Ashley Madison®: Discreet Dating
Unlock desire with Ashley Madison® - the discreet dating app built on ethical discretion.
Available in 40+ countries. 91 million Members since 2002 (and counting).
YOUR DESIRES, YOUR RULES.
Whether you’re seeking a new spark, exploring non-monogamy, or navigating the world of polyamory, Ashley Madison connects you with a community that speaks your language—all while keeping you in total control of your privacy.
PRIVACY ISN’T AN OPTION, IT’S OUR STANDARD. With Discreet Match™, Stealth Mode for iOS, private photo masking, discreet billing and more, you can navigate your desire with total anonymity.
EVERYONE IS WELCOME
Be yourself and find what you want in a community that embraces authenticity, desire, and ethical discretion.
HOW AM WORKS
- 100% free to download and easy to get started.
- Find matches that click using Search Filters and Interests & Desires Tags.
- Send Messages, Winks, and Private Key Requests to connect with other Members.
DISCRETION-FIRST
- Discreet Match™ matches you with others who value privacy like you do — clearly, confidently, and discreetly.
- Photo privacy tools help protect your anonymity.
- Discreet billing and private payment options help keep your payment activity confidential*.
- Stealth Mode exclusively for iOS keeps your notifications under the radar and lets you customize their appearance.
- Regular app security updates keep your data and information protected.
- Your personal information is never sold to a third-party under any circumstances.
- We provide Trust & Safety tips to help you improve your safety while navigating Ashley Madison and other social media platforms.
CONNECT WITH CONFIDENCE
- Verify Your Profile: Build trust, boost credibility and prioritize communication with other Verified Members.
- Report a Profile: Quickly report profiles with suspicious activity or inappropriate behavior.
- Block Contacts: Take control and block profiles you don’t want to see on the app.
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Been on around 5 weeks. Cant hardly weed through the fakes and scams fast enough. New members are particularly vulnerable and targeted. They will say the nicest things ever. Or promise you the world. Really they just want your money. A good number are not even ladies - just my opinion. If you really want to make your new crush show their cards ask them for a phone call. Better yet a video call. They will say I’m busy, I’m tired, going golfing with my aunt. Anything not to talk to you!! If you keep insisting they will say don’t you trust me and make you feel guilty for wondering if they are real (they are not). If you try too hard they will wipe the chat and block you. Had 5-10 play nice, get my number and immediately block me so I couldn’t see their profile or write them back. The real live women also freak out if you try to talk to them. 95 percent apparently want to be courted and you pay for every message. I think there is a contest with the scammers. Whoever can get some of my money first wins. No luck so far guys!! Rude: real (I think) ladies will keep you dangling. Eventually they want a man right? They don’t act like it. They will start a chat on AM or another app and disappear in the middle of it. They might come back in ten minutes or two days. Or you chat great for two days and they never come back. Could you just say it’s been nice but I’m closing out this chat. Say something. Some men deserve nasty treatment but not all of us. Enough for tonight. Frustrating but we still hope the one is out there.
I don’t recommend this app
Aaronsuave
I think the app is setup well in terms of the thoughts that went into the options to building peoples profiles. But they’re pretty cheap people. You can’t even message anyone on the app even if they message you first because you have to have “credits to message someone. Guess what, “credits” cost money. Minimum amount that’s currently available is $85 worth of credits. the app is weird too. I post 3 pictures on my profile as public, write a bio that includes my number and snap chat, I then save everything and it shows everything public and posted as I saved it. Then I log back in and my phone number and Snapchat were removed from the bio and two of the pictures I posted as public, are now Private. So I tap the option on both pictures to make them public and it didn’t work. So I delete the pictures from my profile and repost them as public and it worked. I then re added my phone number and Snapchat in my bio (again bc I have no credits to message anyone) and it saved. I log in again later on and same thing happened. My phone number and Snapchat info are specifically removed from bio. And the two pictures I posted were made private again. They’re literally just pictures of me w some friends. Don’t recommend this app
Ashley Madison – Complete Scam, Scammers/Bots Everywhere, Waste of Money! App should be banned.
Kevin7P
Total rip-off and a blatant scam. This app forces you to buy expensive credits just to do anything meaningful—like sending messages, replying, or even viewing new ones (it costs credits to open “collect” messages). The second you load up on credits, your inbox floods with flirty messages from “women” who keep chatting just long enough to drain them all.But guess what? Almost every single one is a bot or scammer. They use scripted responses, push you to move to WhatsApp/Telegram/Signal right away, and then hit you with extortion schemes, crypto scams, or fake sob stories begging for money. You’re tempted to keep spending credits chasing a real connection, only to realize it was all fake.Unbelievable that this app is still allowed on the App Store and Google Play—it’s been exposed for using bots for years, yet nothing changes. The high ratings (around 4 stars) must be fake too; no real user would rate it that highly with this many scammers and zero genuine matches for most men.I strongly advise everyone: DO NOT use Ashley Madison. Save your money and avoid the frustration. Before even thinking about any transaction, research real user feedback on Reddit (search r/adultery or similar)—you’ll see the same warnings over and over.And whatever you do, NEVER post explicit pictures on your profile or send them to anyone on here. It’s a haven for blackmailers and scammers. Biggest regret—stay far away!
Terrible
Mikah999
Just terrible. Not user friendly at ALL. You sign up and can’t access the platform without verifying your email but then again they don’t send any emails to verify, not in your spam folder or anywhere. CS responds several days later after misreading your issue. A week later, just like magic, you do get a verification message. Log in and upload photos: several disappear at different times without explanation so you try to check what others see but you can’t preview your own profile. In the meantime your profile is getting zero attention since the pic vanished so you try to resubmit. Asked if you want to make it a profile pic, even when you agree, it doesn’t end up as a profile pic because the option to turn it into one is available again just like magic. You try to add other non profile pix, app asks you if you’d like to hide anything in it by suggesting masks etc. I request to cover part of the face or something else…but the pic suddenly disappears again with NO notice. I had a full public NON profile pic turned private turned public that always vanishes: I’m dressed in a seat shown up to the nose. If it’s against their policies for whatever strange reason, are we supposed to figure that out? Why suggest masks etc then? Now I’m trying to upload a new pic and the app would only import it fully blurred from iCloud for some other strange reason. DEFINITELY not recommended.
Applied updates to correct performance issues and improve functionality.
Version 8.18.0
The developer, Ruby Life Inc., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
Purchases
Location
Contact Info
User Content
Identifiers
Usage Data
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Information
Seller
Ruby Life Inc.
Size
265.2 MB
Category
Social Networking
Compatibility
Requires iOS 16.0 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 16.0 or later.
iPad Requires iPadOS 16.0 or later.
Apple Vision Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages
English and 15 more
English, Dutch, Finnish, French, German, Hebrew, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Norwegian Bokmål, Portuguese, Russian, Simplified Chinese, Spanish, Swedish, Traditional Chinese