Asker: Answer-First Dating
Match on words, not photos
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
You answer first. You see them after.
Asker flips dating around: every profile starts with a question, and you have to answer it before you can see who wrote it. No endless swiping on photos. No "hey" as an opening line. What you write is the first thing anyone knows about you.
HOW IT WORKS
- Someone's question appears. You answer it.
- They read your answer and decide.
- If you both want to continue, the chat unlocks.
That's it. Attraction starts where it actually starts: with something someone said.
TWO WAYS TO PLAY
Quick Duel - one shared question, two people, both answering blind. Then you each decide: continue or pass. Profiles unlock only after both answers are in.
Async 3x3 - six people enter a room. You answer three prompts, read three answers to your own question, then pick one person from the other side. Mutual picks unlock a chat.
WHY IT'S DIFFERENT
- Answers come before photos, so you are met for what you say
- Mutual-only matching. Nobody receives a message they did not agree to
- Every photo is reviewed before it goes live
- Block and report available on every screen
- No infinite scroll. A daily deck, and then you are done
Asker is for people who are tired of the photo grid and want a reason to talk.
18+. Be kind.
Ratings & Reviews
- This app hasn’t received enough ratings or reviews to display an overview.
Made minor improvements to the selection of profiles and corrected minor errors
The developer, Valerii Nikitin, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Location
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
- Sensitive Info
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Location
- Identifiers
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Valerii Nikitin
- Size
- 12.5 MB
- Category
- Social Networking
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 17.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 17.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
English and 32 more
- English, Arabic, Catalan, Croatian, Czech, Danish, Dutch, Finnish, French, German, Greek, Hebrew, Hindi, Hungarian, Indonesian, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Malay, Norwegian Bokmål, Polish, Portuguese, Romanian, Russian, Simplified Chinese, Slovak, Spanish, Swedish, Thai, Traditional Chinese, Turkish, Ukrainian, Vietnamese
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- Infrequent
Profanity or Crude Humor
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Alcohol, Tobacco, Drug Use or References
Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
Social Media
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- 10,000 Q $99.99
- 2,000 Q $19.99
- 5,000 Q $47.99
- 500 Q $4.99
- 220 Q $1.99
- 1,000 Q $9.99
- 100 Q $0.99
- Copyright
- © 2009 ИП Никитин В.А.