Updated for iOS 27 and ready for iPhone Duo. Your shared bucket list adapts the moment you unfold, with room for plans, photos and memories side by side.
Relationships don't run on autopilot. Not Pink is a couples bucket list app that turns shared dreams into real plans, and real plans into memories worth keeping.
No polished highlight reels. No generic date-night tips. Just a private space for the two of you to agree on what you actually want to do together, and then go do it.
HOW IT WORKS
Every idea on your list moves through four phases:
• ALIGN: Talk about what excites you both. An idea only moves forward once you both say yes.
• PLAN: Suggest a day and a place. One of you proposes, the other agrees or suggests something else. Find a time that fits real life, not just the calendar.
• PREPARE: Build a shared checklist and count down the days. Everything stays in one place.
• RELIVE: Pin photos, videos, voice notes and drawings to a Memory Board you make together. Loved it? Do it again.
MADE FOR REAL COUPLES
• Two yeses for every decision: nothing moves forward without both of you
• One chat per idea, with message starters for when you don't know where to begin
• Save ideas from TikTok, Instagram or any link you share to the app
• Swipe through date ideas to find what you both want
• See upcoming plans and past adventures on your map
• Vision boards to picture what you're building together
• 5 categories: Explore, Taste, Play, Create, Build
• Works offline and syncs when you reconnect
Free to start. One Premium subscription covers you both.
Not Pink is for couples who want to stop scrolling and start living. Whether you share a home or live across time zones, your bucket list starts here.
Privacy first. No ads. No data selling. Your love story stays yours.
Ratings & Reviews
5.0
out of 5
1 Ratings
Discover has a new "Worth the trip" row. Browse destinations like Paris, Maui or the California Coast, each with its own ideas, and add the ones you love to your list one by one.
Plus a handful of small fixes and polish.
Version 1.18.4
The developer, Thomas Flad, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
Identifiers
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
Purchases
Location
Contact Info
User Content
Identifiers
Usage Data
Other Data
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
Identifiers
Usage Data
Diagnostics
Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More
The developer indicated that this app supports the following accessibility features. Learn More
Supported Features
VoiceOver
Reduced Motion
Information
Seller
Thomas Flad
Size
154.3 MB
Category
Lifestyle
Compatibility
Requires iOS 26.0 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 26.0 or later.
iPad Requires iPadOS 26.0 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 26.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
