I Can Say No: CBT & Boundaries
People Pleasing & Self Therapy
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
Struggling to say no? Rehearse it first, then say it with confidence.
I Can Say No helps you set healthy boundaries, stop people pleasing and protect your time, energy and mental health. Built on CBT and assertiveness training, it turns "I should have said no" into "I said it, calmly."
NEW: BOUNDARY PRACTICE
A hard conversation coming up? Prepare for it in a few minutes:
• Pick the situation and who it's with: your boss, partner, family, a friend, or yourself
• Choose what you're protecting: your time, energy, money, health or values
• Find a reply that fits you. There's no single right way to say no.
• Rehearse round by round: they push back, you practise your answer. Nothing is scored.
• Leave with your own script, an "if they push back" plan and a reminder to reflect afterwards
Couldn't say it this time? The app helps you understand what happened and try again, without guilt.
Your safety comes first: if saying no might not feel safe, the app suggests a more careful approach.
SAY NO TO OTHERS, AND TO YOURSELF
A "social no" to draining requests, overtime and toxic expectations. An "internal no" to doomscrolling, overthinking, self-pressure and perfectionism.
WHAT YOU CAN DO
• Boundary journal: log your yes and no moments in seconds, with CBT prompts that reveal guilt patterns
• Refusal toolkit: ready-to-use scripts for work, friends, family and relationships
• Social battery: see what drains you before burnout hits
• Progress tracking: streaks, trends and your growing "no muscle"
• Smart reminders: small daily steps that build confidence and self-esteem
• Mindful moments: calm the anxiety that can follow a boundary
WHO IT'S FOR
• People pleasers who feel guilty saying no
• Anyone stretched thin by work stress, family pressure or codependent patterns
• Anyone who wants more self-respect, self-care and calm
PREMIUM
• Unlimited practice for hard conversations
• Ad-free experience
• Smart motivation tailored to your progress and hard moments
• Detailed statistics and weekly trends
• Personal insights and recommendations
• Secure iCloud backup and restore
Choose monthly, yearly (starts with a 7-day free trial and saves about 44% compared with monthly) or a one-time lifetime purchase. Prices are shown in the app and may vary by country.
PRIVACY FIRST
No account needed. Your entries stay on your device; backup is optional and goes to your own iCloud. Sharing anonymous usage data is optional.
I Can Say No is a self-help tool, not medical or psychological treatment.
Available in 49 languages.
Practise one boundary today, and say yes to yourself.
Subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Payment is charged to your Apple ID at confirmation of purchase; renewals are charged within 24 hours before the period ends. Manage or cancel anytime in your App Store account settings. The lifetime purchase is a one-time payment with no renewals.
Privacy Policy: https://mayrainsoftware.com/icansaynoprivacy.txt
Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
Improved onboarding and bug fixes.
The developer, Efe Can OGUR, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Efe Can OGUR
- Size
- 63.7 MB
- Category
- Health & Fitness
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 15.0 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
English and 43 more
- English, Arabic, Bengali, Bulgarian, Croatian, Czech, Danish, Dutch, Estonian, Filipino, Finnish, French, German, Greek, Hebrew, Hindi, Hungarian, Indonesian, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Latvian, Lithuanian, Malay, Maltese, Norwegian Bokmål, Persian, Polish, Portuguese, Romanian, Russian, Serbian, Simplified Chinese, Slovak, Slovenian, Spanish, Swahili, Swedish, Thai, Traditional Chinese, Turkish, Ukrainian, Urdu, Vietnamese
- Age Rating
9+
- 9+
- Contains
Advertising
Health or Wellness Topics
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- I Can Say No Premium Monthly $5.99
- Premium Lifetime $69.99
- I Can Say No Premium Monthly $39.99
- I Can Say No Premium Monthly $39.99
- Copyright
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