iris: Dating and Relationships 17+

The Power of Mutual Attraction

Ideal Match

Designed for iPhone

    • 4.2 • 1.5K Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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We know how it feels to believe true love was not meant for you. To sense that the relationship you deserve is out of reach.

If you’re like us, you’ve been disappointed with typical online dating apps. You’ve wondered if endless swiping can ever lead to a relationship based on feelings of mutual attraction. We know you want to love and be loved. Still, it’s wrong that most dating apps make meeting someone feel like a roll of the dice.

Iris Dating was born from our founder’s frustration with typical dating apps and a desire to create an experience closer to how special relationships begin in real life.

That cute guy in the coffee shop; the beautiful woman on the train — we’ve all been smitten by someone at first sight. That’s the power of physical attraction. Iris Dating applies Artificial Intelligence to understand who you are attracted to and uses that understanding to present you with matches to people who also are attracted to someone like you.

Our team of passionate love geeks has put over 100,000 hours into understanding what drives attraction between two people. We’ve helped thousands overcome the typical shortcomings of online dating and meet a partner who wants to build a successful relationship. Mutually.

We are committed to helping you find someone you share a genuine attraction with so you can stop feeling like you have to settle in a relationship. The process is simple —

(1) Download the Iris Dating app;
(2) Teach our AI engine your preferences, and;
(3) See your matches based on mutual attraction.

Once you download the app and try our AI, you’ll have taken the first step to finding the relationship you deserve.

It’s time to stop wasting your time endlessly swiping and find reciprocal love. Download Iris today and discover what it feels like to start a relationship based on mutual attraction.

“Met a few good friends so far and the recent match... WOW! Most successful date I have had in years! This week will be the fifth time I see her in five weeks. See where this goes. If anyone is tired of typical online dating, iris sure can fix that problem.”
— Trent Silvernail

“Hi! I just wanted to let you know because of your app, I have a Valentine’s date tonight! Thank you so much. I really like the way your app is built. And the interface is very user-friendly and unique.”
— Chi

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What’s New

Version 8.7.0

Performance improvements and bug fixes

Ratings and Reviews

4.2 out of 5
1.5K Ratings

1.5K Ratings

Slay.Kay🌹 ,

So far so good/Room for improvement

It starts off like any other dating app. Age, interest etc. Then it does the initial face scan. At first I was like, but why how does that help with what I’m interested in. Then being someone with a degree in com science I realized no only is it for verification; but also to help see if I match anyone’s type in the future as well.

The “test” that determines our interest did indeed get better and more specific the 2nd round which does look promising. In addition to their being prospects of multiple nationalities.

My only insight would be to try to get pictures that look less like models. The backgrounds are all like google stock images. We signed our image away in a sense to be used for the app, why not use that. Also, try for maybe not just the same type of headshot. Some of us like build, tattoos or long hair on guys. Why not show the differences on that as well?

Developer Response ,

Thanks for your review! We'll take into account your recommendations for future releases. Stay with iris, more to come!

Omega_Edge ,

The AI is either blind or it is a sham

I decided to humor myself and try this app. I mean the concept seems relatively simple, it should be able to differentiate the features you’re looking for. To further enhance it, you also add photos whether it is of people you know or celebrities and it should be able to take those features and present you with matches similar. The first few levels of the AI seem to be doing that! Now the AI is sending me everything I don’t prefer! Including dudes dressed as women and dudes! Clearly even the features I’m looking for in WOMEN are not there! I’d like to think there’s some intelligence behind the AI being able to take what I told it was my interest and present me with that or nothing at all! If I could give it -99,000 stars I would! This is an epic fail and I would not recommend it. And for all intents and purposes, some of the choices they have given me, I would not even procreate with if it meant we were the last two people on the planet and I would just assume cutting off my member and devouring it if it meant preventing that!

curiousblueberryfriend ,

A two gender space

Many dating apps struggle to make their apps inclusive of more than those who fit into the gender binary. At the beginning Iris asks “what’s your gender?” To which there are two choices ~ man or woman and the underneath there are more options and I scroll down to gender fluid and I feel good about it and happy that I am represented there but then I go to the next page and Iris asks, “who should we show your page to people interested in men of people interested in women?” And I don’t know what to choose because I just picked my gender which is gender fluid so I think that my profile should be shown to people interested in gender fluid humans. It just doesn’t make sense that they have obviously worked to be a little bit inclusive in the first question and then fail to complete that inclusivity in the second question. Very odd. I always get my hopes up with new dating apps but they always end disappointing me and I end up just deleting them before getting started. It makes me sad.

Developer Response ,

Dear curiousblueberryfriend, thank you for your feedback. This is one of the features that we are working to improve asap. Sorry you haven't had the best experience so far.
We are happy to agree with accurate criticisms. It is essential for our ability to improve. Thank you!

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