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3rder is the No.1 threesome dating app and dating site where peculiar and open-minded couples and singles meet for fun!

Do you want to find some local people to explore new desired dating relationships? 3rder is definitely the best choice for you! 3rder provides a serious and anonymous community for all users to ensure that every user can really enjoy their time here. 3rder is a professional social application that helps people find their best curious dating partner. We strictly review each user's profile and exclude fake accounts from the system. We promise that we will never disclose user information to any third party. All your personal information, such as your email address, photos, address, is secured at our server and kept private.

3rder is the top dating app for hot hookup, on which you can easily get start with your unusual lifestyle. Now 3rder's user base is growing massively. Currently, it has over 1 million users, which provides you with more possibilities of exploring dating beyond the norm. Before signing up on 3rder, please make sure you are an adult over the age of 18. In addition, please make sure that you have read our user policy carefully and if any rules are broken, your account is likely to be prohibited from the app. Now you can start your dating journey.

There are some top cities where 3rder are most welcomed:
United States: San Diego, Atlanta, Chicago, Michigan, New York City (NYC), Los Angeles, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington DC
Australia: New Zealand, Sydney, Melbourne, Western Australia, Queensland
Canada: Toronto, Ontario, Quebec, Vancouver, BC, Alberta, Edmonton
United Kingdom (UK): England, Ireland, Scotland, London, Dublin.

Subscription options for VIP membership service:

1-month subscription with auto renewal: $9.99
3-month subscription with auto renewal: $24.99
6-month subscription: $39.99

**Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.

Please note that with all subscriptions:

– No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during active subscription period.
– Payment will be charged to iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
– Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
– Account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period, and identify the cost of the renewal
– Subscriptions may be managed by you and auto-renewal may be turned off by going to your Account Settings after purchase
– Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited when the user purchases a subscription to that publication, where applicable

See our Terms of Use Agreement below for more information on our cancellation policy.

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Special notice for using 3rder:
- No sexually explicit contents
- No personal contact information in your photos and anywhere else in 3rder app.
- No advertisement

What’s New

Version 4.4.0

1. Display bug fixed in IOS14
2. New design adopted in Connection module
3. Other bugs fixed

Ratings and Reviews

4.0 out of 5
9.2K Ratings

9.2K Ratings

xXCamkiller518Xx ,


It has its perks but it’s a money grab through and through. You’re forced to pay a HIGH amount in order to chat directly with people on app. Should you try to work around the system and list your outside contact info they block it from view so that you’re forced to purchase. There’s also the issue of distance and age preference. The age preference modifier isn’t easy to find, but it’s accessible. The distance modifier is completely inaccessible until you sign up and pay the HIGH rate. The interface is also clunky and a chore to get through from one account to the next.

All that said it’s worth downloading to check for yourself. The app is minimally to mildly functional without paying. It definitely needs A LOT of improvement, but it’s better than a lot of the other apps out there. I would advise Tinder, Bumble, Pure or Hinge over this any given day

ArtMetalDude ,

Change the name of the app to Groundhog Day

This app is the definition of “waste of time”. I made a profile, like & dislike profiles I see... then the next day my profile didn’t exist and had to start over again. Day two: made a profile, like & dislike profiles. Day three: I open the app to find out that my picture was deleted because it violated their terms... it was a picture of me from the waist up, wearing normal clothes, my face was not obscured in any way. I found it bizarre so I searched the app to see what “terms” this picture could have violated but couldn’t find it. Used a different picture then swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous day. Day four: my second photo was was deleted because it violated their terms; still don’t know what the terms are and why a clear picture of my face and torso wearing clothes isn’t acceptable. Uploaded another picture and then swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous two days. Day five: the first day that my profile and/or picture wasn’t deleted. However, I swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous three days. Completely waste of time. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me; fool me five days in a row... negative review. The people on the app may be real people but the app doesn’t work in its most basic functions so you’ll never meet anyone on it.

ashen saint ,

Potential, but slapped together

The UX of the app itself leaves much to be desired. There’s no clear way to directly go to editing your profile or what you are looking for. An edit icon on your picture assumes picture editing, not profile. Each of the search options (search, square, newbies, nearby) etc doesn’t really make sense which leads me to my next point.

LOOKING FOR. If you are a couple looking for a female, for example, only females looking for couples should show in your search results. Specifically bisexual females. Why are straight women, men, and couples showing in our feed and why are we showing up in the feed of men and couples who are then allowed to try and contact us? This should be a basic feature and easy to implement but again this seems like a lazy developer choice to make it seem like there are more available users. Instead when searching I have to click the profile itself and verify this is a bisexual female looking for FM couples so we don’t waste theirs or our time.

So far no luck with this app and feeling frustrated because of poor implementation.


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App Privacy

The developer, 长安 毛, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content
  • Identifiers

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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