Coparency: Co-Parenting App
Custody, Messaging & Schedule
Free · Designed for iPad
Reduce conflict. Protect your kids. Coparency gives high-conflict co-parents the structure to communicate calmly, document everything, and keep kids out of the middle.
Coparency is a co-parenting app built for high-conflict situations.
It helps separated and divorced parents communicate through structure instead of conflict — keeping every exchange calm, documented, and focused on the kids, even when the relationship between parents is strained.
This is not texting. Coparency replaces chaotic, emotionally charged messaging with a structured communication system designed to reduce escalation, create clear records, and protect your peace of mind.
KEY FEATURES
Peacekeeper AI — Communication Support
• Get real-time feedback on tone before you send
• Turn conflict-prone messages into calm, child-focused communication
• Catch hostile or defensive language before it escalates
• Protect yourself from impulsive replies you'll regret
Structured Messaging & Records
• Keep every conversation organized, on-topic, and documented
• Build a clear, court-friendly communication record automatically
• End the endless back-and-forth and circular arguments
Shared Schedules & Parenting Plans
• Coordinate parenting time, exchanges, and important dates
• Reduce misunderstandings about who has the kids and when
• Keep both parents aligned on the plan
Expense Tracking
• Log shared costs and keep a transparent record
• Reduce disputes over money and reimbursements
• Know who owes what, without the argument
DESIGNED FOR HIGH-CONFLICT CO-PARENTING
• Built to reduce emotional harm and escalation
• Encourages child-centered, business-like communication
• Helps you set boundaries and stay consistent
WHY COPARENCY?
If you're dealing with constant hostile messages, manipulation, or communication that always turns into conflict, Coparency gives you the tools, structure, and emotional guardrails to stay calm, clear, and focused on what matters most: your kids.
Whether you're newly separated or years into a high-conflict dynamic, Coparency helps you:
• Reduce stress and emotional drain
• Avoid reactive messages you'll regret
• Create clear records and firm boundaries
• Keep your children out of adult conflict
This isn't just a messaging app. It's a communication safety system for co-parents.
Built by a parent who's lived it. Designed for parents who need it.
Introducing Peacekeeper Insights — the long view of your co-parenting communication, and something no other co-parenting app offers:
- Weekly reflections — a short, private recap of your week that leads with what you did well
- Moments & themes — hard stretches get named while they're happening (and closed out when they resolve), and recurring topics become visible patterns
- Your tone over time — see your own trends, week by week, plus when friction tends to happen so you can steer hard conversations to calmer windows
- For professionals — each family's recent climate at a glance, monthly communication summaries, and response patterns
Your insights are yours alone — neither parent ever sees the other's. Find them under Insights on the Messages page.
Calendar subscriptions — bring outside schedules into your family calendar. Subscribe to a sports team, school, or any shared calendar by link, and it stays in sync alongside your parenting schedule.
Plus smaller improvements throughout, including reply tags with gentle reminders for messages that need an answer.
The developer, Matthew Townsend, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Collected
The developer does not collect any data from this app.
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Matthew Townsend
- Size
- 26.9 MB
- Category
- Productivity
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 18.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 18.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 15.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 2.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
4+
- 4+
- Contains
Messaging and Chat
- Copyright
- © 2025 Coparency LLC
