Tired of the same dating apps? At FET, you'll find an open-minded community where people can explore alternative lifestyles, discover shared interests, and connect with others who understand their perspective.
DISCOVER LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE
Finding and staying in touch with community members is easy with our newsfeed, messaging, forum, and live chat features. Join conversations, exchange ideas, and build meaningful connections with people who share your interests and values.
LEARN, EXPLORE, AND CONNECT
Whether you're completely new to alternative lifestyles or already part of the community, FET offers a welcoming space to learn and grow. Explore articles, discussions, and community-created content covering a wide range of topics, experiences, and perspectives.
FIND EVENTS AND COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES
Discover local gatherings, social meetups, workshops, and community events. Meet people who share your interests, expand your network, and explore new experiences in a respectful and supportive environment.
CREATE YOUR PROFILE
Build a profile that reflects who you are. Share photos, tell your story, highlight your interests, and connect with others who appreciate authenticity and openness.
PRIVACY AND SAFETY FIRST
We believe trust is essential. Profile verification helps members show they're genuine, while privacy controls and message filters give you control over your experience. Choose how you interact, what you share, and who can contact you.
WELCOME TO FET
Our vision is to be the world's most trusted community for alternative lifestyles. We provide a welcoming space for experienced members and the curious alike, helping people connect, learn, and explore in an environment built on respect, consent, and inclusion.
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The app is free to download and use. FET also offers an optional subscription package.
Subscription Service Conditions:
• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency). • Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period
• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase
• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.
More details here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
All personal data is handled under the terms and conditions of FET's privacy policy. More details can be found here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
Auto Logged me out.. now can’t get back in. App support features and password reset not functioning properly. Very concerned my private sexual photos are there and I can do anything about it, login or remove. WARNING.. Big red flag.
Developer Response
Hey! It looks like you are facing technical issues, so you can write to support@fet-app.com using the email address you always use to log in to FET. The team will help you out! 💜
FET opinion
dontget this app
This app is a good app, it would be better if there was a different way to filter out people so no one gets overwhelmed with messages, but you don’t have to pay for everything either. When the world is a subscribe to do anything situation, it would be nice to have a break, especially when it’s about this kind of thing because it’s very sensitive and niche. Stop making people pay just because you have filters. Use a different filter system instead of one that makes money off people who just want to talk or whatever. If you can’t make it not a pay to do everything app then at least reduce the price. So yeah my only complaint is that you have to pay for everything. If you want to talk to someone if you want to see the pictures. Comment on other pictures or whatever you have to have money and you have to be willing to sell it out just because a few bad guys have overwhelmed past users with messages. There must be another way to avoid that without charging money to everyone. Maybe only charge money to people who actually do that. The people who actually deserve to be charged get charged, but people who are just trying to find their way in this. App and who are mature adults should be treated differently than an 18-year-old idiot who just wants to get some. Thank you.PS even when I got a subscription there were many things I could not do. So the filter part still works, but the pay to do anything still doesn’t work even when you pay. I thought subscribing unlocked the ability to look at people’s accounts. And why is it something you can only see when you use the website that shouldn’t be considered fair when you’re paying to see things that you can’t see without paying. So what do you have to do to see the things that you can’t see when you are a paying? There’s no higher level than being a subscriber right? So how can you access things that are still kept off limits? How is this filter actually working if it doesn’t actually work? Please fix your app so that people can talk and see each other, regardless of gender and more about age since most of the problems seemed to be from 18-year-olds overwhelming women with messages. Obviously this cannot stand, but the current method of filtering does not work well for most people i believe. It’s also not fair because this is such a niche thing that you’re basically making it so that you have a monopoly on kink. The whole app is about not having to hide who you are or anything like that right it’s about exploration. How do you do that when you can’t actually do much of anything, even when you pay?
Developer Response
Hi there! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. We totally get where you're coming from — we’re all for open exploration without unnecessary barriers. Our subscription model allows us to keep improving the app while offering core features for free, but we hear you loud and clear on wanting more flexible, accessible options without hitting paywalls everywhere. 🛠️ We're actively exploring new ways to better balance accessibility and premium features. And rest assured, we’re always working to fine-tune our filters to keep the experience authentic and fair. Cheers for the honest feedback! 🎯
No legit users
Onlythestrong123
Terrible app no legit users in the biggest city in Canada 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET
Version 15.0.0
The developer, Ideawise Ltd., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
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Information
Seller
Ideawise Ltd.
Size
207.7 MB
Category
Social Networking
Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
iPod touch Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
