Paired: Couples & Relationship 17+

Questions, Quiz, Games, Advice

Better Half

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    • Offers In-App Purchases

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Love more. Stress less. Paired is your guide to improve communication, stay connected, and deepen intimacy as a couple.

With our daily questions feature you get a fun question to answer every day with your partner. Each question comes with a research-based fact of why answering it will help your relationship, and only by answering the question yourself can you unlock your partner’s answer!

If you’re looking to identify your relationship strength and growth areas then our couple quizzes are here to help. Each week the quiz is on a different aspect of your relationship, and when your partner answers the quiz you’ll be able to compare answers.

Think you know your partner well? Put your knowledge to the test with our couple games! Guess your partner’s answers to funny, thoughtful, and downright silly questions and see how many guesses you get right. The partner with the highest score wins the game!

Lastly, our couple exercises are created by the world’s top couple therapists and academics and draw on decades of research to help you learn about, and discuss key relationship topics. Each exercise includes a discussion point and helpful answer prompts for you to complete together.
Join the community of people around the world building lasting love with Paired today.

* Answer fun, research-based questions with your partner each day to bring you closer together
* New questions are available daily, and by answering the question you’ll unlock your partner’s answer
* Play couple games to test your knowledge of your partner
* Guess their answers to Mr and Mrs style questions, and see who knows who best!
* Pair with your partner’s app by sharing your unique codes with each other
* Complete couple exercises on different relationship topics, from managing conflict to developing sexual intimacy
* Our couple exercises are created by the world’s top relationship academics and therapists
* Identify your relationship strength and growth areas by completing couple quizzes each week
*Get ready for any relationship milestone, from moving in together to planning for a baby, with our dedicated question packs

Please note that Paired and the materials and information contained herein are not intended to, and do not constitute, medical, psychological, or mental health advice, or diagnosis, and may not be used for such purposes. You should always consult with a qualified physician or mental health professional about your specific circumstances.

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Ratings and Reviews

4.7 out of 5
39.5K Ratings

39.5K Ratings

MxOnyx ,

Queer Friendly!

My partner of 3 months and I are both transgender, nonbinary, bisexual, and polyamorous, so we were worried that an app like this wouldn’t include our experiences. We were pleasantly surprised from day 1! I love all the little images for the questions throughout the app, they will be like abstract kissing heart faces, or two marshmallows, or two origami boats- very cute and genderless! There are question packs that deal directly with queerness such as the “pronouns pack” and many of the descriptions talking about the research for why the questions are important talk about lgbtq+ relationships. There is even one “tip/exercise” called “metamour agreements” which was a pleasant surprise as a polyamorous couple. Overall, we have really enjoyed the app, it’s fun and has definitely helped us learn about eachother and become closer, even as a new couple.

A few suggestions to be even more inclusive- I would love to see even more about polyamory, especially catered towards already very open and non-hierarchical structures (not just written for primary partners considering opening up). I’d also love to see something about caretaking dynamics in the case where one partner has a disability.

Also for the games, it would be cool to be able to see all 4 answer choices again once the results are in. Right now you can only see whatever answers you each picked but it would sometimes be fun to remember what you had to choose from.

TheycallmeBee ,

You Get Out Of It What You Put Into It

The best relationship advice i ever got was “Stop searching for the “right” person and start “BEING” the right person.” You want a person who is a 10 out of 10 right? Well you can’t be a 5 expecting a 10 to want you. 10’s attract 10’s. So focus on being the best you that you can be, and upon doing so, you will see the stars align for you. This is by far one of the better apps out there that is truly worth paying for. You really do get out of it what you put into it and i think that if you both can be truthfully honest, as well as brutally honest, it will truly bring the two of you together. It gives you an opportunity to really get into your significant others head, which lesssss be honest, you wouldn’t have been able to do so otherwise because 9/10 couples are afraid of being honest with each other, let alone being “brutally” honest. So; if you’re looking for a review that says “this app is worth every penny and you should totally download it!” well then you have my vote! Good luck to those looking to better their relationship and not give up on something just because it’s hard! It really is amazing to see people stick together, work their problems out and make it thru 60 years. Can you say #thenotebook #bobbleheadstogether #togetheruntilvelcrow

Developer Response ,

Thanks so much for your lovely review! 🥰 Those are truly inspirational worlds 💜 If there's anything we can do for you, please don't hesitate to get in touch with us at

cgmikos ,

Been looking for something like this. Really happy with this app!

My girlfriend and I have been looking for a program like this to incorporate into our daily lives. We have a very healthy relationship, however are always trying to take action steps to improve it. I think it’s incredibly important to have an open channel of dialogue with my significant other and Paired makes it that much easier. We love the daily tips because they are easily digestible and they always focus on pertinent topics related to growing a relationship in a healthy way. The app also features a wide variety of courses you and your significant other can work on together. My girlfriend and I just finished the Relationship Foundations course and learned a lot about how to better support each other and resolve disagreements.

Another interesting feature on Paired is the Daily Question, which newly populates every day. This question is usually posed by a certified professional and is intended to spark communication between you and your partner. My girlfriend and I regularly start our mornings by answering the question, and have found it to be a great conversation starter for the day.

My girlfriend and I are huge fans of this app. I highly recommend the Paired Premium plan for any couple looking to grow in their relationship.

Developer Response ,

Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and to write us a review! We really appreciate it and are very glad you're enjoying the content available in Paired. ✨


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