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3rder is the No.1 threesome dating app and dating site where kinky, open-minded couples and singles meet for 3some relationships!

Are you looking for local hot&open-minded singles and couples to explore 3-some relationships and enjoy swinging lifestyle? 3rder is the right place for you! We are a private and anonymous community serving open-minded swinging women and men who are looking for a three way! 3rder is the leading community for you to discover your sexuality and explore it. No matter if you are a single male/female looking for couples or you are a couple looking for a third person/swinger for your wife and husband, 3rder is the best place for you!

Unlike other similar sites, 3rder never discloses your personal information to any third party. All your personal information like your email address,photos,address is secured at our server and kept private. So, you don't need to worry about anything while exploring the special relationship here.

3rder is the top dating app for 3some hookup. It is very easy to get started with your swinging lifestyle. Take a minute to create an account here and 3rder gives you all you need. Here, you can find singles and couples from all over the world regardless your marriage status,sexual preferences, races and religions. Top cities where 3rder are used:
United States: San Diego, Atlanta, Chicago, Michigan, New York City(NYC), Los Angeles, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington DC
Australia: New Zealand, Sydney, Melbourne, Western Australia, Queensland
Canada:Toronto, Ontario, Quebec, Vancouver, BC, Alberta, Edmonton
United Kingdom(UK): England, Ireland, Scotland, London, Dublin.

Subscription options for VIP membership service:

1-month subscription with auto renewal: $9.99
3-month subscription with auto renewal: $24.99
6-month subscription: $39.99

**Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.

Please note that with all subscriptions:

– No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during active subscription period.
– Payment will be charged to iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
– Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
– Account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period, and identify the cost of the renewal
– Subscriptions may be managed by you and auto-renewal may be turned off by going to your Account Settings after purchase
– Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited when the user purchases a subscription to that publication, where applicable

See our Terms of Use Agreement below for more information on our cancellation policy.

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Special notice for using 3rder:
- No porn / nudity / adult photos
- No personal contact information in your photos and anywhere else at 3rder app.
- No advertisement

What’s New

Version 3.3.2

- Fix the bug that app crashes when trying to refresh the page of 'Favorites' under the 'Connection' module
- The person cannot send you roses, add you as a favorite and send you messages if you block him/her

Ratings and Reviews

4.5 out of 5
14.9K Ratings

14.9K Ratings

Reginald StephenE1I ,

Great kinky app for threesomes

According to the feedback on the app store, almost users of this app give high ranks to it, and this is the main reason why I create a profile here. Fortunately I met my Sally with whom I chat on the removed app 3somer which was removed last week. With the new threesome app 3rder, It is so easy to create a profile in a few minutes and after I log in, I find so many member post their status in the moments where I can come to leave comments. When I am playing the quickmatch, I can meet many swinger couples and kinky singles who are seeking partners for threesomes or swingers. Even I haven’t paid this app, I can use all the basic features to get potential partners without any limitation, so far I feel comfortable here with this fast and safe dating platform. I trust this app and I believe this app can help me to have something exciting in my life. In a world, this is the exact app I am looking for.

ArtMetalDude ,

Change the name of the app to Groundhog Day

This app is the definition of “waste of time”. I made a profile, like & dislike profiles I see... then the next day my profile didn’t exist and had to start over again. Day two: made a profile, like & dislike profiles. Day three: I open the app to find out that my picture was deleted because it violated their terms... it was a picture of me from the waist up, wearing normal clothes, my face was not obscured in any way. I found it bizarre so I searched the app to see what “terms” this picture could have violated but couldn’t find it. Used a different picture then swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous day. Day four: my second photo was was deleted because it violated their terms; still don’t know what the terms are and why a clear picture of my face and torso wearing clothes isn’t acceptable. Uploaded another picture and then swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous two days. Day five: the first day that my profile and/or picture wasn’t deleted. However, I swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous three days. Completely waste of time. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me; fool me five days in a row... negative review. The people on the app may be real people but the app doesn’t work in its most basic functions so you’ll never meet anyone on it.

Owen CongreveDQg ,

Highly recommend

I love have threesomes with strangers, not friends or someone I know because threesomes with different people you don’t know is absolutely adventurous I am looking for all the time. So you can find me have registered a lot of accounts on different threesome apps such as feel dating, 3rder, 3fun and 3somer (3somer is removed from application list now), and I think feel dating is the best but it is a little complicated and you have to pay much money if you want to be a premium member. 3rder has a lot of simple but powerful dating features for me to get open-minded couples and it doesn’t cost me too much to be a gold members. So, generally, 3rder is the most cost-effective threesome app in the market, while I will stay on this app for a long time and wish me good luck to find someone can meet my needs in swinger relationships.


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71.7 MB

Requires iOS 9.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.



Age Rating
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
In-App Purchases
  1. One Month Membership $9.99
  2. Three Months Auto-Renewable Membership $24.99
  3. Six Months Auto-Renewable Membership $39.99


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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