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FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App 17+
Love kink? Chat. Meet. Date.
Ideawise Ltd.
Designed for iPhone
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- Free
- Offers In-App Purchases
iPhone Screenshots
Description
BEING NORMAL IS BORING...
Tired with the bog-standard dating apps? At FET we're unique, kinky and unapologetically open. Whether you’re kink-curious or a BDSM lover, you'll be at ease in our diverse and inclusive kinky BDSM dating community. Strap yourself in for BDSM dating with fellow kinksters that's out of this world!
DISCOVER KINKSTERS JUST LIKE YOU
Finding and staying in touch with fellow kinksters is easy with our 24/7 newsfeed, free messaging, forum and live chat. If you're looking for that special sub-one, there are kinksters for everyone out there in the Kink & BDSM dating community - or right here at your fingertips. With just a few simple taps, start chatting with kinksters near you.
WE’RE EDUCATIONAL!
New to the FET lifestyle, or an experienced kinkster looking to develop your kink and BDSM knowledge? FET is a safe place to learn and explore. With our rich BDSM and kink educational resources, get inspired by any subject in the FET universe. Whatever your kink, we support and encourage our BDSM dating community to share and learn from each other to master their kinky lifestyle, so come on in, get kinkd up with us!
LET US SERVE YOU
FET is the place to uncover more about Kink and the BDSM lifestyle, find munches, kinky parties, BDSM dating and more. You’ll be sure to find like-minded kinksters who share your fantasies. No matter where you are - whether playing in the deepest darkest of dungeons or out and about - the FET community is here for you!
WHAT’S IN YOUR KINKY BAG OF TRICKS?
Whip your profile into shape. Upload that sultry selfie and tell kinksters a bit about your kinky self. ;) Safely share your photos and show off your kinky FET lifestyle...
BDSM = SAFETY & PRIVACY FIRST
With great kink comes great responsibility #SSC: For added confidence and a #kinktastic BDSM dating experience, anyone can verify their profile for free on FET. Having a verified kinkster profile is an excellent way to show other kinksters in the BDSM dating community that you're authentic and not a bot. And with privacy and message filters, we put you in control of what you want to view and share.
WELCOME TO YOUR NEW KINKY WORLD
Our vision is to be the world's most trusted Kink & BDSM dating community. A safe, sane and consensual home for kinksters and the kink-curious that demystifies alternative lifestyles and provides a user-friendly dating solution.
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The app is free to download and use. FET also offers an optional subscription package.
Subscription Service Conditions:
• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency).
• Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period
• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase
• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.
More details here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
All personal data is handled under the terms and conditions of FET's privacy policy. More details can be found here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
What’s New
Version 12.1.0
Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET
Ratings and Reviews
Be careful or you could be banned
I was enjoying my chats on here but I was banned. I asked a simple question about whether or not I could link to another site in my profile. They banned me for asking a question to the welcomer in my private chat. The reason I asked is because I have a lot more pics than just the ones I’d share during chat. I didn’t want all my pics to be on Fet because you are re-routed to their website for certain ones. I was trying to overcome body-shame and maybe I went overboard with the exhibitionism and desire to connect. But honestly, without beautiful pictures of bodies these apps can’t stay in their business. There’s no need to draw lines about where someone is allowed to put their own body’s image, on one website or more. I didn’t share any links to any other websites that had photos of me - I asked the leaders, and instead of being told “No you can’t do that here” I was banned without a word about it. I wasn’t sure if this was the only reason - the “Upgrade” button was still coming up each time I tried to access content. I pretty much made it three days before I was banned. If you enjoyed chatting, thank you, you were all very beautiful. Those few of you I interacted with a lot - you helped me on my healing journey.
This app is sub par
I could write a novel on the inadequacies of this app. They “match” you with accounts that are inactive (most matches) or accounts that are 100+ miles away. The accounts that they suggest for you in the “members rear you” section are sometimes 5000+ miles away. Most are not within 100. Mind you I live in a city of over a million residents. It’s not like I’m rural. Many of the new member accounts are immediately flagged so you can’t message them until they are “reviewed” two women I know personally IRL have had their accounts flagged and deleted as suspicious so that’s probably partly why the app is a ghost town. Once you send one message to someone you are restricted until they message you back so you better be certain you’ve said what you want to say and that it doesn’t require follow up. There’s a number of things I can go on about but just know this app leaves A LOT to be desired is an understatement. Oh and If you buy points to highlight a message it’ll still tell you not enough points. It just does it randomly even if you have sufficient points. The icing on the cake is at the top they have a survey you can click on that says “tell us how we’re doing” and when you click on it. Instead of linking to the survey they liked to the survey THEY completed so it takes you to a page that says “great now you’ve completed a survey make one of your own” it’s quite literally the perfect example of everything wrong with this app.
Review
So I downloaded this app two months ago at first I really loved this app it seemed nice enough. However, in my first month with this app I discovered that it has sever flaws in its system. For example, the lobby at times can act like a mob. Where they pretty much go after newbies and trolls alike. Not thinking anything of it I joined in until I felt like it was a bit too much. Minus the snarky attitudes the next item on the list is the double standards for members. If someone pays they can blatantly post the N word in lobby and have no repercussions. However, if you role play then all of a sudden you the bad person. In my second month I discovered that you can use your points that you collect to achieve a membership. Which is great and all but it isn’t any better than a non paying member. Lastly if someone goes after you butting into your conversation when it isn’t warranted and they happen to be petty or childlike enough to report you the site will not contact you they just ban you. Over then that have fun getting screwed over. I am throughly disgusted and, glad for the ban. I do not nor will I ever recommend this site to anyone.
App Privacy
The developer, Ideawise Ltd., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
- Sensitive Info
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Location
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Sensitive Info
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- Usage Data
- Diagnostics
Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Ideawise Ltd.
- Size
- 118 MB
- Category
- Social Networking
- Compatibility
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- iPhone
- Requires iOS 12.4 or later.
- iPod touch
- Requires iOS 12.4 or later.
- Mac
- Requires macOS 11.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
- Apple Vision
- Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- Languages
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English, Czech, Dutch, French, German, Hungarian, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Polish, Portuguese, Spanish, Swedish, Turkish
- Age Rating
- 17+ Infrequent/Mild Profanity or Crude Humor Unrestricted Web Access Infrequent/Mild Mature/Suggestive Themes
- Copyright
- © Ideawise
- Price
- Free
- In-App Purchases
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- 1 Month membership $18.49
- 1000 Points $6.99
- 1 Month Membership $10.99
- 6 Month Membership $63.99
- 12 Month membership $90.99
- 10000 Points $44.99
- 6 Months Premium Membership $34.99
- 20000 Points $74.99
- 12 Months Premium Membership $59.99