HER: Lesbian LGBTQ Dating 17+

Date & Meet Queer LGBT Friends

Bloomer Inc

    • 4.4 • 4.5K Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases



Join 10 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folkx on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here.

App Store Editors' Choice Award recipient 3 years running - HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, hookup, and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.

• Safe Queer Dating - match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
• Community - hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
• Stand Out - add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!

• Incognito mode - no one can see you unless you like them first.
• Additional search filters - find exactly who you're looking for.
• Online now - send a real-time hello to someone online!
• Ad-free experience - we won't interrupt your groove.

See you around!
Instagram & TikTok - @hersocialapp


We offer 3 subscriptions plans for HER Premium Memberships
1 Month: starting at $14.99
6 Months: starting at $59.99
12 Months: starting at $89.99

Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase.
Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off in the iTunes Store at least 24hrs before the end of the current period.
Current HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD/month and are listed in full above.
Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.
No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during the active subscription period.
More details on HER premium can be found at:

What’s New

Version 6.18.5

let us quench your thirst. Happy Pride

Ratings and Reviews

4.4 out of 5
4.5K Ratings

4.5K Ratings

Bri_42 ,

Good concept

There are so many people in my local area to talk to, it’s great. The communities feature is brilliant, it gives you the opportunity to get involved with groups that meet your values. Also I like the fact that I don’t have unlimited swipes, so that I’m not wasting a few hours a day swiping. Within the app there is some room from improvement, for example in the filters (preference) part it only allows you to adjust your distance and age, I thought you could at least add a few more items such as relationship status and looking for, so that it’s slightly more direct. You could possibly add a speed dating feature, to allow users to talk to eachother for a limited about of time, then it will review their profiles. It’s just another way of interacting with others and getting more matches, and also it gives an opportunity for users to interact with people, without basing all their decisions on face value. Also within the messaging part you could give prompts and questions to ask (not too cheesy though), to allow in-depth conversations.

elleberrie ,

A great app.. but it could be greater ☝️

Granted that I know a premium version of the app exists.. it’s still very limiting to only allow maybe what, 25 swipes (whether you swipe right or not) daily. Yes, it’s a good theory which will assume users will come back everyday to use the app but after a while it gets frustrating (and I’ve been using it for only 3 days). I think this feature of limiting swipes would work if you’re allowed to swipe right 5 times a day, or if one can add filters so their swipes are more tailored and intentional. Even if you match with someone, there’s no guarantee they’ll actually text you back, but that’s where this cute feature of the HER app gives question prompts to the matched couple. I think maybe there should either be a decrease in the subscription cost (£20 is a lot) or allow a 10 minute window weekly where users can get access to all features (see your likes particularly).

pilvusquintup ,

Great app for whatever you need

The app is great, for meeting both flings, partners or friends. I’ve had lovely conversations with others who share my interests on the community tab, and in DMs. Most people are in here to meet others, and the filters help with finding people who actually want to talk to each other, not just say “hi, how are you?” And leave. The bio set up is a great help for people who feel awkward setting up bios too, does little prompts, has customisable stickers, personal filters, and gives ideas for pictures to add, which is cute. It’s really interesting to read other peoples bios and the answers they give to questions. If you find it hard to start a conversation, the app sends both users a start off question to get things going, which is nice, and leads to fun convos off the bat. Unfortunately, it’s been hard to find Polyamorous people in my area, however I’m hoping that will change.


TUE 10:00

Get ready to up your flirting game: Join us today and learn some expert tips! #LesDating

THU 17:00

Connect with others without feeling pressured to be something you’re not! #AceDating #NonSexualConnections

14 Jun

Looking for love during Pride season? Join us for speed dating and meet someone special! #LoveWins

App Privacy

The developer, Bloomer Inc, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Used to Track You

The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Sensitive Info

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • Usage Data
  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary based on, for example, the features you use or your age. Learn More

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