PAM is the family planner designed for real life.
Meet PAM, your always-supportive family assistant who quietly takes the mental load off your plate. Built for real parents (and real chaos), PAM helps you organise the juggle, share the load and keep your household moving without feeling like you’re juggling so many balls that your heads going to explode.
Whether you're wrangling school events, sport schedules, partner coordination, toddler meltdowns, neurodiverse brains or all of the above, PAM is there to take a load off your shoulders, reduce the mental load, and get everyone on the same page.
SEND PAM anything
School newsletters, invite screenshots, daycare emails, sports rosters, “what to bring” lists, a photo of a permission slip you swore you wouldn’t lose.
Just share it to PAM, and she’ll read it, extract what’s important, and pop it into your calendar or task list automatically.
SHARED FAMILY CALENDAR
• Combine work, school and home schedules in one place
• Colour-coded events for each family member
• Sync with your device calendar
• Add partners, kids, caregivers, grandparents or your whole village
REDUCE OVERWHELM AND KEEP TRACK OF WHAT MATTERS
• Smart tasks generated to keep life on track; RSVP, gift buying and gear packing reminders.
• Helpful nudges and reminders
• ADHD friendly planner and support
FAMILY TASK MANAGER
• Assign tasks to anyone
• Shared shopping lists, chore lists and reminders
• Keep everyone on the same page
MENTAL LOAD SUPPORT
• Offload the remembering
• Let PAM help organise the details you don’t have capacity for
• Build a more balanced household
BUILT FOR REAL FAMILIES
• Busy moms and dads
• Single parents,
• Co-parents
• Blended families
• ADHD parents and households
• Grandparents & carers
• PAM helps your family stay coordinated, connected and supported, every day.
MYPAM (Free)
No paywall. No credit card trickery. MyPAM is great if you’re flying solo, or just wanting to really get to know PAM before inviting the wider family.
MyPAM includes:
• Transforms emails and images into a smart calendar and tasks
• Brain-dump into PAM Chat
PAM VILLAGE (Paid)
PAM Village is where PAM really rolls up her sleeves, supporting your household like the calm, competent adult who somehow knows exactly what needs doing without you explaining it 45 times.
Everything in MyPAM, plus:
• Add up to 6 people to your Village, each with their own view
• Smart nudges that help (not nag)
• Shared responsibilities (finally!): Assign tasks to your partner, kids or carers without another “Can you please help with this?” briefing session.
• Sync all of your families existing calendars into PAM, and PAM into your existing calendars (Google, Outlook, Apple).
• WhatsApp integration - flick any important messages to PAM, she’ll transform them into events and tasks for you.
Website: https://www.pamfamilymanager.com/
PAM has genuinely made our household run smoother. With two little kids, things get messy fast, and we were constantly juggling pickups, routines, and random school admin from memory. This pulls everything into one place so we’re not tripping over each other or guessing who’s handling what. The reminders are actually helpful, the quick behaviour notes make it easier to spot patterns, and the check-ins keep both parents aligned instead of running on different scripts. It doesn’t solve parenting, but it cuts a ton of noise and makes the week feel more under control.
Developer Response
Thank you so so much for the kind words - glad we're being of good use. Please reach out if you have any feedback for us!
Bringing some peace to my life
Frankieeeeeeeeeeeee
With a busy house, having a central place to track everything has been a huge help! Would highly recommend if things are falling between the cracks.
Developer Response
Yes, that's the spirit - thanks so much for getting *exactly* what we're about. Please reach out if you have any feedback for us!
Brilliant
angel of the pod
So looking forward to sharing this with my family- will make coordinating a lot easier. I actually like the calendar layout better than my actual Gcal!
Developer Response
Yus, beating Google Calendar, now that's an achievement! Thank you!
PAM for the win
A-Rubes
Being a parent is hard. Remembering everything that needs to be done is hard. PAM makes that easier and helps keep us organized
Developer Response
Do you know what's hard? Trying to eat your breakfast without being interrupted 18 times about Pokemon cards. Not sure if we'll be able to solve that, but so happy we've been making things less hard for you. Thank you for the note!
- You can now use Notes without data/wifi
- Voice in Chat now works with the language your phone is set too.
- Small improvements to make life easier
Version 1.2.0
The developer, PAM NZ, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
Purchases
Contact Info
User Content
Identifiers
Usage Data
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The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
Diagnostics
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Information
Seller
PAM NZ Limited
Size
117 MB
Category
Lifestyle
Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
iPad Requires iPadOS 18.0 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 15.0.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
