Obedience: BDSM Habit Tracker

Name: Obedience: BDSM Habit Tracker
Rating: 4.6 (2431 reviews)
Author: Obedience B.V.

BDSM app for kinky couples

Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.

2.4K Ratings
Ages

18+
Years
Category

Lifestyle
Developer

Obedience B.V.
Language

EN
+ 8 More
Size

128
MB

Improve your D/s dynamic with Obedience, the BDSM app for Doms and subs. Build habits, assign kinky tasks, reward good behavior and punish bad behavior with Obedience. Obedience is a kinky habit tracker for couples in a BDSM dynamic. Whether you've been practising kink for a long time, or you're new to the scene, Obedience will help you and your partner(s) track daily and weekly habits, and puts the dominant in charge of rewards and punishments. Couples can connect their phones, which enables one to update their habit status and spend their rewarded coins, and the other to see these real time updates and set up a reward and punishment system. Features: -Add your own daily or weekly habits and tasks -Add your own punishments and rewards -Keep track of your rules -Live chat with partner -Assign rewards and/or punishments to your tasks and habits. -Give punishments and rewards automatically or manually -Give submissive points that they can spend on rewards -Real time sharing between dominant and submissive -Supports multiple partners -See stats and graphs about your habits -Set reminder/alarm notifications (coming soon!) ----------------------------------------- This app contains auto-renewable subscriptions. Subscriptions will automatically renew unless canceled within 24-hours before the end of the current period. You can cancel anytime with your iTunes account settings. Any unused portion of a free trial will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription. Privacy policy: https://obedienceapp.com/privacy-policy Terms and conditions: https://obedienceapp.com/terms-of-service

Ratings & Reviews

4.6

out of 5

2.4K Ratings

Highly Recommend!
01/21/2024

PO'dMommy2B
I was searching for something to stay connected with my long distance d/s relationship & happened up this app. The free trial blew me away so I purchased a year of premium for both of us when I saw there was a 50% discount & I am so glad that I did! There’s sections for everything you can think of that pertains to a d/s relationship. Limits, Ideas, Notes, Rewards, Punishments, Habits, etc. It runs off a point system, which I found to be super easy to track accomplishments & non-achievements during the day with just the tap of a finger. The free trial gives you 7 habits to track, which I found to be a strange number. I feel like 10 would be better suited to the free trial version. The only other thing I think could be better is if I’m the Ideas & Notes sections if there was a way to have the ideas or notes written be separated - being able to have multiple notes & ideas with some way of identifying which partner of the relationship wrote the idea or note. But besides that, there’s honestly nothing I can complain about. I highly recommend this app for any d/s relationship to at least try the free trial because once they do, there’s no way they wouldn’t appreciate a tool this useful!

Developer Response
Thank you so much for your review and support, I really appreciate it! 😄🙏
Highly Recommend!
01/21/2024

PO'dMommy2B

I was searching for something to stay connected with my long distance d/s relationship & happened up this app. The free trial blew me away so I purchased a year of premium for both of us when I saw there was a 50% discount & I am so glad that I did! There’s sections for everything you can think of that pertains to a d/s relationship. Limits, Ideas, Notes, Rewards, Punishments, Habits, etc. It runs off a point system, which I found to be super easy to track accomplishments & non-achievements during the day with just the tap of a finger. The free trial gives you 7 habits to track, which I found to be a strange number. I feel like 10 would be better suited to the free trial version. The only other thing I think could be better is if I’m the Ideas & Notes sections if there was a way to have the ideas or notes written be separated - being able to have multiple notes & ideas with some way of identifying which partner of the relationship wrote the idea or note. But besides that, there’s honestly nothing I can complain about. I highly recommend this app for any d/s relationship to at least try the free trial because once they do, there’s no way they wouldn’t appreciate a tool this useful!
Developer Response 01/01/2024
Thank you so much for your review and support, I really appreciate it! 😄🙏
One thing missing
03/19/2022

BreezyD91
This is a fun little app that I love the aesthetic of and the capabilities. I have tried gamifying my habits, but it always falls short. Mostly due to my own lack of getting something meaningful in the moment of completing a task. I do, however, want to make a quick suggestion. Mostly for myself but others can benefit from it too. I think photos should be required to prove you completed the task. Now sure I could take photo’s with my phone app, but they don’t feel they have meaning when I do that so if a photo was required to complete the task you or your sub can see how much they are improving. The conditions could be set however the kinksters decide, but I feel it is a really good motivator if the sub is required to take a photo for each completion, and the time/date MUST be required to show proof. Perhaps it could be built into the frame of the photo based on the clock on one’s phone. Maybe even let either party customize the frame a bit with kinky phrases or kinky iconography just to make the photos really stand out. They should also be stored into a separate folder just for the kinkster’s have sound mind that some nosey’s won’t immediately see the kinkster in precarious situations if the photo has that. This is just my thoughts, ultimately I love this app so far and I hope to see some of these changes possibly make their way into the app.

Developer Response
Thank you for your review! 😄🙏Though late, I wanted to let you know that in recent versions, it's now possible to set up tasks that require photo proof to complete! (to be approved by the dominant)
One thing missing
03/19/2022

BreezyD91

This is a fun little app that I love the aesthetic of and the capabilities. I have tried gamifying my habits, but it always falls short. Mostly due to my own lack of getting something meaningful in the moment of completing a task. I do, however, want to make a quick suggestion. Mostly for myself but others can benefit from it too. I think photos should be required to prove you completed the task. Now sure I could take photo’s with my phone app, but they don’t feel they have meaning when I do that so if a photo was required to complete the task you or your sub can see how much they are improving. The conditions could be set however the kinksters decide, but I feel it is a really good motivator if the sub is required to take a photo for each completion, and the time/date MUST be required to show proof. Perhaps it could be built into the frame of the photo based on the clock on one’s phone. Maybe even let either party customize the frame a bit with kinky phrases or kinky iconography just to make the photos really stand out. They should also be stored into a separate folder just for the kinkster’s have sound mind that some nosey’s won’t immediately see the kinkster in precarious situations if the photo has that. This is just my thoughts, ultimately I love this app so far and I hope to see some of these changes possibly make their way into the app.
Developer Response 02/19/2024
Thank you for your review! 😄🙏Though late, I wanted to let you know that in recent versions, it's now possible to set up tasks that require photo proof to complete! (to be approved by the dominant)
Great App for our D/s dynamic
09/16/2023

SameThingsMakeUsLaughMakeUsCry
As a sub, I need accountability, especially in the area of self care. One of my habits is drinking “x” number of water per day, which I’m a soda addict and it’s been the most difficult for me. However, even though I may not complete the habit for the day, I rarely drink soda and when I do, I usually can’t finish a can. Water is the drink I reach for now. My point is, the habits my dom set were to better my health and happiness. Not because he’s unhappy with how I look, but he knows I am, so he’s encouraging me to make better health decisions. I also like the ideas feature in which you can write out a scene or new things to try. Not only does it allow you to tentatively have a place to come up with a scene, it’s also fun when your dom or sub are not in one another’s presence, they can be surprised to find something you’ve come up with. Overall, I like it. I just wish you could go back to the previous day in case you forget to log your completed habits.

Developer Response
That's amazing!Thank you so much for your review, I really appreciate it! 😄It's possible for dominants to go back to a previous day and adjust it if needed, they can do this by tapping on a habit, then "View history" and adjusting it as needed.If you have any questions, let me know at info@obedienceapp.com !
Great App for our D/s dynamic
09/16/2023

SameThingsMakeUsLaughMakeUsCry

As a sub, I need accountability, especially in the area of self care. One of my habits is drinking “x” number of water per day, which I’m a soda addict and it’s been the most difficult for me. However, even though I may not complete the habit for the day, I rarely drink soda and when I do, I usually can’t finish a can. Water is the drink I reach for now. My point is, the habits my dom set were to better my health and happiness. Not because he’s unhappy with how I look, but he knows I am, so he’s encouraging me to make better health decisions. I also like the ideas feature in which you can write out a scene or new things to try. Not only does it allow you to tentatively have a place to come up with a scene, it’s also fun when your dom or sub are not in one another’s presence, they can be surprised to find something you’ve come up with. Overall, I like it. I just wish you could go back to the previous day in case you forget to log your completed habits.
Developer Response 09/18/2023
That's amazing!Thank you so much for your review, I really appreciate it! 😄It's possible for dominants to go back to a previous day and adjust it if needed, they can do this by tapping on a habit, then "View history" and adjusting it as needed.If you have any questions, let me know at info@obedienceapp.com !
Looks promising but…
01/06/2025

Tidal.Wolf
Doesn’t seem worth it if you’re not planning on paying. When I first explored the app I got pretty excited. It’s the perfect app to keep all your BDSM related stuff in one place. Keep track of the rules, any ideas you might like to try, clear lists of rewards, punishments etc. One of the main things that drew me to it was the habit tracker, which most of the app seems to circle around. It’s perfect for long distance relationships. Until you realize that you can only add 5 habits if you don’t want to pay. Since the points you earn are fully based on the habit list, just 5 habits not nearly enough to make the main point of the app usable. On top of that, both partners need to have premium for it to even work, which just kinda feels like a ripoff to me. I get that it has to do with not wanting multiple people freeloading, but then you’d still be able to work with a certain amount of “tokens” you could use to spend on each relationship to unlock premium for each individual partner.Honestly I would’ve still kept using the app if the free version allowed some more habits to be added, around 20-30 I’d say. But without it, there’s not a whole lot that other apps wouldn’t be able to do as well.

Developer Response
Thank you for your review, we're happy to hear you like the app! 😄 Unfortunately, developing and maintaining an app like this costs a lot of time and money. Since we don't show ads or sell your data like many other apps do, we need to reserve some features for users who help support the app by getting premium membership. Thank you for your understanding!
Looks promising but…
01/06/2025

Tidal.Wolf

Doesn’t seem worth it if you’re not planning on paying. When I first explored the app I got pretty excited. It’s the perfect app to keep all your BDSM related stuff in one place. Keep track of the rules, any ideas you might like to try, clear lists of rewards, punishments etc. One of the main things that drew me to it was the habit tracker, which most of the app seems to circle around. It’s perfect for long distance relationships. Until you realize that you can only add 5 habits if you don’t want to pay. Since the points you earn are fully based on the habit list, just 5 habits not nearly enough to make the main point of the app usable. On top of that, both partners need to have premium for it to even work, which just kinda feels like a ripoff to me. I get that it has to do with not wanting multiple people freeloading, but then you’d still be able to work with a certain amount of “tokens” you could use to spend on each relationship to unlock premium for each individual partner.Honestly I would’ve still kept using the app if the free version allowed some more habits to be added, around 20-30 I’d say. But without it, there’s not a whole lot that other apps wouldn’t be able to do as well.
Developer Response 01/13/2025
Thank you for your review, we're happy to hear you like the app! 😄 Unfortunately, developing and maintaining an app like this costs a lot of time and money. Since we don't show ads or sell your data like many other apps do, we need to reserve some features for users who help support the app by getting premium membership. Thank you for your understanding!

In this version of Obedience (v10.20.8), we've: - Improved animations in the app, - Improved the speed of image and video uploads, - Fixed several minor bugs

Version 10.20.8 Mar 24

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Seller: Obedience B.V.
Size: 128 MB
Category: Lifestyle
Compatibility: Requires iOS 15.0 or later.

iPhone
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.

iPad
Requires iPadOS 15.0 or later.

iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.

Mac
Requires macOS 15.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.

Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages: English and 8 more

English, Dutch, Finnish, French, German, Italian, Polish, Portuguese, Spanish
Age Rating: 18+

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In-App Purchases: Yes

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Obedience Pro 3 Months $14.99

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Ratings & Reviews

Highly Recommend!

One thing missing

Great App for our D/s dynamic

Looks promising but…

What’s New

App Privacy

Data Linked to You

Data Not Linked to You

Accessibility

Supported Features

VoiceOver

Voice Control

Larger Text

Dark Interface

Differentiate Without Color Alone

Sufficient Contrast

Information

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