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Lisa A. Romano is a Certified Life Coach who specializes in codependency and narcissistic abuse. Through her personal struggles, she has found a way out of the confusion a codependent mind can be.

If you are struggling with feeling like you are invisible and secretly wonder if you are as worthy as others, you are in the right place.

The truth is, we've all been sold a bill of goods that just don't work. Until you get into the subconscious mind and heal the beliefs that have taken control over your life, no matter how grateful, forgiving, kind, or generous you are, you cannot experience joy.

If you have been taught that your feelings do not matter, you have also been brainwashed--yes--brainwashed to disown your connection to the sacred potential that resides in you.

Lisa's work is dedicated to helping YOU awaken to the power creator you truly are, whose psychological self has been battered and brainwashed by outside influences.

Science knows that what children experience in their childhoods becomes the framework for their future adult lives. What you do not know IS hurting you Dear One, and these affirmations and daily teachings will help you figure out what is keeping you stuck.

We build upon these foundations with strategies, looking at the ‘why’ behind our behaviours and how we can ensure we can use objective self-reflection as the fuel to live free and whole.

As an exclusive paid subscriber, you will receive access to a wide range of themed series that focus on the practical steps you need to take to unlock your Divine Self.


Created by Lisa A. Romano, Breakthrough Life Coach and Bestselling Author, a social community of 380,000+ people from all over the world who have discovered freedom from codependency and abuse.

The Loving the Self Affirmations App delivers daily inspiration to inspire, challenge and encourage you to breakthrough limiting mindsets and beliefs that would keep you trapped in the cycle of narcissistic and codependent relationships.


Features include:
- Beautifully designed downloadable Wallpapers each day.
- Daily messages from Lisa A. Romano written to support you on the journey to a loving, whole, healed and abundant life.
- Daily Encouraging Notifications (free feature - no subscription required)
- Beautiful and minimalistic user interface.
- Easily share the messages with friends or on social media.
- Customizable notifications to remind you to read at a time that suits you.
- Search by series.
- Adjustable font size.
- Save and favorite your favorite messages.
- Dark mode for low-light reading and battery saving.


Subscriber’s Automatic-Renewal Feature

Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period. Your iTunes account will automatically be charged at the same price for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period (another year for annual subscribers, another month for monthly subscribers) unless you change your subscription preferences in the account settings.
You can manage your subscriptions through your Account Settings after purchase. No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during active subscription period.

Terms Of Use: http://app.lovingtheselfapp.com/terms-of-use
Privacy Policy: http://app.lovingtheselfapp.com/privacy-policy


What’s New

Version 1.0.6

Bug fixes and improvements

Ratings and Reviews

4.4 out of 5
17 Ratings

17 Ratings

Astrogirl127 ,

Best app I have ever downloaded

I was struggling for so long. I felt crazy, disconnected, alone, misunderstood and deeply hurt. I couldn’t put into words why I felt all of these things especially when I am married to the love of my life and have the most amazing son in the world. I have always really struggled with self love or better put a complete lack of self love or self esteem. I was seeking some sort of app that would give me self love affirmations every day. I found Lisa’s app and I found so much more than just self love affirmations. What Lisa writes every day speaks directly to my soul. It helps me understand why I have been feeling so lost and so damaged for so long. She puts into words clearly what the problem is. Not only that but she tells you how to fix the problem by getting right to the root of it. I don’t feel crazy anymore because everything that she describes is exactly what I have experienced. I just didn’t know there was a name for it, codependency. Thank you Lisa for helping me on my journey in ways you couldn’t possibly know. You have been my life line as I read your messages every morning and find more freedom and self love every day.

Developer Response ,

Hey Astrogirl127, thank you very much for your inspiring words. Also, thank you so much for allowing us to be part of your life in such a personal way. So glad that you are really loving the App. Much love and many thanks from all of us in the LTSA App Team.

JmanPF ,

My path to healing

My father was diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder after we had already lived with thirty years of damaging and confusing behaviour. Now in my late thirties, I’m finally finding the tools I need to find healing within and to create healthier means for me to rebuild my life with, and this App, Lisa’s work, has been instrumental in my recovery. Not only does Lisa’s work help me clearly see what narcissism is, and the impact it has, and how it shapes it’s victims, she gives you road maps and steps to untangle the hook of it in your life. Inspirational and practical at the same time. I had been following Lisa on Insta for some time, but this App provides me with detailed and daily help to get my life back on track. The App itself is beautiful and easy to use, and I’m really enjoying it. Thank you, Lisa and team!

Developer Response ,

Thank you for this kind and wonderful review. So grateful to hear how Lisa's work has had such a healing effect in your life. On behalf of Lisa, much love and many thanks, from Jesse.

Haven Print Co. ,

Something to look forward to everyday

Love this app! After years of working on myself, this is the perfect boost I need everyday to keep up the positive thoughts in my life!

I’ve been following Lisa’s work for years now after suffering narcissistic abuse. Lisa’s words and affirmations have helped me not only make sense of my life but reroute my life’s path. I look forward to every affirmation every day. It is a great reminder and boost that I am enough, especially when I am feeling down.

One thing I like about this app is that it’s different than Instagram. On Instagram, I had to create a fake account just to follow lisa - as I was terrified that the narc in my life would see me following and commenting on her posts. This app has none of that. There is nothing to worry about. Love it!

Developer Response ,

Thank you for this kind and generous review! I can now see how important it is to stay anonymous from a narcissist and we are grateful that this App can play a small part in helping you find some healing and direction is a safe way. Sending you much love on behalf of Lisa, and a huge thank you for downloading and supporting via the App. Cheers from Jesse (and Lisa)

App Privacy

The developer, New Luminary Media Pty Ltd, has not provided details about its privacy practices and handling of data to Apple. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

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The developer will be required to provide privacy details when they submit their next app update.


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