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It’s like a fitness app for relationships.

Relationships – like anything worthwhile – take intentional commitment over time. Like physical fitness, healthy relationships are built on developing healthy habits. In the age of mobile devices, we have endless apps and other digital tools to help us clarify fitness goals, make plans to achieve those goals, track our progress, and even provide reminders toward objectives. But what if there was such a tool to support healthy relationships?

Love Nudge for Couples will help you put the concepts of The 5 Love Languages® into action in ways that are easy, obvious, and satisfying. This playful, engaging app helps couples be intentional and really connect when it comes to love. Learn your Love Languages, connect with your partner, exchange encouraging and playful nudges, set and track activity goals, and monitor each other’s love tank levels.

The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman has helped millions of couples strengthen their relationships… one language at a time. For well over a decade, The 5 Love Languages® by Dr. Gary Chapman, a perennial New York Times bestseller, has stood unrivaled in the love and relationships category. It was originally published in 1992.

* Please Note - Love Nudge for Love Nudge for Couples relies relies on a consistent internet connection. If you're not connected when you launch the app, or if you disconnect while you're using the app, Love Nudge will not perform as it should.

What’s New

Version 3.14

New with this release:
- Listen and subscribe to "A Love Language Minute" daily podcast featuring Gary Chapman
- Store a journal entry with each Love Tank update
- View personal love tank journal entries on stats screen
- Permanently delete your account from within settings
- Disconnect from your partner from the main settings screen
- Settings can now be accessed from the Resources screen
- Minor bug fixes

Please email us at support@lovenudge.app with your suggestions or questions.

Ratings and Reviews

4.6 out of 5
4.6K Ratings

4.6K Ratings

john_donahue ,

App has a serious flaw

I love the 5 Languages series. I have read them all and have taught some classes based on them. But the Love Tank meter has a serious flaw—you can’t update your love tank level unless you change the percentage. My wife and I have been in a new and incredible season of our love life together. When I first opened the app my love tank was 100% full and hasn’t diminished in the seven days since. I would love to be able to update the app do my amazing and wonderful wife could know that she has kept my love tank at overflowing for so many days in a row, but the only way I can accomplish an update would be to artificially lower the number from 100% and that would likely crush her. She has always had such a hard time speaking my love language(s) but lately she has been doing such an incredible job and I can’t use this one possible method to encourage her to keep pressing forward. She deserves the kudos and I really want her to gain the confidence she deserves from knowing my love tank has remained at an overflowing state for so many days in a row.

Developer Response ,

Hi john_donahue - 100% full for many days in a row is fantastic! You will be the envy of anyone who reads your review. We're glad to hear that The 5 Love Languages has been helpful for your relationship, and we're grateful for your feedback.

We listened! Version 3.10 of the app will be released this week and includes a fix for the issue you identified.

Thanks again for your helpful feedback. We hope to hear from you again!

Scot949 ,

Great Concept, Well Executed

I’ll just start out by saying that I think this is a terrific idea, and the app is flawlessly designed. It’s a great way to learn more about your significant other and express love in ways that are most meaningful to them. Reminders are very good, and there are plenty of terrific ideas for each love language contained in the app.

Caveat: both parties need to be on board and willing to commit to both use it, otherwise there is potential for some seriously hurt feelings. If you both want to build your relationship up, this could be a valuable tool to help with that. If one party is disinterested, it’s easy to get discouraged. I’m now the only person in my marriage using the app now, but that’s okay. Unconditional love is just that!

peshtigo joe ,

Simple but effective

My wife and I had some drastic schedule changes in the last couple months that had us both running on empty. This app gave us a reminder of what we know, and a simple but effective way to prompt one another on how to get back up to full. After two days of using the app my wife and I are both filled up. Also, I like that the goals can be given a frequency to remind me to do the things that she needs instead of dwelling on the things I want.

I give the app 3 stars because it doesn’t seem very sticky. There’s room to turn this into something that’s life changing rather than just helpful. I’d like to see more suggestions that could help us get new ideas when we feel stuck. Another thing that could help is adding quiz questions for one another to help us better learn each other’s love languages. My final thought is it may be interesting to have reports on when the Love tank is most likely to be empty. For example - tracking the hour updated and the date could show if the morning or evening is when we should be more proactive.


Moody Publishers Limited
55.9 MB

Requires iOS 8.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.



Age Rating
Rated 9+ for the following:
Infrequent/Mild Mature/Suggestive Themes
© Moody Publishers 2019


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