#open: Date Poly & Open-Minded 17+

Chat & Meet Couples & Singles


    • 3.7 • 1.3K Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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Welcome to #open - the dating app for open relationships like polyamory, ENM and more! With over 210,000 profiles, meet couples and singles who are waiting to match & chat. So if you’re ethically non-monogamous, monogamish, kink dating or searching for a polyamorous dating app, #open is the app you’re looking for!

If you’re exploring open relationships, you need a polyamory dating app! Check out our dating app created for ENM people by members of the polyamorous and open dating community. While mainstream dating apps are adding features to be inclusive of ENM, we’ve designed our entire app to help couples and singles date openly and honestly.

What does #open have to offer the ENM & polyamorous community?
-Dating for couples or singles: swipe on your own with a solo profile or create a confirmed partner profile for couples dating
-Be proud of your identities by choosing from a comprehensive list of labels that describe who you are…polyamorous and pansexual? We’ve got those labels. Demisexual genderqueer looking for poly dating? We’ve got that too!
-Use a hashtag search to filter by your interests. Wanna meet for coffee? Just search #coffeedate to find your next match
-Make genuine connections, no algorithms here! We let you decide who you see by adjusting your See and Be Seen By settings

If you’ve been looking for a dating app for polyam people, we’re here to connect you to couples dating, solo dating, kinky dating or poly dating - we’re an app that’s just as open-minded as you! #open provides a place to connect with others exploring all forms of non-monogamy - kink exploration, polyamory or enm– we have a community that represents the full range of open relationships!

While you’re swiping, why not check out our Supporting Membership features?

-See who Likes You allows you to view the members that have swiped right on you and makes it easier to find your next date
-Unrestricted access to the PowerGrid where you can view many new couples and singles profiles at once
-15 Sparks every month, send them to potential matches to let them know you’re interested

Want new ways to connect without becoming a Supporting Member? Check out Sparks! These single-use tokens help your profile stand out & automatically create a match if the other member(s) like your profile. Sparks come in a pack of 3.


Terms & Conditions
#open is free to download & use to match, connect & chat with others.
Some members may want to take advantage of additional paid features, including Supporting Membership and Sparks.
Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase.
Sparks are one-time purchases, and will not be automatically renewed. No refunds will be given for unused Sparks.
If you are purchasing a Supporting Membership, your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current month. Auto-renewal may be turned off by going to the user's Apple Account Settings after purchase. No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during the active subscription period.
#open Terms & Conditions: https://hashtagopen.com/terms
#open Privacy Policy: https://hashtagopen.com/privacy

What’s New

Version 2.54

Bug fixes and improvements.

Ratings and Reviews

3.7 out of 5
1.3K Ratings

1.3K Ratings

B-RadBear ,

Most specific and in depth dating app so far

Honestly the best app out there as far as ways to identify yourself, sexuality and relationship types. Profile options and freedom is great. Top that off with the lack of fake/spam accounts and the surprisingly amazing quality of those who end up on this app it’s Truly amazing. Obviously it’s new so there aren’t a lot of people on here yet but I highly recommend it.

Would be a 5 star but location controls are awful. Once again I get it there’s only a few dozen people on the app in my area but I’d rather just run out once their outside my preferred area than seeing people all over the country

Developer Response ,

We really appreciate you submitting a review! We work really hard to keep fake accounts off the app, and love that you notice! We're continuing to grow and hope you'll see a difference there soon too.

Levitamin79 ,

Great App With A Tiny User Base

I think this has potential to be one of the best dating apps, if not the best for non-monogamous/poly people. The list of interests/kinks/turnoffs is endless and helps you connect with likeminded people. No other app has this level of detail.
Unfortunately the user base is really small. I live in a metro area of over 2 million people and I made it through every user within 25 miles in less than an hour. The lack of distance cutoff is also a problem. It’s not helpful to see people hundreds of miles away once you’ve seen all the people near you. It’s also impossible to know if the people you’re seeing have logged into the app recently. Did they make a profile a year ago and never log in again? This seems to the be the case. I’ve made exactly one connection that wasn’t a scammer or bot. It’s very reasonably priced compared to the other apps, but some advertising would really help. Otherwise it’s a dead app.

Developer Response ,

Hey there - we really appreciate you checking out #open and providing your feedback, it helps us to continually improve the app for our members. We are currently putting lots of effort into new marketing and starting to see results. We hope you'll see membership and app activity pick up soon!

legadj ,

Best site for the open polyamorous lifestyle

I have used lots of these dating apps— too many to lust here. But for someone who lives in the open marriage/relationship community, there isn’t a better app anywhere to find someone who matches your lifestyle choices.
You can even list your limitations so people are pursuing who “aren’t into what you definitely are not into.”
Best of all, I found my current poly partner and I never had to pay a cent, like other apps that require you to pay a membership fee to either boost yourself, or even worse, just to see who likes you or who is a match.
Save yourself a lot of money and time... if you are open or poly this is the perfect app for you.

Developer Response ,

Thank you for being a founding community member and for your kind words. We are elated to hear we've helped you and your current partner connect! We hope you continue to find meaningful connections on #open!

App Privacy

The developer, #open, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content
  • Search History
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Sensitive Info
  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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