Tend Task: Household Organizer - The Relationship-First Approach to Sharing the Mental Load
Are you and your partner struggling to balance household responsibilities? Do you find yourself carrying the mental load while your relationship suffers? Tend Task is more than just another to-do list app—it's a relationship tool designed by certified relationship coaches to help modern couples build equal partnerships.
Built for Modern Partnerships
Developed by relationship expert Felicia Kashevaroff, Tend Task combines evidence-based relationship coaching techniques with practical household management tools to help couples deconstruct gender norms, communicate effectively, and create systems for sharing domestic work.
Key Features:
• Relationship Dashboard
See a clear view of shared responsibilities with task tracking, visual distribution, and completion metrics—all in one place.
• Effortless Task Creation
Quickly add, categorize, and assign tasks with easy-to-use tools. Choose from preset categories or create your own to fit your household’s needs.
• Team Lists & Personal Lists
Stay organized together. Toggle between shared lists and personal tasks to keep everything clear, coordinated, and stress-free.
• Harmony, Your Relationship Coach
Meet Harmony — your 24/7 AI relationship guide. Get personalized advice, communication tips, and coaching grounded in proven methods.
• Relationship Growth Library
Access curated expert content on communication, intimacy, conflict resolution, and building equity in your relationship.
• Coaching and Resources
Need deeper support? Connect to relationship courses, coaching, and evidence-based tools directly through the app.
Why Couples Love Tend Task:
• Make the Invisible Visible: Shine a light on daily responsibilities and share the load more fairly.
• Turn Tension into Connection: Use tasks as a springboard for communication instead of conflict.
• Save Time and Reduce Stress: Streamline task management so you can spend more quality time together.
• Grow Stronger Together: Build habits of teamwork, support, and mutual appreciation.
Perfect For:
• Newly engaged or married couples setting up household systems
• New or expecting parents navigating shifting responsibilities
• Busy professionals balancing careers and home life
• Couples wanting to strengthen their partnership through better communication and fairness
• Anyone committed to creating a more equal, connected relationship
The Tend Task Approach
Our methods are backed by research into modern partnerships, gender equity, and mental load management. Drawing from the Gottman Method, ORSC, and conflict resolution techniques, Tend Task offers a practical, supportive way to move your relationship forward while managing real-world responsibilities.
Download Tend Task today and turn household management into partnership growth.
Because when responsibilities are shared, relationships thrive.
Always defaults to 2019 in the calendar. I go to asked tasks for today and they never appear on my to-do list. No point in having this app at all since it doesn’t even work.
Developer Response
Hello! We've updated the calendar interface in our most current version to be more user friendly. We hope this helps! Please reach out if you have any questions or further issues to info@persistiny.com.
I use it every day!!
jmichelle108
I didn’t realize how many times I did certain chores or for how long I did them until I started using Tend! It really made me think about the work I do at home, and it’s even helped my partner and I work together better. I’m excited to see future updates and features :)
Love this!
kingstonbagpuize17
I love the mission behind this app! It is helping us all take a proper look at the value of our work as we care for families and communities. Long overdue.
Developer Response
Thank you for your kind words!
No 2020 Calendar
Miaettia
I was very excited to try to use this, but there isn’t a calendar for this year. Totally unusable.
Developer Response
Hi Miaettia - We're so sorry for the frustration with the 2020 calendar bug. We've updated the app with a bug fix in version 2.1.0. We hope you'll give it another try!
- Optimized the chat experience
Version 5.0.5
The developer, Tend Task, Inc., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
Usage Data
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
Contact Info
User Content
Identifiers
Usage Data
Diagnostics
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Information
Seller
Tend Task, Inc.
Size
58.7 MB
Category
Productivity
Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
iPad Requires iPadOS 15.1 or later.
iPod touch Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
