Mend, the #1 Breakup App, is a self care app for heartbreak that guides you through your breakup day by day. Breakups hurt, but we believe that heartbreak can be transformational with support. Our personalized self care program helps you feel better, faster. Join Menders in over 195 countries who’ve completed over 2 million training activities and counting!
Our most popular training topics are:
- letting go of your ex
- what to do when you can’t stop thinking about your ex
- social media & your ex
- rebuilding your single identity
- dealing with loneliness
- self care & self compassion
- healthy relationships
- how to take care of yourself post-breakup
- how to rebuild after a divorce
- preparing for your next relationship
THE REVIEWS ARE IN:
“App Store’s Best of 2018.” –Apple
“A personal trainer for heartbreak.” –The New York Times
“Mend isn’t just a breakup coach; it’s an entire community for the brokenhearted.” –Business Insider
"Heartbreak healer." -Goop
"Mend guides you through the healing process, helps you avoid negative behaviors and is extremely soothing." –Mashable
“So now you know where to go when your heart next gets broken.” –Cosmopolitan
“Mend is cheaper than a bottle of whiskey -- and less awkward than a drunk text.” –Men’s Health
“Although it doesn’t come with a virtual Kleenex box, Mend brings together multiple schools from hard data and scientific research to nutrition, yoga and mindfulness to create a well-rounded approach to healing heartbreak.” –Evening Standard
You can also visit us at letsmend.com and @letsmend.
HOW IT WORKS:
Every day, you’ll check in, listen to a short audio training that will help you with your breakup and complete a guided journaling activity. You will also have 24/7 access to a stream of advice, stories and interviews that will keep you motivated and inspired.
WHAT HAPPENS NEXT:
Each week, you’ll select themes you’d like to focus on, which we’ll use to completely personalize your Mending journey as you move further from the breakup and focus on rebuilding a life you love.
We are a female-founded startup based in Los Angeles. Elle, our founder, started Mend because she went through a breakup and couldn’t find any affordable support that resonated with her. She launched letsmend.com and Mend with the mission to mend broken hearts.
LISTEN TO TRAINING:
Listen to short, bite-sized trainings every day that will help you mend. You can become a member to unlock more daily training.
TRACK YOUR PROGRESS:
We never get sick of hearing about your breakup. Keep track of Days Since Breakup, Days Since Last Ex Contact and Self Care Activities as you mend. We also ask a daily question about your breakup to help you reflect, and you can write in your confidential journal whenever you need to get something off your mind.
Read authentic and heartfelt stories and advice about heartbreak, relationships and love from our amazing community of Menders.
To unlock daily audio trainings, we offer auto-renewing subscriptions. All subscriptions auto-renew at the end of each term and your credit card will be charged through your iTunes Account. You can turn off auto-renew at any time from your iTunes Account Settings. All purchases are final. Refunds will not be issued for any unused portion of the subscription term.
Please call 911 immediately if you believe that you or someone you know will harm themselves. Mend is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, treatment, medical treatment, psychotherapy, counseling, or mental health services.
Terms of Service: letsmend.com/terms
* We bring you regular updates to our app to keep your mending experience smooth
Ratings and ReviewsSee All
Built with love, needs work
Sometimes this app says exactly what you need to hear. Sometimes it makes you think of things you never would have thought of, teaches you about yourself, tells you everything will be okay and makes you believe it. These are beautiful things. However, it’s undercut significantly by glitches within the app. Although the interface is incredibly simple (it looks like a chat between you and your friend), it glitches almost daily by duplicating responses and questions. This is annoying, but fine. Today, my training was a disaster. I specified that I was broken up with, and that the reason was “fell out of love”, meaning my partner no longer loved me and broke up with me. Today, my training was taken from the switched perspective, and I had to listen to two minutes of “maybe if you’re willing and your partner is willing, you may fall in love again!”. It was cruel to hear about a reality that is not possible, but one I want. To top it off, the journal prompt was “What factors contributed to me falling out of love with my partner?”. My answer: “I didn’t.”
The app should make sure trainings like this are not available to those who have been broken up with, because otherwise, it makes a crappy day so much worse for it’s paying users.
A LIFE SAVER!
MEND app has helped me grow tremendously! It has saved me from my first heartbreak- which was after a 2 year relationship, both of us in our mid fifties. So not a "typical first heartbreak ".
It has helped me heal, taught me to love myself, taught me about what actually happens to the body during a heartbreak including explains the constant physical ache in my heart and gut. It has given me tools to use to move forward and help me cope, as well as help me understand all the issues behind why it didn't work and what I can learn from that. It has given me hope for my future as well as taught me what I want to look for in a future relationship. It has also taught me that it's perfectly wonderful to NOT be in a relationship and that my single life can be wonderful and FULL of happiness!!
(Something that I NEVER thought possible as my lifelong dream has been to be in a "happily ever after" relationship!
MEND is an honest to goodness LIFESAVER!! It is absolutely invaluable and PRICELESS! 💞 and WORTH EVERY PENNY you spend!!
Developer Response ,
Thank you so much for taking a moment to share your story with us, and for inspiring others with your words of encouragement. We cannot thank you enough for your support and we're glad you're loving Mend! If there's any way we can improve the experience for you, don't hesitate to email us at firstname.lastname@example.org or let us know @letsmend. Sending you a hug and wishing you the very best as you continue on your Mending journey xo Team Mend
Mend for everyone?
I was pretty disappointed when I found what mend had to offer. Forget the almost immediate paywall. This is the world we live in now, I guess. I selected infidelity as the reason for my breakup because that was the closest to a breech of trust. But I was the one who broke the trust. The fact that this app didn’t even account for that possibility let me to wonder if I was even worth it. I’m still struggling, and I thought the stories from others might help. I know from the App Store that the creator is female. I know I’m not entitled to every app catering to me, but the story I read quoted the creator saying how she knew this experience is universal. I have emotions, and I can be haunted by past with the best of them. I’m not a breakup scientist, so maybe there is something significantly different among how genders react to the end of a relationship. I was hoping this app would be there to help me through that, but it seemed mostly geared to people more or less like the creator. Not surprising, but still disappointing. Good thing I have a backup of crying and dancing to songs we listened to in the middle of the night 2 years later.
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- In-App Purchases
- Heartbreak Cleanse $59.99
- Heartbreak Cleanse $59.99
- Heartbreak Cleanse $149.99
With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.