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Relate Date is the new Swedish dating alternative created for us who are tired of the superficial swiping and want a better and more meaningful way to connect with other singles looking for a long-term relationship.

Relate is a science-based Swedish relationship company set out to help ALL people achieve better and more meaningful romantic relationships. Through our podcast Så Kan Det Gå, our web page article series, and our live webinar series Relate Love Lab, you can learn how to create better relationships, and as soon as you find a partner you can develop and deepen your contact and relationship in the Relate Boost app.

“safe, respectful and encourages you to a safer and deeper contact. With less stress and more focus”
“Relate is the best and most worthy dating app I have used to date and the men I chat with are beautiful”
“It is easy to connect to people and simple to start conversations!”
“10 times better than tinder”

“a more conscious dating culture” – Dagens Industri
“a more healthy dating alternative for people who are looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship” – Breakit
“Our vision is to challenge the superficiality by helping people meet in a deeper way” - Svenska Dagbladet


1. Identify and define your values

A healthy relationship starts with yourself - with an understanding of what you need to feel good, what’s important to you and what kind of life you want to live.

Through the science-based tool ValuesTree™ you will get help to pick and express your personal values. What is actually important to you? Your health, to grow, inspiration, integrity, intimacy, humor, creativity or maybe to be curious? We help you put words on your most important values, which can also be seen as your vision and compass in life.

2. Ten carefully selected profiles each day

Based on your preferences and values we will send out 10 new selected profiles everyday, to avoid you having to sit and swipe for yourself. If you find someone you like, you press “relate”. When the interest is mutual, a match occurs and a chat will appear.

3. Skip the small talk - real conversations with real people

Ask about or comment on each other's values or photos to get a strong connection right away. Discover how conversations around values not only help you evaluate your compatibility but also help you grow as a person by giving you new perspectives on what’s important in life and how you want to live.


Meeting someone with whom you share many core values basically means you have a similar view on how you want to live your life. It can get difficult in the long run if you are too different to each other. If for example one of you always seeks adventure and want to explore new things, while the other person rather wants to feel safe, relax and take it easy.

Conversations around values increase empathy and understanding for each other, which leads to stronger emotional intimacy and contact. The conversations also help you both clarify and anchor what is important in your life.

Leading relationship experts have proven that shared values and, through that, a deeper understanding of each other is the most deciding factor for a happy, sustainable relationship. Our science-based values methodology has been used by over 100.000 people, where we clearly have seen how the conversations take understanding and compassion to new levels.

With Relate we want to contribute to the creation of a more conscious, authentic and understanding world, filled with deeper meetings and relationships. A world in which more people dare to be themselves, where we feel seen for who we really are and feel a deep sense of belonging with other people.

Welcome to the community!

Support: hello@relate-app.com
Terms of Service: https://relate-app.com/terms

What’s New

Version 1.4.0

The latest version of the Relate Date is here! We have brought back a demanded feature that allows you to send a message right away when you relate back to someone. Just press a photo or value that you want to relate to! We have also made improvements in the experience when you first download the app and create an account.

Enjoy! :)

Ratings and Reviews

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App Privacy

The developer, Valuesmatch, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Used to Track You

The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:

  • Identifiers

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • Contacts
  • User Content
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Sensitive Info
  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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