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Match. Video Chat. Message.

CarpeDM integrated video chat platform makes online dating fun, fruitful, and efficient! Are you swiped-out, tired of racking up matches who never speak, being catfished, and engaging in dead-end texting? Make a real connection faster with our unique Match – Video Chat – Message process that requires users to video chat before engaging in conventional texting! Think of it as a mini-date before you invest too much of your time in someone with no potential. Get to know your match quickly, flirt face-to-face, and then decide whether you want to continue communicating or be free to meet other singles on the app!

How it Works.

Sign-up is simple, fast, and FREE! Users create profiles with unique usernames that keep their personal details private. Users immediately get to browse potential matches through filtered options based on location, age, and sexual preference. Users get up to 5 “matches” per day. Users have 48 hours to host a 5-10 minute in-app video chat with their match or lose their match. Users decide after their video chat if they want to remain matched. Users who agree to remain matched get to chat! Users who do not agree to remain matched are unpaired!

Why it Works.

Online dating is a great way to meet new people! However, as the pool of singles engaging in online dating increases and our attention spans decrease, it is becoming more difficult to make a real connection. Swiping endlessly just to match with someone who never speaks or engaging in protracted texting for days is not an efficient way for singles to connect. By (1) limiting the number of matches a user can make per day; (2) requiring matches to video chat within 48 hours before they can text each other; and (3) allowing matches to unpair if there is no chemistry, CarpeDM’s users engage in an online dating process that encourages users to be thoughtful about who they like and is designed to drive real connections by improving the quality of their initial communication. While efficient, CarpeDM is also super convenient – host your video chat from anywhere! We’ve all got 5 minutes to invest in meeting someone special!

Secure. Private. Safe.

Keep your personal details private until you’re more comfortable with your match. (1) create a unique username and only reveal your real name after your successful video call; (2) host your video chat within the app, no need to share your phone number, WhatsApp ID, Facebook, etc.; (3) learn what you need to know about your match with a 5-10 minute video chat before investing your time texting them for days – no more catfishing, bots, or scammers! Most importantly, gain a higher level of trust and comfort before meeting up with your match in person!

What’s New

Version 1.10

Minor bug fixes and UI improvements.

Ratings and Reviews

4.7 out of 5
33 Ratings

33 Ratings

myersdd ,

I don’t have time for wasted dates ...

... And this app prevents time and energy wasted getting ready and going out with someone I don’t have chemistry with. I’m all about efficiency and this just makes dating a lot less sucky.

Kmrob2 ,

Innovative dating app!

Carpe DM is a fresh take on dating apps. It gives people a chance to make an authentic connection. Also, I feel safer as a woman to do some fun due diligence via video call before I go out on a date. Love this!

Stillmatic8503 ,

Great app

Very user friendly. I really like the app so far. Still learning the tools but I enjoy its ease of use.


Carpe Diem Social LLC
74.9 MB

Requires iOS 11.4 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.



Age Rating
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
This app may use your location even when it isn't open, which can decrease battery life.
In-App Purchases
  1. Five Seizes Pack $0.99
  2. MatchTime $0.99


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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