HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating 17+

LGBT, Asexual & Friends Chat

Bloomer Inc

    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases



Join 13 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folks on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here.

App Store Editors' Choice Award recipient 3 years running - HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, hookup, and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.

• Safe Queer Dating - match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
• Community - hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
• Stand Out - add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!

• Incognito mode - no one can see you unless you like them first.
• Additional search filters - find exactly who you're looking for.
• Online now - send a real-time hello to someone online!
• Ad-free experience - we won't interrupt your groove.

See you around!
Instagram & TikTok - @hersocialapp


Her operates a global business, and our pricing varies by a number of factors. We frequently offer promotional rates - which can vary based on region, length of subscription, bundle size and more. We also regularly test new features and payment options.

Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase.
Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off in the iTunes Store at least 24hrs before the end of the current period.
Current HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD/month.
Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary and are subject to change without notice.
No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during the active subscription period.

More details on HER premium can be found at:

What’s New

Version 6.21.1

Happy Pride! Some small adjustments to make the app run with more fun

Ratings and Reviews

4.4 out of 5
50K Ratings

50K Ratings

Editors’ Choice

The HER dating app was originally conceived with the humble goal of providing lesbians with their very own dating app. Today, it provides a social space for queer ladies around the world of all affiliations (from lesbian to bisexual, pansexual to questioning) and gender identities to connect, share, and find love.

Scorpious-02 ,

Decent App

Excellent in the sense that it brings together a wide variety of LGBT+ identities. There’s a big community and even smaller sub-communities dedicated to varying interests. Bots and scammers can be an issue, but they’re easy to identify based on their copy-and-paste walls of text (“looking for a Sugar baby” lol) and lack of verification. Just block them and move on! There’s also an occasional nude posted to the main feed, which can be bothersome, but hey—people are horny. Regardless, there should still be some moderation on that front. Some people are actually trying to find someone to settle down with. On another note, a lot of users will complain that they can’t find “the one,” but that’s an issue revolving around the users—not the app itself. Can’t expect a partner to be handed to you on a silver platter! You gotta work towards them.
All in all, this is a decent app (though it’s got its small issues, as mentioned) to use if you’re looking to find a casual date or maybe even a friend. I wouldn’t recommend completely relying on HER to find “the one,” (as is the case with all dating apps) but you never know what you’re going to discover if you actively look for it. Good luck to everyone on HER! Hope you find what you’re looking for. :)


Developer Response ,

Thanks for sharing your feedback! Please feel free to email us at support@weareher.com to let us know what we can improve to create a better experience for you. Have an amazing day.

Ronreadz ,

I’m cool with her

Her is an ok app. It is a bit expensive and getting to your matches can be a little tricky without a subscription. My favorite part of the site is that I can use it as a trans woman to meet females and trans. Unfortunately, and this isn’t perhaps the fault of the her app, it can be tough market to meet up much with this app. I have zero problems meeting up with people on taimi and in the days when I had grindr no trouble there either, and I think I have met both more cisgender females and trans on both of those sites, strangely enough. Her’s primary user base isn’t as toxic as some others, but it also isn’t primarily geared to my demographic (although it gestures to being inclusive to a tran like me). Some of the females I have chatted with on her didn’t read my profile or said somewhat prejudicial things, but I’ve never been kicked off the app or anything. I just don’t think a lot of the women on her are looking for a trans woman, and if that’s you I don’t really know what to tell you as far as a solution. I see a lot more trans males on her than females, so I assume they are in a better position. it’s a lot easier to date men as a trans in my experience regardless of what app you use. However, I have had many likes and conversations and a few dates though her, and if you’re looking for your person, maybe you will meet her through this app. It’s definitely worth trying.

Developer Response ,

Thanks for sharing your feedback! Please feel free to email us at support@weareher.com to let us know what we can improve to create a better experience for you. Have an amazing day.



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Jun 21

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TUE 12:00 AM

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App Privacy

The developer, Bloomer Inc, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Used to Track You

The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Sensitive Info

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • Usage Data
  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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