daddy baby girl etc.). Use the personals to find a mistress, a submissive, a unicorn or a couple.

Instead of using different sites with different features (fetlife, alt.com, collarspace etc.) VU is all in one and is mobile: Community, Dating and Forum.

VU is the perfect discreet site for genuine single women, single men or couples, whether they are Black, White, Asian, Latino, Straight, Gay, Lesbians, Bisexual, Queer or Transgender. VU is the safest kinky fetish, BDSM dating community in the United States, Canada, Australia, Germany, Norway, Sweden and all Europe, UK, England, Ireland, Scotland, and across the world.

What’s New

Version 2.9.1

Fix bugs

Ratings and Reviews

4.2 out of 5
125 Ratings

125 Ratings

Aft tech ,

Love it

It needs a better notification system and the messages could be easier to find instead of having to wait to load more and if someone sends one while you are trying to go to the bottom of the list you are screwed but I still really love the app itself

Zipmanxp ,

Good app

Really good and discreet app but seems to hav a glitch that says there are unread board posts still unread than what you go in and actually see. I like keeping my unread zeroed out but sometimes it shows some unread. And it's a pain that you have to use credits to send a message to someone.

Lilith Astaroth ,

Awful. Don't bother.

I wasted some frustrating hours with this app trying to edit My profile properly and attempt to have a couple of conversations, which cost money after the first few times. (No thanks.) The app is very archaic and not to mention CRASHES CONSTANTLY!

Don't waste your time. I've had better luck on OKC just specifying that I'm into BDSM dating. At least there are real people on there and the app works!


Vanilla Mobile Ltd
21.3 MB

Requires iOS 9.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.



Age Rating
You must be at least 17 years old to download this app.
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
Infrequent/Mild Alcohol, Tobacco, or Drug Use or References
Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
© Vanilla Mobile Ltd 2015
In-App Purchases
  1. VIP 1 Month $19.99
  2. 50 Credits $15.99
  3. 200 Credits $32.99


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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