Meet gay men through short videos, not just photos. Get an AI Compatibility Analysis before you message, so you know the vibe is real before you say hi.
Instamor is the gay dating app where short videos bring real personalities, bodies, and lifestyles to life. Built by and for the LGBTQ+ community, it's where guys connect through what makes them real — not just a perfectly posed photo.
Forget endless swiping on static pics. Instamor is made for today's video-first world, helping you meet gay, bi, and queer men by seeing their energy, style, and vibe in motion.
VIDEO-FIRST PROFILES
Photos only show so much. Instamor lets you express yourself through short videos — at the gym, on the beach, traveling, getting ready for a night out, or just being you at home. See how guys move, talk, smile, and live. Make deeper, more authentic connections beyond surface-level images. You can even import your TikTok videos to Instamor in seconds!
SMART AI RECOMMENDATIONS
Tired of matches who aren't your type? Instamor's AI learns the videos and guys you actually engage with — whether you're into gym bros, twinks, bears, beach lovers, or a certain style and look. The more you watch and interact, the better Instamor gets at sending men who match your taste your way.
A COMMUNITY THAT GETS YOU
Instamor is a welcoming, judgment-free space for gay, bi, trans, and queer men of every body type, background, and identity. Whether you're looking for love, dates, friends, or your next adventure, you'll find guys being real and proud.
FIND GUYS NEARBY
Discover men around you or in any city you're headed to. Perfect for meeting locals, planning travel, or finding someone in your neighborhood tonight.
CHAT WITH CHEMISTRY
Get an AI Compatibility Report before you message, so you know the vibe is there. Then break the ice with video, voice, and text — no awkward openers needed.
Download Instamor and show the real you. Your people are already here.
I’ve used Tinder and Hinge for ages, but Instamor is a totally different experience. The short video profiles changed everything for me—hearing someone’s voice and seeing their energy tells me more than a gallery of photos ever could. It makes deciding who to talk to feel natural instead of guessy. I also love that messaging isn’t locked behind a subscription: as soon as we both follow or like each other’s videos, we can chat freely. It fits how I actually want to date.
Great app!
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Surprisingly good! I didn’t think video dating would feel this natural but it actually makes it easier to get a vibe for someone. I’ve tried a bunch of dating apps, and this one’s honestly refreshing. The short videos make profiles feel way more personal, and the AI insights are a cool touch.
Now I actually enjoy dating app
MichaelZas
Swiping to like photos is OUTDATED!! Seeing the life moments in a video is so energizing and HUMAN. We operate in a 3D world, and you get to see your dates smiling at you before the actual date with this app! I enjoy using it as I can DM the people I like immediately too
New dating experience
WindChaserrrr
Finally there is an app providing short video experiences, that’s way more vivid than the traditional image swiping.
bug fix
Version 2.2.0
The developer, Instamor, Inc., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Collected
The developer does not collect any data from this app.
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Accessibility
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