It's Complicated

Shahzad Younas, cofounder and CEO of Muzmatch, is intimately familiar with the challenges young Muslims face when dating in the modern world. Often, he explains, the only way to meet someone is to be introduced at awkward family dinners.

“It’s a big social problem,” he says. “I’m a Muslim, so I get the culture, but everybody I know looks really hard to try and find someone.”

Which is why, armed with a degree in computer science, Younas quit his job in finance, paired up with fellow engineer Ryan Brodie, and set out to create a dating app for Muslims—one that would both honor and disrupt centuries of tradition.

“I’ve also come to understand how big this problem really is, not just in the West, where the density of Muslims is low, but in Muslim countries too,” says Brodie, who serves as CTO.

Perhaps the feature that most differentiates Muzmatch from other dating apps is its focus on privacy and decency.

“In Islam, there is a concept that women should have more protection when they’re talking to guys—a guardian,” Younas says. This is why the app allows everyone, both men and women, to have a chaperone—a third person who will receive a full transcript of all chats to and from an account. “The idea is to encourage good behavior. It’s as simple as that,” he says.

Anyone who’s ever been ambushed in a dating app by inappropriate photos or off-color pickup lines will appreciate that Muzmatch completely prohibits such behavior.

“We are very zero-tolerance. If someone is being dirty or obscene and clearly not after anything serious, we just boot them off,” Younas says. Offending members are blocked by their phone number and not allowed to rejoin the service.

The app also encourages civility when members part ways. Muzmatch asks for feedback from both parties to see if everyone was polite and well intentioned. Members who were receive badges on their profile and get a boost in the app’s search algorithm.

Younas knew that simply re-creating a Western-style dating service wouldn’t fly; he needed to work within the constructs of Muslim faith and culture.

Most big dating apps limit your pool to those living a few miles away. The needs of Muzmatch members are different.

“One of the big things in this culture is that, because people are looking for marriage, they’re willing to travel,” he says. When Muzmatch launched, distance was capped at 250 miles, but users overwhelmingly asked for that to be raised to 2,000.

“People also wanted to filter by country or choose different countries because they had ties back home,” says Younas.

Family is complicated no matter which corner of the world you call home. Whereas young Muslims were once content to let their families handle matchmaking, Younas sees a break with tradition emerging.

“There’s a new generation that’s more empowered to find their own partner, but they want to include their family as well. We are helping the new generation navigate this themselves, while still being respectful of the old ways,” Younas explains. “We think both can work side by side.”

Younas sees many who find someone through the app, then get their families involved. He says this process can save money, since often families rely on expensive, well-connected matchmakers to provide leads.

He points out that Muzmatch, unlike most matchmakers, can pair people of completely different backgrounds, religious views, and ethnicities. “We want to be a progressive and positive voice within the Muslim faith,” he says.

Younas is pleasantly surprised by what he says is the top reason members leave: They’ve found someone special.

“At the heart of it, Muzmatch brings two people together, and ultimately two families,” he says. “Anything in this world that does that is never a bad thing.”

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