The NotME App
Enthusiastic Consent App
Only for iPhone
Free · In‑App Purchases
iPhone
Love consent? So do we. #NotME makes saying yes exciting & secure. Seesaw your way to clarity, confidence & personal safety!
THE NOTME APP — Consent Made Confident.
You already know the person. You know the vibe is there. But saying what you actually want out loud? That’s where most people get stuck.
Private discover what you’re both open to, before it get’s awkward. The NotME App removes the awkwardness entirely.
Here’s how it works:
Set your personal preferences privately — what you’re open to, what you’re not, at any level of connection from coffee to intimacy. Invite someone you already know into a Rendezvous. They set their preferences independently. The app then shows ONLY what you both mutually agree on.
No match? You’ll get a polite notification that the vibe doesn’t match. Your ego stays completely protected.
Match? You’re both already on the same page. Just like that.
What is a Rendezvous?
A Rendezvous is a private, mutual consent session between two people, where both parties independently share their intentions and the app reveals only what you both agree on.
This is NOT a dating app.
NotME is for two people who already know each other and want a safe, private way to get on the same page without the risk of rejection, embarrassment, or making things awkward.
Built for everyone:
Whether your relationship is exclusively online, you just had an incredible first date, reconnected with someone special, or want to take an existing relationship further, NotME gives both of you the clarity to move forward confidently.
Your safety is our priority:
• All consent records securely stored for 12 months
• Optional age verification (ID required) with a verified pink checkmark
• Universal safe word: SEESAW — spoken at any time, it signals an immediate stop
• Data only accessible under legal process (subpoena or court order)
Because real consent is mutual, clear, and enthusiastic.
Consent is Sexy. It takes two to tango.
We offer users the choice of auto-renewable subscriptions in monthly, 6-month, or annual plans, as well as consumable plans for ID Verification. Prices may vary by country and are subject to change without notice. All prices are clearly displayed within the app.
* Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase.
* Your subscription will automatically renew itself, unless auto-renewal is turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period.
* Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period.
* You can manage your subscriptions and turn off auto-renewal by going to your Account Settings in the iTunes Store.
Your personal data is securely stored on The NotME app, be sure to read our privacy policy and terms and conditions:
https://thenotmeapp.com/privacy-policy
https://thenotmeapp.com/terms-conditions
Ratings & Reviews
Minor fixes and enhancements
The developer, Not Me Limited Liability Company, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
- Identifiers
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Identifiers
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Not Me Limited Liability Company
- Size
- 41.8 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.6 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.6 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.6 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- Infrequent
Sexual Content or Nudity
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- ID Verification $9.69
- 30 Day Tease $10.00
- A Singular Condom $3.00
- Mile High Club $79.99
- Celebrity Status $50.00
- Premium ID Verification $4.00
- Copyright
- © 2026 NOT-Me LLC. All Rights Reserved. Provisional Patent No. 63/750,867