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Settle For Love (SFL) is not your typical dating app, and that’s a good thing :).

We eliminate the intimidating, unrealistic, and superficial online dating environment, encouraging users to be their perfectly imperfect selves.


All SFL users SHINE, posting an attractive picture and listing their positive traits, but we also explore their SHADE, an imperfect picture and imperfect traits. The SHINE/SHADE approach creates a fun, easy-going environment, where users are comfortable and relaxed. Ultimately, better connections are made, and long-lasting relationships are formed.


It’s Simple: It only takes a few minutes to register and be matched with 1000’s of users

It’s Free: You have absolutely nothing to lose :)

It Works: 1,000’s of matches have already been made


“Norms around dating, like all norms, can profoundly change. In any case, I hope they do… for us all, there should be a site like Settle For Love.” - Alix Spiegel, NPR’s Invisibilia

“Membership is going to start to swell, cause it’s such a cool idea…” - Aaron Rand, CJAD

“Are you settling for me?” - Founder’s Wife




At Settle For Love, you may not be perfect, but you’re perfect for someone :)

What’s New

Version 3.1

SFL coins help you find your perfectly imperfect match sooner!

Ratings and Reviews

3.6 out of 5
21 Ratings

21 Ratings

Quirkney ,

LOVE the app, wish it wouldn't crash instantly

App worked wonderfully, can't even get it open anymore :/ Hope it gets fixed!

Developer Response ,

Really sorry for your trouble! If the problem still persists please contact support@settleforlove.com and we can deep-dive the issue with you.

SFL Support

KristaCream ,

Awesome dating app!!

Really easy to use and has more unique features than other dating apps!

newguy222222222 ,

Waste of time, expensive

Takes forever to make a profile, then makes you pay to even start swiping after the first 5.

Also stop auto-crop-zooming on people’s photos. We know how to take pictures and don’t need your crappy app cropping out half of our picture.

App Privacy

The developer, HereKittyKitty INC, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Not Collected

The developer does not collect any data from this app.

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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