App is alright, but laggy. And the fact that this app already has ads, but you still have to pay for a membership to view and send messages is ridiculous

I was on Findmate for two months. First online dating site I’d ever used. Sure, it’s pay to play for men which makes it very different. I was barraged with incoming messages to the tune of 100 per day. Many nudes. Block the Philippines for a more wholesome experience. I wasn’t looking for love, but made some good friends along the way. If you have issues with the women on the site or the way it’s set up, that’s a you problem. Don’t trust who you’re talking to? “Send me a picture of you holding a coffee cup”. There you go, she’s verified. Don’t want to pay 10¢/message? As soon as you have a good rapport built up (like 15-20 messages) ask them to go to another app. Then you’re not paying and you know she doesn’t care that she’s not earning by talking to you. Not hard, gentlemen. Use this app to meet people and move on to somewhere else, just like in life. You don’t keep meeting her at the same bar where y’all met, right? Two weeks on the app I went to another site with a woman and it turned into something I hadn’t planned on, and 6 weeks later I just flew halfway around the world to spend a few days with her. It was great. Use this site for what it is and you can have a good time with it. Or just ask girls who are out of your league for nudes and wonder why the place feels like a wasteland.

This app is a complete scam. None of the women will ever meet you in real life or even text you outside of the app, but they sure will make you think they will and will fill your head with hope and false promises. They’ll say anything they think you want to hear, as long as it keeps you sending texts on the app. Findmate threatens the women with bans if they try to suggest moving off the app and going to a different platform that won’t drain your wallet, so if you try to ask them on a date or even talk to them anywhere else outside of the app, you’re playing a losing game because they’ll think you’re trying to scam them or that they’ll lose their “job” if they accept. For a lot of them, this is their only source of income. Findmate basically just acts as their virtual pimp.

This app is a total scam. They verified my account and then sent me an email saying I can log back in then sent me an email saying that I was kicked out then another email saying I can log back in and won’t let me login until I have a man pay to sign up and then I can log back in. It’s a scam. They won’t let me delete my pictures and they won’t let me use my account and I have money sitting in my payments that I can’t cash out either. It’s a scam they’re using your pictures and ripping you off.