Ever feel like you said one thing, but someone heard something completely different?
I Said, You Heard is your personal communication coach and guide, helping you understand why conversations go sideways and how to choose words that actually land. Based on Kathleen Edelman's acclaimed temperament framework and books (I Said This, You Heard That and A Grown Up's Guide to Kids' Wiring), this app reveals the hidden patterns behind every interaction.
DISCOVER YOUR WIRING
Take our temperament assessment to uncover your unique blend of Blue, Red, Yellow, and Green. Learn what that means for how you naturally speak, listen, and connect.
DAILY PRACTICE
Build your streak by completing daily, bite-sized exercises that are designed to promote growth in your communication and peace in your relationships.
TALK TO YOUR COACH
Stuck on how to handle a difficult conversation? Your virtual communication coach understands the temperament framework inside and out. Get personalized guidance for real situations, whether it's navigating conflict with your spouse, connecting with a distant teenager, or communicating effectively with colleagues.
USE THE FACILITATOR
Working through a tough conversation? The Facilitator will hear the perspectives of everyone involved, then send a personalized communication guide to each participant based on their unique wiring, innate needs, strengths, and weaknesses.
EXPLORE UNIVERSITY
Dive deep into the temperament framework with articles, exercises, and guides. Understand the words to choose to get through to your Red boss, Blue friend, Yellow partner, and Green teen.
TRACK YOUR GROWTH
Use the built-in journal to reflect on your conversations and see how far you've come. Set weekly challenges to go from theory to practice of healthier communication.
WHO THIS APP IS FOR:
• Couples who keep having the same arguments
• Parents struggling to connect with their kids
• Leaders who want to inspire (not frustrate) their teams
• Anyone tired of repeating the same misunderstandings
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
• Why the same words land differently with different people
• How to translate your message for any temperament
• The patterns behind most communication breakdowns
• Practical phrases that build bridges instead of walls
SUBSCRIPTION DETAILS:
• Unlock unlimited access to Coach, Facilitator, and University
• Only $14.99/month
• Cancel anytime
Questions? Visit isaidyouheard.com or follow us @isaidyouheard
Terms of Use: https://assessment.isaidyouheard.com/terms
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Communication is the foundation of great relationships 💚💙❤️💛
The Meepster Man
I wish everyone had this app and used it to improve communication with everyone around them. This concept has helped me navigate relationships with my husband, children, friends & family. This app gives you 24/7 access to guiding you through all kinds of relational situations. My green/yellow son was challenging us on something he wanted, that we wouldn’t give him. This app helped us speak to his temperament so we didn’t shut him down, while still accomplishing what we needed to do. It was a win win!This app will help you problem solve based on the temperaments involved. It can help you understand your own wiring and how it impacts your conversations and relationships. It can help you understand the people you love better which fosters deeper connection. I highly recommend this app.. I call it my pocket therapist!
Great Start!
Spiritualbreathing
This is a great start on learning about yourself. However, it seems a big aspect of this is connecting the dots in your relationships. I am wondering if future builds will allow you to connect with a spouse, partner, or child in the app (each having your own logins on your devices) in order to have curated content sent to both of you that helps you grow in your specific areas?
Life changing
Horse lover!!! :)
This is my new favorite app. I have drawn on my limited knowledge of the temperaments for years and it has been so helpful. But this? This app is my families new go to anytime we have a disagreement or struggle to relate. The coach feature will blow your mind. It’s like the author herself is sitting beside you answering your questions. It is incredibly intuitive and personal. I’ll never be without this relationship resource. Well done!
An amazing tool! A must-have!
My helpful feedback
This is blowing my mind. The information is fantastic but the real gem of the app is the Coach component. I got the helpful answers I needed AND the Coach spoke to me according to MY temperament! I asked “him” if he did that intentionally and he said yes. Brilliant! Get this app and develop the art of communication and connection. It’s a game-changer in life, work, and relationships.
Minor UI bugfix
Version 1.0.6
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