HER: Lesbian LGBTQ Dating 17+

Date & Meet Queer LGBT Friends

Bloomer Inc

    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases



Join 10 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folkx on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here.

App Store Editors' Choice Award recipient 3 years running - HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, hookup, and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.

• Safe Queer Dating - match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
• Community - hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
• Stand Out - add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!

• Incognito mode - no one can see you unless you like them first.
• Additional search filters - find exactly who you're looking for.
• Online now - send a real-time hello to someone online!
• Ad-free experience - we won't interrupt your groove.

See you around!
Instagram & TikTok - @hersocialapp


We offer 3 subscriptions plans for HER Premium Memberships
1 Month: starting at $14.99
6 Months: starting at $59.99
12 Months: starting at $89.99

Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase.
Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off in the iTunes Store at least 24hrs before the end of the current period.
Current HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD/month and are listed in full above.
Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.
No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during the active subscription period.
More details on HER premium can be found at:

What’s New

Version 6.17.2

Bug fixes to make your experience better!

Ratings and Reviews

4.4 out of 5
40.1K Ratings

40.1K Ratings

Editors’ Choice

The HER dating app was originally conceived with the humble goal of providing lesbians with their very own dating app. Today, it provides a social space for queer ladies around the world of all affiliations (from lesbian to bisexual, pansexual to questioning) and gender identities to connect, share, and find love.

joey19787 ,

Thank you HER!!!

I could not give a better review. I was on the HER app for 3 years. In the 3 years on the application, I was kicked off 5 times for people believing I was a cis gender male and not a trans male. I met a few nice friends on this app, from my best friend to my future fiancé!! This is my primary reason for providing this testimonial. The last time I was kicked off HER, the HER team gave me a 3 year subscription plus unlimited match events. It was about a month and 3 years later; and I finally met HER on HER. I met the one!! Yes; the one we all wait for and gush after! We are now one of those happy success stories! I never thought I would meet "her" ever, BUT HER made it happen!! I could not be happier! My son and I finally have the family we have dreamed over and I have never felt happier. The happiness has trickled to my family and friends and we are all awaiting the special day!! It would not be possible without HER and the wonderful gift to this transman of free membership due to the discrimination. Thanks for taking care of the discrimination and thanks for helping me meet the woman of my dreams. She is a keeper and our love story will go down in books, thanks to her!

Developer Response ,

Congratulations! We love hearing these stories, and appreciate you taking the time out to tell us your amazing news! Thanks for your feedback. 🌈 If you don't mind, please fill out this typeform: https://her.typeform.com/to/x7PRxF, so that we can keep in touch, share your story on our social media platforms, and more.

Scorpious-02 ,

Decent dating app, could use some work

Recently came back to this app to discover that there’s a huge paywall impeding a lot of aspects. You need to pay for premium in order to access a lot of features, such as seeing everyone who liked you and having unlimited swipes. One thing I like is that you can actually see who liked you, but you can only see and swipe on a limited amount before you have to wait a day. Community is decent too—there’s sub communities you can upload messages and posts on. Bots are another issue, but are pretty much expected on any dating app. Just beware of the so-called “sugar mommas,” haha! I blocked one only for her to come back and attempt to friend me few hours later. No idea how that happened—it’s something that should probably be looked it, but just block them and move on.

Overall, this is a decent dating app catered primarily to LGBTQ+ identities. I appreciate the demographic this app is aimed towards (since I myself am part of the LGBTQ+) and you can meet a lot of different people on here—if they’re willing to reciprocate; you can’t “unmatch” people, btw. Although it’s not the best dating app, HER is entertaining and carries with it a big community; you can buy tickets for arranged events to meet up with members of the community or attend Zoom calls dedicated to topics that pique your interest. Community is important, and it’s something present on HER that I haven’t seen on traditional dating apps.

Developer Response ,

Thanks for sharing your feedback! Please feel free to email us at support@weareher.com to let us know what we can improve to create a better experience for you. Have an amazing day.


Feb 18

As a trans person, you’re already aware that you move through the world differently. What shall you watch out for?

SUN 12:30 PM

Celebrate the diversity and the Valentine with non-binary community. Join discussions and other events by HER.

MON 5:00 PM

Join our community. Meet bisex folks safely on screen. All you have to do is sign up and we will make the magic happen.

App Privacy

The developer, Bloomer Inc, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Used to Track You

The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Sensitive Info

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • Usage Data
  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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