eharmony: dating & real love 17+

Match. Date. Find Real Love

    • 4.0 • 36.5K Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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Are you ready to take dating to the next level and find the relationship you’ve always wanted? eharmony, the No.1 trusted dating app*, has helped over 2 million couples find real love. Download and join free to find out why compatibility matters.

When it comes to dating, compatibility matters. That’s why we’ve created our unique Compatibility Matching System to ensure each of your matches are based on qualities that are important to you. Compared to other dating apps, we make finding love simple. We’ll guide you through the process in three easy steps:

Your dating journey on our dating app starts with the Compatibility Quiz. Because we get to know you better so we can match you better.

Your answers to the Compatibility Quiz are compiled to create a Personality Profile, an informative report about your character, lifestyle, relationship behavior and communication style. The results allow eharmony to do the work for you and match you with compatible singles.

It’s finally time to start dating. Through your Discover List you’ll have access on each members' profile so you can better understand who they are as a person. The list is constantly updated as new members join so you’ll never miss an opportunity to fall in love.

It’s time to connect with compatible members and meet new people! Try one of our different communication features: Send a smile, start a conversation with an icebreaker or use our similarities cards to explore interesting and character traits you and your match share.

eharmony is the #1 Trusted Dating App. We have a skilled in-house Trust and Safety team to ensure our platform is safe, inclusive, and welcoming to every member of our community.

"eharmony claims to have the most advanced match-making system, and be the best site for finding love. This approach definitely makes them stand out from more casual dating apps like Tinder or Bumble." — (Observer)
"The app serves you connections based on values..." — (PC Mag UK)
"The OG dating site that focuses on lasting relationships through compatibility..." — (Techcrunch)


The Basic Membership is your default free membership upon joining. Begin understanding the online dating experience and learn about the app before upgrading to Premium. Some limitations may apply.

The Premium Membership is not free, but it is worth it. This gives you full access to all of eharmony’s functions and capabilities, making it much easier to find a connect with your ideal partner.

Membership structure – Online dating is a journey and shouldn’t be rushed. We believe that shorter plans don’t give you the time to properly get to know your matches, which is why we offer our Premium Membership in 6, 12, or 24-month plans.

Download our dating app today and find your real love.

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*Based on 2020 Survey of 1,067 Respondents from the US, UK, Canada and Australia

What’s New

Version 10.33

This update includes bug fixes and quality improvements.

Ratings and Reviews

4.0 out of 5
36.5K Ratings

36.5K Ratings

Lovetosimg ,

Found my match on eHarmony!

I was quite skeptical at first having used other dating apps that this one would be any better. But based on recommendations I thought maybe I would find some like minded individuals on here that were serious about finding a real match and not just a Friday night date. One week after being on the app a man with no picture but a wonderful profile and match score reached out to me. He sent me photos and encouraged me to Google his full name. I’m telling you, don’t overlook those pictureless profiles. There are some hidden gems just concerned for their privacy. We clicked like no man I’ve ever connected with before. Our high match score was very accurate to our personalities and communication style. It just felt so comfortable from day one. I’m definitely convinced eHarmony’s algorithm works! I have several happily married friends who met through eHarmony so I’m very glad I listened to them and paid the extra investment to meet someone of character and quality that checks all the boxes of who I’ve been searching for. It’s format is so very easy to use, has some great questions that elicit personality and interests and makes for a very user friendly experience. The only thing I wish it had an easier way to delete your account. It took a lot of emails to customer service. Maybe just give subscribers a delete button with an Are you sure? Prompt. Otherwise totally happy!!

2020Firefly ,

Trust Eharmony’s Process

This was the 2nd time trying Eharmony after being divorced for 20 plus years. The first time was a good experience but didn’t find the Mr. Right but that is probably because I didn’t utilize it long enough or just maybe God had other plans. This past February after getting frustrated about dating again and about to give up I signed up with Eharmony second time. Within the third week I just wasn’t feeling it and didn’t see anyone who clicked for me and I was ready to give up so I logged off for a few days. Then I thought to myself, R.... you signed up for six months and you need to give it a little more time so I logged back on and found T.... within a few minutes. After reading his profile and looking at his pictures, I was intrigued so I sent him a smile. Within a few hours he was smiling back at me. We chatted through E for a few days. After learning that he loved God as much as I did and how easy it was to chat with him, we decided to meet in person the following weekend. That first date we both knew this was going somewhere. We spent the next day together after going to church. Three months in and we knew we were going to get married. We plan to wed in October. True love and the right person is out there. Don’t give up. Let Eharmony help you find the right person with their process. I highly recommend it.

Developer Response ,


Thank you for sharing your success with us! We’re glad you found someone special through eharmony. We'd love to hear more. If you're interested in sharing your story with us, please head to our Help Pages (linked at the bottom of our website) and search for "Success" to get in touch with us. We look forward to hearing from you

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This is a scam, save your money.

I have a STRONG feeling the 5 star reviews are bots or paid reviewers meant to offset the volume of 1-2star reviews. It’s cheaper and easier than listening to the feedback and changing.
First the price, this is ungodly expensive. They claim it is because of the research it took to make their gimmicky test. Let’s be honest this site is almost over 20 years old, the test has long since been paid for. And to add insult it’s not really a ‘monthly’ subscription if you are forced to pay in 4 lump payments. The word you were looking for is ‘quarterly’….
Second, NOBODY is using this. I am just outside DC, one of the most densely populated ‘single yuppie’ areas in the country. There are a Handful of profiles. Not a handful that I liked or matched with, a handful period. And of those most were dead profiles. This is probably due to the prohibitive cost driving everyone to competitor apps, which is where I will be heading.
Conclusion, this may have started as a legit dating sight but they have not adjust or innovated at all to keep pace with the competition. Now the bulk of their revenue is people paying their prohibitive cost once then leaving seeing it’s crap and leaving. Save your money, it’s a scam.

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The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:

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The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
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