TrueSelfIQ
See Yourself as Others Do
Free · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
What do your friends REALLY think about you? Discover your relationship blind spots with honest, ANONYMOUS feedback.
What if the way you see yourself in relationships… isn't the way others experience you? TrueSelfIQ helps you discover the difference — and build something that lasts.
The Problem with "Chemistry" Dating culture is obsessed with chemistry. That electric spark. The instant pull. The feeling that this person just gets you. And chemistry is real. But it's also temporary. It fades. It shifts. It disappears — often leaving two people wondering what went wrong.
What doesn't fade is compatibility. The deep, structural fit between how you are and how others experience you. The problem? Most of us have never truly understood either side of that equation.
We think we know how we come across:
Emotionally available
Easy to talk to
Confident
Warm
But attraction, trust and lasting connection are shaped by something else entirely: how others actually experience us.
TrueSelfIQ gives you access to that insight — safely, honestly, and anonymously.
How It Works
Complete your self-assessment
Answer simple questions about your personality, communication style and relationship attitudes.
Invite people who know you well
Send a private link to friends, family or trusted contacts.
They respond anonymously
No awkwardness. No pressure. Just honest feedback.
See the difference
We compare your self-perception with how others experience you — and reveal the gaps.
What You'll Discover
Blind spots — Traits or behaviours you didn't realise you were projecting
Hidden strengths — Qualities others see in you more clearly than you see in yourself
Alignment areas — Where your self-view matches how others experience you
Patterns — Clues to why certain relationship situations keep repeating
Why It Matters
Chemistry gets you noticed. Compatibility keeps you together.
How you're perceived affects everything:
Attraction
Communication
Emotional connection
Long-term relationship success
TrueSelfIQ helps you understand the version of you that others are actually responding to — so you can stop chasing sparks and start building something real.
Designed for Real Life
No public profiles
No social feeds
No judgment
Just insight.
Private & Secure
Feedback is completely anonymous
Individual responses are never shown
Only combined results are displayed
You control your data
Delete your account anytime
A New Kind of Self-Awareness
Personality tests tell you what you are.
Chemistry tells you how you feel.
TrueSelfIQ shows you how you are experienced.
That difference can change everything.
Start Seeing Yourself Clearly
Download TrueSelfIQ and discover what your friends already see — but don't always say.
Because the spark that starts a relationship is chemistry. The foundation that sustains it is compatibility. And compatibility starts with knowing your true self.
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Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- Identifiers
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Information
- Seller
- roy sheppard
- Size
- 50.7 MB
- Category
- Social Networking
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.1 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 15.1 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.1 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
4+
- 4+
- Copyright
- © 2026 Roy Sheppard All rights reserved.