Tired of the same dating apps? At FET, you'll find an open-minded community where people can explore alternative lifestyles, discover shared interests, and connect with others who understand their perspective.
DISCOVER LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE
Finding and staying in touch with community members is easy with our newsfeed, messaging, forum, and live chat features. Join conversations, exchange ideas, and build meaningful connections with people who share your interests and values.
LEARN, EXPLORE, AND CONNECT
Whether you're completely new to alternative lifestyles or already part of the community, FET offers a welcoming space to learn and grow. Explore articles, discussions, and community-created content covering a wide range of topics, experiences, and perspectives.
FIND EVENTS AND COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES
Discover local gatherings, social meetups, workshops, and community events. Meet people who share your interests, expand your network, and explore new experiences in a respectful and supportive environment.
CREATE YOUR PROFILE
Build a profile that reflects who you are. Share photos, tell your story, highlight your interests, and connect with others who appreciate authenticity and openness.
PRIVACY AND SAFETY FIRST
We believe trust is essential. Profile verification helps members show they're genuine, while privacy controls and message filters give you control over your experience. Choose how you interact, what you share, and who can contact you.
WELCOME TO FET
Our vision is to be the world's most trusted community for alternative lifestyles. We provide a welcoming space for experienced members and the curious alike, helping people connect, learn, and explore in an environment built on respect, consent, and inclusion.
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The app is free to download and use. FET also offers an optional subscription package.
Subscription Service Conditions:
• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency). • Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period
• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase
• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.
More details here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
All personal data is handled under the terms and conditions of FET's privacy policy. More details can be found here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
The app is growing on me but it still has a major flaw. If I send a photo or video to someone in a chat I should absolutely be able to select if it is a one time view image or video or whether it will just sit in the chat thread. I mean Facebook messenger has this. Instagram has this. Telegram, WeChat and most major chat apps have exploding images, videos and audios. Also, apps like PURE (which is not as good as FET) takes privacy way more seriously. If you try and screen capture any image or video on the app you get just blackness. This is what I expect from an app like FET. One excuse for not doing it would be people saying no, I want my private images to be screen captured by the person on the other side of the chat. Well then make it optional. Exploding private pics on our private kinky FET app or images that can be opened and full screen at anytime. And feel free to screen capture. Who cares. I think this app is 5 star if they fix this privacy hole
Developer Response
Hi! Thanks a bunch for sharing your thoughts. We hear you loud and clear — privacy is super important in our kinky playground. Exploding messages and additional privacy options are on our radar as we continue to improve the app. We’re all about making your FET experience as safe and satisfying as possible. 😉🔥
For the boys. Ladies beware
Stickitupurownas
The premise of this site is supposed to be bdsm, doms and subs both male and female. There is verification but yet the males still want into other personal accounts and want more personal information to prove you are real. Not a place for true fem doms, male doms endlessly contact you and report you bc you don’t want to play with them. Male subs also try to dominate, get upset and pushy about getting a response and are often overseas unable and unwilling to meet or do anything except get you to entertain their fantasy. As if saying mistress is all it takes! Teens are on here asking for sexy talk and pictures often overseas also. If you enjoy wasting your time satisfying lazy sex crazed idiots and scammers like all the other dating sites this is the same ticket. If you are a fem dom it’s discriminatory and a total waste of time! Not inclusive to all bdsm. The guys both top and bottom want you to jump through hoops when they say to and are only sub in word alone just to get you to play with them, give your time and attention but have zero intentions of doing anything in action. Not a pic, not a thank you, nothing! Not to mention it’s probably not very safe as it’s serving the lusty desires of morons with zero means or intentions of being sub to any woman no matter how real she is. If you’re a sub woman they’d love to have you. No shortage of men who want to get a leg over you any way they want. These dating sites are empowering to males alone and highly unsafe to women whether submissive or dominant.
Developer Response
Thanks for your feedback. I’ll share it with our community team. They’re always looking to enhance the experience, so your input helps! 💜
Review
CoutDoe2021
So I downloaded this app two months ago at first I really loved this app it seemed nice enough. However, in my first month with this app I discovered that it has sever flaws in its system. For example, the lobby at times can act like a mob. Where they pretty much go after newbies and trolls alike. Not thinking anything of it I joined in until I felt like it was a bit too much. Minus the snarky attitudes the next item on the list is the double standards for members. If someone pays they can blatantly post the N word in lobby and have no repercussions. However, if you role play then all of a sudden you the bad person. In my second month I discovered that you can use your points that you collect to achieve a membership. Which is great and all but it isn’t any better than a non paying member. Lastly if someone goes after you butting into your conversation when it isn’t warranted and they happen to be petty or childlike enough to report you the site will not contact you they just ban you. Over then that have fun getting screwed over. I am throughly disgusted and, glad for the ban. I do not nor will I ever recommend this site to anyone.
Don’t Buy Premium
West1285
I purchased premium because just like all dating apps you can’t see who likes or message most of the ppl using the app. With that said regardless of you buying premium or not buying you still can’t see who visits you or anything. With premium it would tell me someone visited me but not one would be shown on my “checked you out” page. Then with the free version it just blurs out the faces. I reported that I wasn’t able to see the ppl that visited my account when I had premium they said it’s because those ppl are free users. But out of no where the moment I stopped paying for premium because I couldn’t see who visited my profile tons of new ppl with blurred out faces started showing up. This app is a scam it doesn’t matter how much you pay they just keep wanting more. It’s not enough to get a subscription out of that doesn’t do anything. Also even if you do have premium you can’t message over 50% of the ppl on the app they require you to send them a “kinky gift” even if you send the the kinky gift it doesn’t open up the ability to have dialogue. Every person I did eventually talk to. We just ended up using a different app because this one is ridiculous. I can understand a subscription if it unlocks everything but when the subscription doesn’t even do anything it’s just a scam.
Developer Response
Hi there! We hear your frustration loud and clear 😓. Paying for features that don't meet expectations feels like a major letdown. We're committed to getting this right, and your experience is invaluable feedback. We need to dig deeper into the visibility and interaction hiccups you’ve encountered, so feel free to email us at support@fet-app.com. Our Popsters deserve premium experiences that truly pop! 💜
Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your experience on FET
Version 14.3.0
The developer, Ideawise Ltd., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Used to Track You
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Information
Seller
Ideawise Ltd.
Size
196.7 MB
Category
Social Networking
Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
iPod touch Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
This app has an age rating of 18+ with content restrictions. Some content may be rated higher, but access is managed by the developer through in-app controls.
