Tryst takes the stress out of planning date night.
Skip the scrolling and searching. Choose where you want to go, your mood, and your budget. We'll handle the rest.
Tryst is a date planner for couples who want to stop winging it.
Friday rolls around. You care—you really do. But somehow you end up in the same place, having the same conversation about trying something new.
Planning better dates shouldn't be hard.
Tryst helps you discover thoughtful date ideas, stay ahead of important moments, and make date night something you both look forward to.
WHAT YOU CAN DO
Discover better dates
Choose your mood—Romantic, Fun, Chill, or Adventurous—and browse 550+ curated date ideas across seven categories, from cozy nights at home to weekend adventures.
Build a complete plan
Pick a venue, choose a time, and let Tryst organize everything into one simple checklist so nothing gets forgotten.
Plan your way
Whether you're looking for an Easy Night In, a Thoughtful Date, an All-Out Experience, or want to hit Surprise Me, Tryst adapts to the night you're planning.
Never miss the moments that matter
Stay ahead of anniversaries, birthdays, and Valentine's Day with reminders weeks in advance. Keep gifts, cards, reservations, and special touches organized separately so every detail gets done.
Learn what your partner loves
The two-minute Partner Survey personalizes recommendations based on both of your preferences, helping every date feel more intentional.
Remember your best dates
Reflect after each date, save favorite moments, and build a private history of your relationship that helps Tryst make better recommendations over time.
PRIVATE BY DESIGN
Your data belongs to you.
No account. No password. No phone number. No ads.
Everything is stored locally on your device using Apple's SwiftData. If iCloud is enabled, your data syncs securely through Apple's encrypted CloudKit—not our servers. We never store your personal data.
Delete everything anytime with a single tap.
START FREE
Explore date ideas, build plans, and try every feature free for 30 days.
After your trial, Tryst Pro unlocks sending plans to your partner, Compatibility Test, Tryst Undercover, date stacking, Pulse insights across dates, and more.
Your date history, reflections, and profile editing remain free forever.
Built by a couple for couples.
Your next favorite date starts with Tryst
Tryst Pro is an auto-renewable subscription: $5.99/month or $39.99/year, with a 30-day free trial. Payment is charged to your Apple ID at confirmation of purchase. It renews automatically unless turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in your Apple ID settings.
Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
Privacy Policy: https://trystdateplanner.com/privacy
Super helpful app that helps you plan dates efficiently. I’ve planned a date using my partner’s and I interests; this gave me a lot of options of various prices points. Can’t wait to see even more ideas added
Super helpful
DGSI CR
This is a great app . I love how easy it is to use and I was able to plan a date with my partner easier than before!
Love it
Becca0405
Great app! & very easy to use, made planning dates so much easier! The app has great ideas for fun dates I didn’t even think about!
Great planning app
madmichalex
Makes it too easy to plan dates. There’s legit no excuse to be made from the date ideas, games, schedules, and customizations. Love it!
- Just say "Plan a date in Tryst" — even from the lock screen. Siri puts the whole evening together, real spot nearby included, and one tap opens it ready to send to your person.
- Ask Siri what's coming up. Your next date, the details, the ones you've already been on — read back to you like a friend who keeps track.
- Picking a place got easy. The best spot nearby comes already chosen, and it tells you why. Want a different one? One tap. Rather decide later? Also fine.
- Search finally gets it. Ask for karaoke, get actual karaoke bars — not every bar in town — and spots we know have closed stay out.
- Tryst knows you two now. Your profiles read like little portraits — what you each love, where it learned that — and it finally asks the dates that matter: their birthday, your anniversary.
- Your first idea shows up ready to go, and every button says where it leads. No guessing.
- Accessibility filters — crowds, sound, light, mobility — now catch the right ideas the way they should.
Send feedback from the bottom of the home screen — every message reaches the founder.
Version 1.11
The developer, Arrington Copeland, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
Diagnostics
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Accessibility
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Information
Seller
Arrington Copeland
Size
13.5 MB
Category
Lifestyle
Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 15.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.