Mattr - Date Different 17+

Chat match & make new friends

Mattr Social

    • 3.3 • 53 Ratings
    • Free

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We've just launched and we're available to London users on IOS. Check back here to watch us as we grow and come to a city near you!


At Mattr, we're not just another dating app.

We're here to revolutionise the industry and create a better experience for you. We've seen the data, and it's not good—overwhelming, lack of trust, pessimism, and severe accessibility features. That's why we're asking you to "Date Different" to let you be the real you, without any pressure, in a supportive and protective environment.

Here's how we're going to do that:

Safety comes first for us. Everyone is welcome on Mattr, except for fish of the cat variety! We take the time to verify every single profile that joins our platform, ensuring that people are who they say they are. We have a zero-tolerance policy for problem users, so they won't reenter our community. It's something that should be standard on every app, but we wonder why it isn't.

We believe in relaxed connections. We understand that dating app addiction is a real issue, and that's why we limit your daily profiles to a maximum of seven. Take your time, read through the profiles, and explore what they have to offer beyond the surface. You won't have to deal with mindless swiping either. You can view all seven profiles without any pressure to make an immediate decision. Plus, you can save profiles and come back to them later. No rush, just results!

Inclusivity is at the core of our app. We know that 20% of our users will be neurodiverse, and we're here to support them. Feeling overwhelmed? Use our "Time Out" toggle to hide your profile temporarily and let your matches know you're taking a break. If you want to connect with others in the neurodiverse community, you can add the ND logo to your profile. We also proudly support the LGBTQ+ community with over 10 gender options. Equality is a commitment we stand by.

We understand that not everyone wants the same kind of relationship or the same pace of meeting in person. That's why we offer four different relationship types, from committed to casual. You can also let others know whether you're looking to meet right away or prefer to take your time. We want to help you find someone who's on the same page.

No discriminatory algorithms here. Unlike other dating apps that rely on collaborative filtering, which can perpetuate biases and make certain profiles invisible, we do things differently. We show you profiles based only on your search settings and personality, which we get from your quiz answers. We regularly update these questions, ensuring you can match with someone who shares your thoughts on the latest drama or whether they're definitely a dog person over a cat person.

We're not just about matching; we're about building a community. We work with brand partners to offer perks and discounts to our community members, from affordable beers for picnics to hydration tablets for the day after. And we're committed to educating our audience through content that goes beyond just facilitating matches. Whether it's learning how to date someone with ADHD or discovering the top budget-friendly places to date in London, we're here to help your relationship grow.

We know the importance of offline interactions too. After spending so much time indoors, we're all craving real-life connections. That's why Mattr members have exclusive access to offline events covering various themes. We've got you covered from casual drinks evenings to thought-provoking panel discussions.

At Mattr, we're on a mission to improve online dating. We value your individuality, respect your mental well-being, and we hope you'll join our community of like-minded individuals. We wouldn't be anything without our amazing community.

If you have any questions or need support, reach out to us at

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What’s New

Version 1.2.8

Fixed an issue where matches would not change over time.
Added the ability to tap to view a connection directly.
Small bug fixes.

Ratings and Reviews

3.3 out of 5
53 Ratings

53 Ratings

marie_elaiana_ ,

Frustrating interface and clunky design

The design of the app is frustrating as the selections cover the actual profiles so it’s not possible to like profiles - especially the first profile which is the most important. The fact I can’t delete and eliminate the profiles I don’t like is awkward and frustrating. I can’t believe they’ve designed app for neurodivergent people to make it the most unsatisfying and frustrating experience. I’ve just joined but unlikely to stay due to the clunky interface and the lack of control I have when looking at profiles. I’d this was fixed the app could garner more appeal

Developer Response ,

Heyy, thank you for the feedback. The team is currently working hard to fix the issue causing the selection to cover the profile and stopping users from accessing the first profile on certain devices. To pass on profiles you don't like, you can click on the profile and you will see an 'x' button on the bottom right of your screen. If you have any other feedback or require any other support, please email us on Thank you, Mattr Team

Ellis2902 ,

It's different from other dating apps

I was a bit hesitant to download another dating app but I can honestly say it's way different form the rest. I find that you get more insight into peoeole's personalities through their profiles and it's nice not being on it all day long.

max - web dev ,

Dead and badly built

The whole thing for guys with dating apps and the only real way it works for them is using it as a numbers game, this stops you from doing that so as a guy totally pointless to use and you’ll be on there for months with 3 matches, what’s the point, think if they want this to be actually usable for men then the whole thing needs to be redesigned, unimpressive to say the least, 4 a day means I’ll be here longer than I have alive, beyond pointless, plenty of experience using and being a software engineer building dating apps and this one has missed the mark by a long shot. Don’t waste your time.

Developer Response ,

Hello, Thank you for your feedback. At Mattr, we pride ourselves with quality over quantity when it comes to creating meaningful connections. We have done extensive research and gathered feedback on the specific needs of neurodiverse individuals as well as neurotypical users who are fed up of constant swiping in the hope of making genuine connections. Our app has been meticulously designed to take all these various needs into account and therefore we provide all our users (regardless of gender) 4 connections that refresh daily. This provides our users the opportunity to message 4 different users every single day (before they see a new set of connections the following day) to form genuine connections, without having a sensory overload, decision paralysis or constant, meaningless swiping. In addition to this, all of our connections are made using our personality algorithm that matches users based on their interests and personality. We are changing the narrative and fighting back against capitalist algorithms that profit from users playing a 'numbers game' while also helping protect users from getting overwhelmed as well as providing a fair, inclusive and accessible experience for everyone. If you have any other feedback or require more support, please do not hesitate to reach out to us on Thank you, Mattr Team

App Privacy

The developer, Mattr Social, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Sensitive Info

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary based on, for example, the features you use or your age. Learn More

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