Tea Dating Advice 17+

I was skeptical when I first heard of this app. I was in one of the various “are we dating the same guy?” Facebook pages and someone recommended it. I tried it out when u got frustrated with beyond making a post anonymously not being able to comment on others posts with revealing your identity. So I was shocked to report everything this app claims to be is truly what it is! You can’t screenshot! No one can find your identity and it’s opened a space for women (some who typically would never have shared anything like this due to the horrific circumstances they’ve endured) to not only post looking for tea or red flags for a new love venture but a place to post men from either current or past relationships with abusive, narcissistic, unfaithful, dishonest, or criminal men. As a way to way others to steer clear of these men as to prevent another women from becoming their next victim! I initially was concerned it would turn into A high school mean girls situation and could get ugly fast. However I was happy to see women uplifting others and not character assassinating men out of jealousy or spite. I feel in this digital dating era an app like this has been long overdue and as such women have used it as a safety tool not a gossip platform! Kudos to the strong brave women who embarked on creating this safe space and I can’t wait to see height where yall take this too!

I have a very bad ex who was abusive to me, his spouses before me and I have been contacted by the ones after me and he's still in and out of jail for domestic abuse. He has an extensive criminal record in 4 states. But he's attractive, smart and charming, you'd never know it to talk to him. I'm afraid one day, he's going to end up killing a girl. Women he's dated after me have somehow tracked me down on instagram. Asking me if he was violent with me. I was able to tell them my story and clarify the lies he was telling. But not before he had pistol whipped her. For so long I was hoping for a way to warn other women of him. Just to do a background check at least. But we never do, do we? We just trust what they say. I think this app will save lives. If just one of the girls he may be swiping on right now sees him on the app, listens to my warning, then what I went through feels worth it. Download and share this app, if not for you, for your sister or your friend. Woman to woman, protect each other.

WASTE OF MY TIME. I saw this app on TikTok and thought it was so cool so I downloaded it and requested approval for an account, it asks you to invite a bunch of people for different rewards and to be bumped to the front of the line, so I did it. I shared this app with all of my girl friends and they all downloaded and applied. The next day they were all approved and I was not, so I waited another day, still not approved. So I deleted the app and redownloaded just to discover you can’t make another request until you have been approved or denied.. so i messaged this app’s instagram account in which they told me to email. My first email gets a reply “accepted” yet I was not accepted, so I emailed again and waited. Received no reply so I tried to email again the next day and I also dmed the instagram again. They say they are confused so I explain IT IS STILL NOT ACCEPTED ON MY PHONE. And they reply with the same automated message they sent me the first time, to email. So I sent another two emails over the past two days and sent them a screenshot that I had received no response and would like assistance. The instagram account left me on read!!! No assistance, no explanation, NOTHING. What kind of woman owned app to help women is going to treat a lady like this who just wanted to show support after getting so many others to join. HIGHLY DISAPPOINTED and definitely do not recommend. Wish I could give zero stars.