See for yourself why millions of couples worldwide have benefited from The Gottman Institute’s research-based approach to relationships. Inspired by the popular card decks from The Art and Science of Love weekend workshop for couples, this fun app offers helpful questions, statements, and ideas for improving your relationship.

By downloading our free app, you can:
• Explore 14 card decks with more than 1,000 flashcards
• Tap the star to favorite a card
• Easily tab back and forth between All and Favorites
• Shake your phone to see a random card
• Access more free resources from The Gottman Institute

Choose Love Maps to get to know your partner better, Opportunity for great date-night ideas, or explore the Salsa decks to add some spice to your intimate life.

As the world’s most trusted relationship company, our mission is to improve people’s lives through products and programs that educate, inspire, and heal.

Our approach to relationships is based on more than four decades of ongoing research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. We serve couples and parents directly while providing world-class training to the professionals who support them, and we are committed to making our services accessible to everyone.

What’s New

Version 1.0.5

What's new:
• Tap the star to favorite a card
• Easily tab back and forth between All and Favorites
• Shake your phone to shuffle the deck

Thanks for using Gottman Card Decks! We regularly update the app to fix bugs, improve performance, and add new features to help you connect with your partner.

Let us know how we're doing by rating the app in the App Store.

Ratings and Reviews

4.8 out of 5
31 Ratings

31 Ratings

Jenth888 ,

Gottman Card App

Brilliant concept We have recently uploaded this for my partner and myself He has made reference to it in conversations It’s his go to reference guide
My partner has been a batchelor for many years I am a former relationship counsellor who used the Gottman materials in my work
It’s bridging the gap for us ....a brilliant tool for developing healthy intimacy which is easily accessible
Congratulations John Julie and team Keep going 💕

Westilina2 ,


These cards have some great ideas! Suggestions on how to make it better:
- have a button to invite your partner to get the app
- have all your favourites together in one drop down list.
- Have your app linked to your partner/partners so they can see the ones you favourite.

kora17 ,

Marriage Saving App

This app has basically saved our marriage!
It is wonderfully designed and is so user friendly.
It really helps you connect with your partner and express feelings.


The Gottman Institute, Inc.
28.5 MB

Requires iOS 9.3 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad and iPod touch.



Age Rating
You must be at least 17 years old to download this application.
Frequent/Intense Sexual Content or Nudity
© 2018 The Gottman Institute


  • Family Sharing

    Up to six family members will be able to use this app with Family Sharing enabled.

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