Join 4 million lesbian, bisexual and queer people on HER - the world's largest and most loved free dating app for LGBTQ women.

So much more than 'swipe right' apps, or a Grindr for lesbians, HER is built by and for lesbian & queer womxn. We share LGBTQ+ news, all the lesbian and queer events taking place in your area and have smaller community groups so you can meet others in a safe, group chat.

HER hosts parties and socials in 15 cities across the world (from London to LA to New York) so download the app to find out when the next one is happening near you and get exclusive discounts on tickets.

Dowload HER to join a community of people who believe in LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you're here for a girlfriend or partner, to meet the love of your life, your person for a great date or your next friendship group, the HER community is a welcoming and supportive one. We'd love to welcome you to our space.

- FRIENDLY, FUN & SAFE: These are the words our community use to describe us.
- FREE: all of our core features are completely free. View profiles, get matches, add friends, start chats, view events, join communities.
- UPGRADE FOR EXTRAS: If you're looking for an upgraded experience you can subscribe to HER Premium to see who's online now, filter by sexuality and so much more.

We offer 3 types of subscriptions for HER Premium Memberships
1 Month: starting at $14.99
6 Months: starting at $59.99
12 Months: starting at $89.99

Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase
Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off in the iTunes Store at least 24hrs before the end of the current period.
Current Her Premium subscription price starts at $14.99 USD/month and are listed in full above.
Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.
No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during the active subscription period.
More details on Her Premium can be found at:

What’s New

Version 6.10.16

- Some corrections for incorrect app behavior in a few places.

Ratings and Reviews

3.9 out of 5
873 Ratings

873 Ratings

Plessy25 ,

Early days, but seems ok & was recommended by a friend

I’ve only just joined ‘Her’ on a free basis, amongst some other sites I’ve also joined.

So far, I have to say that I seem to have gained
far more interaction with people than I have had elsewhere, plus it’s significantly cheaper it seems.

I’ve managed to get talking to a few women already, which, given our current lockdown situation, is nice to be able to do.

The only element I really DON’T like about it is the
number of so called ‘likes’ I’ve received from girls-I can’t even call them women, they’re just not-who are thirty years or more younger than I am, I mean I don’t consider myself old, at 52 years old, but come on, 18-25 year olds interested in a woman of 52?

What’s that all about, or have I been out of the dating game for so many years that I’m missing something here? I would far have preferred a site that limits its age groups so that there are only people of similar ages, but maybe that’s just not cost effective for them to do?

K1M1L1P ,

Improvements Needed

Downloaded the other day and I’m already noticing a few issues with the experience.

Firstly, although the dating app scene is crowded these days, HER still has an opportunity to lead the way for the LGBTQ scene if it focuses on how people actually date and want to find people etc so that they’d be willing to pay. The reality is though, the experience without a sub is pretty poor so why would I? But seriously, could you BE anymore expensive?

1 - The name still really confuses me as it’s not exactly inclusive to the FULL market it’s targeting?

2 - I will suddenly get an in-app notification saying someone likes me and it pushes me to tap the notification icon. However, once in there - I can’t do anything BUT like the profile? I can’t exit, I can’t view their profile - it forces me to like as I’m blocked in. I have to shut the app down and when I return to my notifications, that profile isn’t there. However; moments later, it suddenly appears again - blocking me from doing anything.

3 - Why can’t I edit a text block in my profile? I have to delete it or write a new one.

4 - I find the grid design within a profile very basic and the fact that if someone writes a long paragraph of text, it’s not ideal to scroll within a image/light box view - too many different interaction types (swipe left/right, scroll up/down etc).

This is my 2/3 day review but I’m sure I will have more feedback as I *potentially* continue using without subscribing.

bellaas_x ,

It WAS a great app

I really enjoyed using this recently. I only got it yesterday and I’ve had a good time talking to people since. Unfortunately, I’ve been having this weird bug where the notifications keep popping up to say people have liked me but I can’t open the app past the splash screen. It just says “HER” in the centre of the screen and doesn’t load past that. I’ve turned my phone on and off again thinking it might have been on my end but that didn’t work. I’m considering deleting it and just trying a different app, because the notifications are building up and I’m the kind of person who REALLY needs to clear notifications lol

I really have enjoyed using HER. So I hope this gets fixed soon x


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Requires iOS 10.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad and iPod touch.


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Age Rating
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
In-App Purchases
  1. Her Premium £13.99
  2. Her Premium £13.99
  3. Her Premium £9.49


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