BeNice - family & co parentapp
Shared calendar & communicate
Free · In‑App Purchases
BeNice is the parenting and co-parenting app for separated, divorced and co-parents.
You’re still parents together, even if you no longer live together. BeNice brings calm to coordination and clarity in handovers and appointments. Everything around your child(ren) stays in one place, so co-parenting feels easier and communication stays child-focused.
DO YOU RECOGNISE THIS?
• Your ex can be rude and you want to protect yourself so it doesn’t escalate
• Sometimes you reply more sharply than you meant and regret it later
• You only want to communicate what’s necessary: clear, brief, and without drama
• You lose track of handovers, appointments, and belongings
• You forget holidays, birthdays, or school dates until it’s too late
• You want to stay involved in your children’s lives, even when they’re with your ex
• Sometimes you want a quick check-in about a situation with your child or your ex
That’s why BeNice exists: calm coordination and clear planning.
WHAT YOU GET
Chat with calm and clarity (per family)
Feedback Coach helps you communicate better
BeNice Filter reduces negativity and unwanted emotions
Shared calendar for handovers and special dates
Family calendar / coparenting calendar to share appointments
BeNice Coach for advice and support
Photo album for moments and updates
Parenting plan generator for questions and a draft
CHAT (EX COMMUNICATION)
Safe, clear coordination about the children. Conversations stay together per family, so you can easily find appointments and updates again. Keep it short and share only what’s needed. In the Be Nice parenting app you can keep it brief and stick to the essentials.
FEEDBACK COACH
You may mean well, but a message can still sound harsher than intended. The Feedback Coach helps you make your text calmer and clearer before you send it — so you’re less likely to send messages you regret later.
BENICE FILTER
Not every message needs to land the way it was written. The filter helps reduce negative language and unwanted emotion. That protects you and keeps coordination more focused on the children.
SHARED CALENDAR (FAMILY CALENDAR / CO-PARENTING CALENDAR)
Your family calendar includes:
• handover schedule
• special dates
• requests
Colours instantly show where the children are staying. Notifications remind you of an upcoming handover. Plan clubs, dentist appointments, or parents’ evening. Helpful for parenting arrangements, child arrangements, and a practical contact schedule — you can quickly see who is responsible and when.
SPECIAL DATES
School holidays, INSET days, birthdays, and important dates: add them in the Be Nice parenting app and immediately see how they affect your plan.
PHOTO ALBUM
Photos and updates in one place, so they don’t disappear between messages. Stay involved, even when your children are with the other parent.
THE BENICE COACH
Always available for a quick check-in: about your child, your ex, or how to stay calm in a difficult moment.
PARENTING PLAN
Create a draft parenting plan with explanations and examples. Export it for a mediator, a solicitor, or another professional, and adjust it easily later.
GREY ROCK & BIFF
In BeNice it’s easier to stick to the facts. Write your message, let the Feedback Coach simplify it (BIFF), and use the BeNice Filter to reduce a negative tone. This helps keep communication calm and practical (Grey Rock).
TRY 7 DAYS FREE
Download BeNice and try it free for 7 days.
WHO IT’S FOR
BeNice is for separated or divorced parents and co-parents who want to manage things well for their children. For families who want clarity in handovers, appointments, and school holidays. BeNice supports calm communication and clear planning, and is also suitable for parallel parenting and solo parenting. Whether you’re setting up parenting arrangements, following child arrangements, or keeping a contact schedule, BeNice keeps everything about your children in one calm place.
QUESTIONS?
We’re here to help. Email us at support@BeNice.family
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Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.28 May 6
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.27 May 5
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.26 May 5
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.25 Apr 25
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.24 Apr 22
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.23 Apr 16
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.22 Apr 10
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.21 Apr 2
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.20 Mar 30
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.19 Mar 28
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.18 Mar 27
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
2.17 Mar 26
Big update for your calendar and notifications.
- New calendar filters to quickly focus on handovers, appointments, special dates and requests
- Improved notifications for upcoming handovers and appointments
- Set multiple reminders per type (e.g., a day before a handover to pack the handover bag)
- Add extra reminders per appointment on top of the standard notifications
- Turn push notifications on/off per chat
- Improved request details screens
- Many bug fixes and performance improvements for a more stable, faster experience
2.16 Mar 26
Big update for your calendar and notifications.
- New calendar filters to quickly focus on handovers, appointments, special dates and requests
- Improved notifications for upcoming handovers and appointments
- Set multiple reminders per type (e.g., a day before a handover to pack the handover bag)
- Add extra reminders per appointment on top of the standard notifications
- Turn push notifications on/off per chat
- Improved request details screens
- Many bug fixes and performance improvements for a more stable, faster experience
2.15 Mar 20
Big update for your calendar and notifications.
- New calendar filters to quickly focus on handovers, appointments, special dates and requests
- Improved notifications for upcoming handovers and appointments
- Set multiple reminders per type (e.g., a day before a handover to pack the handover bag)
- Add extra reminders per appointment on top of the standard notifications
- Turn push notifications on/off per chat
- Improved request details screens
- Many bug fixes and performance improvements for a more stable, faster experience
2.14 Mar 4
Stay on track with our latest updates!
• Custom Notifications: You can now configure notifications per activity. Choose to get alerts only for what matters to you—like handovers, appointments, or your turn for pickup—so you stay informed without the extra noise.
• Smoother Experience: We’ve refined screens and simplified key flows to help you navigate faster and find exactly what you need in fewer taps.
• Under the Hood: This update also includes several bug fixes, optimizations, and performance improvements to ensure BeNice remains fast and stable.
Thank you for all your feedback. Keep it coming! It helps us make BeNice a little easier to use with every single update.
2.13 Feb 26
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.12 Feb 25
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.11 Feb 24
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.10 Feb 23
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.9 Feb 20
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.8 Feb 16
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.7 Feb 12
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.6 Feb 9
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.5 Jan 25
More overview. Less hassle.
• Parenting Plan: Easily draft a concept parenting plan through a guided conversation. Answer the questions and download your draft to prepare for discussions with the other parent or a professional.
• Device Calendar Sync: You can now see events from your phone’s calendar directly within BeNice. This makes planning easier while keeping your personal appointments private and visible only to you.
• Improvements: We’ve implemented several minor enhancements and bug fixes for a smoother experience.
2.4 Jan 18
WHAT'S NEW
Stay up to date with our latest updates!
SHARED INFO
Store all important information about your child(ren) and share it with the other parent. Think health details (blood type, diet, medication, allergies, vaccinations), school and sports info, clothing sizes and birthdays. Everything neatly organised per child, with a photo so you always know who is who. You can also add your own categories and descriptions.
SHARED ADDRESS BOOK
Add contacts and link them to one or more children — from friends' parents to the sports coach or school contacts. Both parents always have access to the same, up-to-date information. Set emergency contacts and secure sensitive data with a fingerprint.
CUSTOM NOTIFICATIONS
Choose which notifications you receive per activity. Only get the updates that are relevant to you, such as handovers or appointments.
IMPROVED USABILITY
Screens clarified and flows simplified so you can find your way faster.
PERFORMANCE
Bug fixes and optimisations for a faster and more stable app experience.
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