3rder: Threesome Swingers App 17+

Bi Couples Hookup, Kink Dating

3rder Limited

    • 4.8 • 6.3K Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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3rder is a dating app for open-minded couples and singles to meetup with each other.

Do you want to find some local people to explore a new-form of dating? 3rder is definitely the best choice for you! 3rder offers a serious and anonymous community for all users to ensure that every user can really enjoy their time here. It's a professional social application that connects like-minded people for both relationship and friendship. We strictly review each user's profile and exclude fake accounts from the system. We promise that your private information is safe with us and will not be revealed to any third party. All your personal information, such as your email address, photos, address, is secured at our server and kept private.

3rder is one of the top dating apps for friendships and relationships, on which you can easily start your unusual lifestyle. Now 3rder's user base is growing massively. Currently, it has over 2 million users, which can provide you with more possibilities of exploring dating beyond the norm. Before signing up on 3rder, please make sure you are an adult over the age of 18. In addition, please make sure that you have read our user policy carefully and if any rules are broken, your account is likely to be prohibited. Now you can start your dating journey.

There are some top cities where 3rder are most welcomed:
United States: San Diego, Atlanta, Chicago, Michigan, New York City (NYC), Los Angeles, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington DC
Australia: New Zealand, Sydney, Melbourne, Western Australia, Queensland
Canada: Toronto, Ontario, Quebec, Vancouver, BC, Alberta, Edmonton
United Kingdom (UK): England, Ireland, Scotland, London, Dublin.

Subscription options for VIP membership service:

1-month subscription with auto renewal: $14.99
3-month subscription with auto renewal: $34.99
6-month subscription: $49.99

**Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.

Please note that with all subscriptions:

– No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during active subscription period.
– Payment will be charged to iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
– Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
– Account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period, and identify the cost of the renewal
– Subscriptions may be managed by you and auto-renewal may be turned off by going to your Account Settings after purchase
– Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited when the user purchases a subscription to that publication, where applicable

See our Terms of Use Agreement below for more information on our cancellation policy.

Privacy Policy:

Terms of use:

Special notice for using 3rder:
- No sexually explicit, sensitive and offensive contents
- No personal contact information in your photos and anywhere else in 3rder app.
- No advertisement or solicitaiton

What’s New

Version 4.5.8

1.Fix the error prompt window.
2.Optimize the display of purchase page.
3.Optimize TAB text display.

If any problem, please let us know!

Ratings and Reviews

4.8 out of 5
6.3K Ratings

6.3K Ratings

happy0507 ,

Amazing app

I love this app, it’s very easy to use, everything is right at your fingertips. I have only been using it for 2 weeks now and I already have some good conversations going. The app is very easy to use, just fill out your profile information, add some pics, and away you go.

Developer Response ,

Hi there, thank you for leaving your positive review. We feel super happy to hear that you’re enjoying the poly dating app. If you experience any issues, please send us an email at support@3somes.org and we'll be happy to assist you. Thank you for your patience and understanding!

Rfjusawhkhx ,

Skip it.

First, like many other apps like it, you can’t even see who saw you without a paid subscription; let alone trying to contact any of these “people” that are probably just fake accounts anyway.
Second, I live in one of the most populated areas of the US and I have seen only one or two profiles that are anywhere near me. Maybe that’s just a lack of users, but I can understand why there aren’t many.
Third, of what I could make out of my first blurry message from someone, I could tell that were asking for money.
Save your time, hopes, and especially money. It’s junk.

Developer Response ,

Hi there, thank you very much for leaving the review for 3rder couples dating app and we are really sorry to hear that you are unhappy with the threesome site. We’d like to hear your thoughts about our swinger app. Please, send us an email to support@3somes.org, and we'll be happy to speak to you. Thank you for your understanding and patient.

mspillan ,

Feels fake- not worth a download

Used the free version (as one should be able to) and my feed was overrun with people who: we’re not in my interests, we’re 1000’s of miles away, and were seemingly fake profiles. You can’t see who messages you without paying and there’s no way to filter people who are even in the same 50 mile radius. Waste of time. You can also only upload one photo and almost nothing about yourself - likewise there’s hardly any information about other people. This feels like a money laundering scam.

Developer Response ,

Hi, maspillan. Thank you for leaving your review for 3rder app. It seems you don't know much about the 3rder dating app and the 3rder Team, a team dedicated to making great dates for our users. Firstly, we don't allow fake accounts on our online dating community and secondly, you can post as many pictures as you like (normal ones of course) in our "Moments" community in addition to the 6 pictures you can upload on your profile. Thirdly, we have a large and real number of active users online at the same time every day. What's more, we don't allow scammers to bother our users. We are not as bad as you describe in this review and we hope you will understand us. If you have any other questions about us, plz send us an email at support@3somes.org and we'll be happy to assist you.


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App Privacy

The developer, 3rder Limited, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • User Content
  • Identifiers

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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