DATING UNBOUND
Quiver is a community for adults who want relationships on their own terms — solo or partnered, curious or experienced. Built around discretion, consent, and genuine chemistry, it's a place to meet people looking for the same things you are.
FEMALE-FIRST BY DESIGN
Women set the tone on Quiver. The design, the privacy controls, the safety features, and the pace of every conversation were built with her in mind. It's a space where women feel seen and fully in control — free to connect on their own schedule, with no pressure and no surprises.
NEWLY REDESIGNED FOR IPHONE AND IPAD
Every surface has been reworked, in both Light and Dark mode, with a layout that adapts to your screen. The new Home is yours to arrange: show, hide, reorder, or resize any widget until it surfaces exactly what matters to you.
PRIVACY AND SAFETY COME FIRST
You control what you share, who sees you, and when you're visible. Curate private photo galleries, decide exactly who gets access, and change your mind at any time. Verified profiles, granular visibility settings, and per-member controls are standard, not add-ons.
WAYS TO CONNECT
• Quivers — express interest, from a quiet hello to something more direct
• Private messaging — one-on-one, when you're both ready
• Powerful search — find individuals or couples by what actually matters to you
• Posts — share what you're up to and see what the community is talking about
• Tag up to 10 standout members — and they'll know you noticed
• Bookmarks and private notes — keep track, just for you
MEET LYRA
Lyra is Quiver's built-in assistant. Ask her to find people in plain language — "verified couples in Texas", "everyone active in the last week" — and she'll take it from there. She'll also answer questions about how anything in the app works.
HALL OF FAME
Each day, the post drawing the most reactions and comments becomes that day's winner. Daily winners go on to compete for Post of the Week, Month, and Year, and the calendar is browsable all the way back to 2014. Winners earn badges on their posts and profiles.
COMMUNITY EVENTS
From local nights out to destination travel, Quiver connects you to events that bring the community together. Browse what's coming up, RSVP, and see who's attending — all from inside the app, solo or with a partner.
A COMMUNITY BUILT ON RESPECT
Whether you're just starting out or you've been part of this world for years, Quiver is a place for honest connection and the freedom to define your own relationships. Consent, respect, and discretion aren't features here — they're the foundation.
Terms of Use: https://www.quiver.us/tos
Privacy Policy: https://www.quiver.us/privacy
Quiver is my favorite Lifestyle community! I’ve left the other websites because Quiver has everything I want: my own personal page, a public wall, photos, comments and likes, personal messages, events (local, national and international), and an amazing blog - just to name a few features I love! The App is incredible! It’s clean, user friendly and fun! I love being in control of my notification as well as all the options to filter and default my preferences. If your looking for a one-stop lifestyle app this is the only way to go!
Disappointment as a single woman.
Em1 B
I used this application actively for 2 years as a couple. It has some fun features and other glitchy ones. Very useful in my local city then to find events. As a single woman, the application is almost unusable. There is no mechanism for blocking messages from people on the front end if they are unwanted. (IE no match feature, anyone can reach out). The biggest issue is that by the time I log in, messages are viewable are a small set of the most recent and the others are not even viewable. Conversations I had two days ago are lost until logging in online to see the full list.Lastly, there are not many measures to prevent harassment of woman in the lifestyle. As someone who used to app first as a couple, I am horrified at the lack of protection of women you receive in other places.Suggestion: please consider your single woman in the lifestyle community. We have to operate much differently than couples.
Great place to meet couples!
Coupleofblnds
We are relatively new, but so far have made great connections with some great and nice people and have had really good conversations! Other sites we’ve tried have left us searching and finding out later it was a scam or that person’s intentions was more driven towards money or blackmail. This site has many couples and people who are just looking for other couples who enjoy each other’s company without the assumed expectations, unless all are ok that it goes that way 😉
Small adjustments
Jshxbx
Website is pretty cool. There are a few thinks that will help to have a better experience. It would be nice if we could see someone’s stats before clicking on the profile. when you click on somebody’s profile, it makes it look like you’re interested when you’re just curious to see how tall they are. It takes too long to download the newsfeed when you’re scrolling. Overall we are enjoying the site.
• Maintenance mode — when Quiver is down for planned work, the app now shows a maintenance screen instead of signing you out. It also appears if you hit a maintenance window while logging in.
• Hidden posts explain themselves — a post held back by your content settings now tells you why, and hands you straight to the setting on the web.
• Hall of Fame — notifications can be switched on or off in Preferences, and tapping one opens the post it is about.
• Closing your account with time left — members billed through the App Store are no longer stuck. You are told exactly what paid time you are giving up and asked to confirm, rather than being refused. Remember to cancel your subscription with the App Store.
• Profile photos can be liked and commented on again.
• The permissions prompt closes itself once you have granted everything.
• The post editor no longer asks you to rate your own post — ratings are applied automatically now.
Version 4.3.0
The developer, SeaChange Digital, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
Location
Contact Info
User Content
Identifiers
Usage Data
Sensitive Info
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
Diagnostics
Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
Seller
SeaChange Digital, LLC
Size
132.8 MB
Category
Social Networking
Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.6 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 15.6 or later.
iPad Requires iPadOS 15.6 or later.
iPod touch Requires iOS 15.6 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
