GuideToUs - Couple Q&A & Quiz

Share values & dynamic rules

Only for iPhone

Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.

iPhone

From "Understand me without words" to "Communicate and understand each other." GuideToUs (Our Instruction Manual) is a "Heart Maintenance" app designed to help partners share values, deepen understanding, and build a stress-free relationship. Do you find yourselves arguing over trivial things? Or perhaps you have something you want your partner to change but can't find the right words, leaving you feeling frustrated and uneasy? This app helps you build an ideal partnership by allowing you to create mutual "Instruction Manuals" for your personalities and preferences. It features "Rules" for a stress-free life together, "Heart Detox" to release feelings you couldn't express in the moment, and "Emergency Reset" to support making up after a fight. 【Key Features】 ■1. "Instruction Manual" to understand your partner Create and share your own manual, such as "I dislike the sound of nail clipping" or "I prefer some alone time." By checking each other's "Don'ts" and "Joy Points" anytime, you can reduce misunderstandings. ■2. "Couple Rules" to avoid conflict Improve your daily life by clarifying household rules like "Take out the trash immediately" or "Fold laundry as soon as it's dry," as well as relationship rules like "Make up within the day" or "Don't look at each other's phones." ■3. "Heart Detox" to organize your emotions "The rules feel a bit tight lately..." "I couldn't say it in the moment..." "It’s not worth bringing up directly, but I feel uneasy..." When this happens, write it down in the app to detox. Your accumulated thoughts will be sent to your partner at a set time each day. Writing things down helps you stay calm and choose the right words. You can also cancel the message if you process the feeling yourself before the detox time, or use it as a starting point for a discussion. ■4. The “Emergency Reset” That Makes You Honest When a big fight makes it hard to find a chance to apologize, use the Emergency Reset. With one tap, you can send a "Make-up Request" to show your intent. The app gently pushes you forward when pride gets in the way. ■5. Can't Decide? Let "Pick One!" Choose "Western, Japanese, or Chinese for dinner?" "Amusement park, aquarium, or movies for our next date?" When you can’t decide on your meal or destination, simply list your options together, and the app will pick one for you automatically! ■6. "Daily Choice" – Understand Your Partner Better You can answer one new topic every day. Discover each other's values through your choices and use them as a natural way to start a conversation! ■7. "100 Questions" – Deepen Your Bond Get to know each other on a deeper level through 100 thought-provoking questions. Just like the "Daily Choice," these are perfect for sparking meaningful conversations. The goal of a discussion isn't for the stronger debater to win, but to create a space of security where you understand each other's values and care for one another. 【Recommended for】 ・Couples who have just started living together or got married ・Couples who value mutual respect ・Those who want to understand their partner on a deeper level ・Those who feel that arguments have increased or conversations have decreased lately ・Those who tend to bottle up frustrations until they explode 【About Plans】 Basic features are free to use. By subscribing to the Plus Plan, you can unlock limits on the number of manuals, rules, detox entries, and chat messages, allowing you to deepen your relationship even further. 【Terms of Use】 https://guide-to-us.lmn-blog.com/terms-app-en.php Create your own comfortable relationship with GuideToUs.

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・Fixed bug when opening the app offline

Version 1.4.2

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Information

Seller
  • KENSUKE KANEKO
Size
  • 21 MB
Category
  • Lifestyle
Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
  • iPhone
    Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
  • Mac
    Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
  • Apple Vision
    Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages
English and 5 more
  • English, Japanese, Korean, Simplified Chinese, Thai, Traditional Chinese
Age Rating
16+
In-App Purchases
Yes
Copyright
  • © 2026 Kensuke Kaneko.
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