XOXO - Chat & Make New Friends 17+

Join Your Clan and Play Dating

Dmm Solutions Inc.

Designed for iPhone

    • 4.1 • 302 Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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This inclusive dating app for open-minded people left behind the suffocating gender-age-sexuality-body type filters for a gamified experience of getting to know others through their personalities.

A social network and a game as much as a dating app, XOXO is about meeting not just who YOU thought you would like but who WE think you might like.

Look deep into your mind and heart through a quiz. Discover yourself through a cute virtual totem that helps people see you from new angles. Use our estimate of your mental age as a different way to describe yourself. Get to know people of all backgrounds, genders, sexualities, and appearances that you connect on another level with. Customize and take care of your totem. Become a part of the community in chats assembled by personality type. Play through our challenges, show off your achievements. Build new experiences at the intersection of romance, sex, friendship, and camaraderie.

We do not intend filtration settings for your feed by gender, sexuality, age, or otherwise, so you could meet more people that we think you might like.

A cute avatar suggested by our quiz represents your personality type, letting other people get to know you from new angles. Your totem’s health is fueled by your swiping, messaging, and liking activity on the app.

We ballpark your “mental age” as part of the quiz—don’t you think that could be an interesting description point?

There is no traditional button for rejecting people—as we could all do with a little bit less explicit negativity in our lives.

A track of individual tasks rewarded with XP gains and badges helps you familiarize yourself with both the community and the environment.

Our “totally scientific” onboarding quiz looks deep into your mind and heart so you could discover yourself and meet more people like you.

Spaces of acceptance and understanding for folks with similar temperaments and personalities.

XOXO’s Privacy Policy: https://www.xoxo-app.com/pp.html
XOXO’s Terms of Use: https://www.xoxo-app.com/terms.html

What’s New

Version 4.21.1

Hey there, sweeties, how are you? Hope, y’all are doing well during these cold days! We don’t have much to tell you, besides some bug fixes that will make your experience with XOXO better. So it’s better you tell us what news do you have? How are spending your time? What movies you can’t wait to watch these months? Do you sleep enough and well? Tell this all in a groupchat to those you know for a while and to newcomers, who've just entered with the new update. Take care of yourself and stay tuned. XOXO!

Ratings and Reviews

4.1 out of 5
302 Ratings

302 Ratings

Rhys Coleman ,


How you can use this app and not come away satisfied is difficult to understand. That’s unless you’re looking for s e.x chat or something. In which case move along nothing for you here )) let’s keep this a secret for people who want something better. If you want fun then you might not like this app because most people on here won’t play I think. Most I chatted to since joining are pretty strict about what they want. I guess I can understand because it’s easy to get hurt dating online especially if you’re new to it. Good thing about this app is I think you won’t feel traumatised. I’ve been happy just sharing a lot of conversation and meeting people straight up

no one cares about the name ,

Great idea ruined by terrrible scummy moves

On the surface the app is a decent competitor to Tinder or Bumble, but the more you look the more you see the cash cow design it really is.
Starting with the profiles, most are legitamate, but after a good few swipes you start seeing bots. As I see the Developers making responses to reveiws heres a good one; Austin, Washington and California Are not all 7km away from me in the UK!!!

if you’re going to pad your users with fake bots. make them convincing, as well as the filter system not working and the better filtering being behind a paywall is very underhanded. it would be great if the people i saw were actually the age i set up and not 40 year olds in Belgium.
the automatic convosation starter is a great idea, but the bot accounts mess it up as they dont say anything, and the real accounts are all paranoid that you’re also a bot so no one trusts anyone. An overhaul in design and userbase is required but this is clearly a money trap for people who have lost hope at dating to find that special someone so if the developers do anything is a less possible outcome than me actually finding a decent dating app.

Developer Response ,

Hello, and thank you for your detailed feedback. We are sorry for the impression you have after using our app. We will be interested to make a detailed examination to understand what profiles you are referring to. Could you please contact us via support@cherishapp.com? We will be happy to improve the service and take the required measures taking into account your experience in the app. We will be looking forward to your letter.

Sophia Murphy. ,

Best app

I registered this app and straight away was shown a bunch of profiles and encouraged to start flicking through some matches. That happens a bit quick tbh and you don’t get enough chance to look around. I got so many messages from people before I hardly even worked out how the app works. They should slow down and give you chance to look around the app. Once I spent some time messing on the app I worked out how to use it and met some good people. Overall it’s been a good app with a lot of genuine replies and I think a possible place to find love

App Privacy

The developer, Dmm Solutions Inc., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Used to Track You

The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:

  • Identifiers

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Sensitive Info
  • Diagnostics
  • Other Data

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