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Your dating guide. Not another dating app.

CanWe provides research-backed guidance on how to approach intentional dating - get clear on what you and your date are looking for, faster.

“Nearly Half of U.S. Adults Say Dating Has Gotten Harder for Most People in the Last 10 Years” - Pew Research

Dating is frustrating. We lose years of our lives pursuing the wrong relationships with the wrong people.

So we created a fun, easy way to ask the right questions from the start.

Don’t float through dating. Get to the heart of it.

CanWe is your expert guide. Get direct answers to the hard questions you should be asking early as you date.

Don’t float through dating. Ask the right questions from the start so you can be more confident - is this the right relationship with this person?

Communicate your big needs and see where you’re in sync and where you’re not.

How it works:

1. Select the intention that you want to explore and fill out the questions with your own answers, privately.

2. Share the app with your date.

3. Connect in person to see where you align. Choose to see only the things you agree on, or all of it.

Stay together or move on.

Top Features Daters Love

Trusted Source
1,000+ hours of research with sociologists and psychologists to create the intentions, questions and experience.

Easy and Fun
From our users:
“CanWe cuts through a lot of the crap, which is great”
“...a total date changer! It serves as an excellent ice breaker and gets the hard questions out of the way fast.”

Control The Reveal
You fill out the questions in private and so does your partner. Then choose to see only the things you agree on, or all of it.

Data Privacy
Your answers remain private for you to intentionally share with the right date at the right time.

What’s New

Version 3.1.5

Improvements and bug fixes

Ratings and Reviews

4.4 out of 5
13 Ratings

13 Ratings

Destiny0177 ,

Direct answers, easygoing conversations

I’m in love with this app! There are so many things that are important to me in a long term relationship, and I’m a single mom - I do NOT want to waste my time with people who just don’t want the same things as me.

This app gives me a fun way to get direct answers to the questions I like to ask early, without risking coming on too strong. Highly recommend CanWe for getting on the same page as your partner!

jodyuf ,

Date changer!

Parallel is a total date changer! It serves as an excellent ice breaker and gets the hard questions out of the way fast. It helps you address the non-negotiables right away so you don’t waste any additional time. It also helps you learn more about what is important to you so you know exactly what you want in a relationship. I highly recommend this app!

Jack Skelington ,

Beautiful Interface - Great Potential

This app seems to be in an early stage, but I can see it gaining lots of traction upon taking off. Unspoken social contracts at the press of a button... Incredibly useful in these uncertain times.

Developer Response ,

Thanks, Jack. We've added Something Pandemic recently so two people can quickly compare their pandemic practices with each other (safely from 6ft away). Keeping each other healthy sometimes means there's a lot of nuances to talk about. Our hope is Parallel may help that conversation flow more quickly and honestly.

App Privacy

The developer, Unveil.Social, SBC, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • Contact Info
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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