The NotME App
Consent Made Confident
Only for iPhone
Free · In‑App Purchases
iPhone
Love consent? So do we. #NotME makes saying yes exciting & secure. Seesaw your way to clarity, confidence & personal safety!
THE NOTME APP — Consent Made Confident.
You already know the person. You can feel the connection. But saying what you actually want out loud? That's where most people get stuck.
Privately discover what you're both open to before things get awkward. NotME takes the guesswork out of it.
HOW IT WORKS
Set your preferences privately: what you're open to, what you're not, at any level of connection from coffee to intimacy. Invite someone you already know into a Rendezvous. They set their preferences on their own. NotME then shows only what you both agree on.
No match? You'll get a kind, private notification. No awkward conversation needed.
Match? You're already on the same page. Just like that.
WHAT IS A RENDEZVOUS?
A Rendezvous is a private, mutual-consent session between two people. Each of you shares your intentions independently, and the app reveals only what you both agree on.
A match is a starting point, not a promise. Consent is ongoing, and either of you can change your mind at any time, in the app or in person.
THIS IS NOT A DATING APP.
NotME is for two people who already know each other and want a respectful, private way to get on the same page without pressure, embarrassment, or mixed signals.
BUILT FOR EVERY KIND OF CONNECTION
Whether you met online, just had a great first date, reconnected with someone special, or want to take an existing relationship further, NotME gives you both the clarity to move forward with confidence.
SAFETY COMES FIRST
- 18+ only. Verify your age with a valid government-issued ID to earn the pink verified checkmark.
- Change your mind anytime. Your preferences can be updated instantly.
- Our suggested safe word: SEESAW. If either person says it, everything stops, no questions asked.
- Your data is encrypted, and your privacy is important to us.
Because real consent is mutual, clear, and enthusiastic.
It takes two to tango.
We offer users the choice of auto-renewable subscriptions in monthly, 6-month, or annual plans, as well as consumable plans for ID Verification. Prices may vary by country and are subject to change without notice. All prices are clearly displayed within the app.
* Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase.
* Your subscription will automatically renew itself, unless auto-renewal is turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period.
* Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period.
* You can manage your subscriptions and turn off auto-renewal by going to your Account Settings in the iTunes Store.
Your personal data is securely stored on The NotME app, be sure to read our privacy policy and terms and conditions:
https://thenotmeapp.com/privacy-policy
https://thenotmeapp.com/terms-conditions
Ratings & Reviews
This update is all about making NotME feel smoother, smarter, and more welcoming from the moment you open it.
- New guided setup flow for all users, with improved ordering and refreshed content.
- First-time hints now walk you through the key features so nothing feels unfamiliar.
- Your QR code on the home screen has a refreshed look.
- A confirmation step now appears before sending or accepting a rendezvous request.
- Bug fixes and visual improvements across multiple screens.
The developer, Not Me Limited Liability Company, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
- Identifiers
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Identifiers
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Not Me Limited Liability Company
- Size
- 45.2 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.6 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.6 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.6 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- Infrequent
Sexual Content or Nudity
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- ID Verification $9.69
- 30 Day Tease $10.00
- A Singular Condom $3.00
- Mile High Club $89.00
- Celebrity Status $50.00
- Premium ID Verification $4.00
- Copyright
- © 2026 NOT-Me LLC. All Rights Reserved. Provisional Patent No. 63/750,867