Valence: AI Breakup Recovery
No Contact Coach & Healing AI
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
They broke it. Fixing it isn't your job. Three AI coaches, a 60-second quiz, and the only app that makes the loop you can't see — visible.
Valence is not another "count the days" app. No generic quotes. No empty streaks. No one-size-fits-all advice.
It is a psychological recovery system — built around one truth most people miss: your silence is the most powerful move you have, and your ex is going through predictable stages while you stay quiet.
WHY SILENCE IS A STRATEGY
Most breakup apps count days. Valence shows you what those days are doing — to you AND to your ex. As you progress through your recovery phases, the app maps your ex's likely psychological journey in parallel: from Relief to Curiosity to Doubt to Regret. You see exactly where both of you are, and why breaking no contact right now would reset everything.
3 AI COACHES THAT LEARN YOUR STORY
Choose the coaching style that fits where you are right now:
The Stabilizer: Calm, grounding support when you are overwhelmed.
The Strategist: Tactical guidance on power dynamics and why your ex just liked your story at 1am.
The Rebuilder: Forward-focused energy. The ex is irrelevant — who are you becoming?
Each coach knows your day count, stability score, vulnerability patterns, and mood history. Every response is specific to YOUR situation.
VULNERABILITY MAP
Log what happened — a trigger, an urge, a moment of weakness — in 30 seconds. The app builds a personal heatmap of when you are most likely to break. It detects your cycle: peak risk window, dominant emotion, and whether you are getting stronger each week.
MOOD TREND DETECTION
After each check-in, Valence scans your last 7 days for patterns — no AI needed. Same mood 3 days straight? A sudden calm after chaos? The app catches it and tells you why.
WEEKLY AI REPORT
Stability trends, mood patterns, urge levels, breach analysis, and a personalized strategy from your coach — generated every Monday. Six sections, week-over-week comparison.
DAILY CHECK-IN
Check in with your mood, complete personalized micro-actions, and close the day with a debrief. The system adapts to how you actually feel.
RECOVERY TIMELINE
See your healing phases alongside your ex's psychological journey. Understand why Day 14 feels impossible, why Day 30 is a turning point, and why Day 60+ is where the real shift happens.
THE VAULT
Journal with AI-powered insights. Voice memos with transcription and analysis. Future letters to your healed self. Reason Wall — why it ended, in your own words.
SOS MODE
Guided breathing, your personal reasons, and immediate access to your AI coach. Built for 2am.
KNOWLEDGE LIBRARY
31 evidence-based articles on attachment science, no-contact psychology, rebound dynamics, and identity rebuilding.
PUSH NOTIFICATIONS
Check-in reminders, streak milestones, comeback nudges, and coach messages. Valence stays with you even when the app is closed.
XP & RANK SYSTEM
Every action earns XP. Longer streaks multiply progress. Rise through 12 ranks. Consistency unlocks bonus AI credits.
FREE & PREMIUM
Free: 3 AI credits per week + bonus credits through XP. Full access to all tools, tracking, and articles.
Premium: 3-day free trial. Full AI coaching, weekly reports, voice analysis, and advanced insights.
Lifetime: $79.99 — one-time purchase, permanent access.
Subscriptions auto-renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period.
PRIVACY FIRST
Recovery data stored locally. AI processed by Google Gemini via Cloudflare Workers — no AI inputs stored. No account required. No tracking. No ads.
Available in English and Turkish.
Your silence is not passive. It is the strategy. Valence gives you the system to make it work.
Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
Ratings & Reviews
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Recovery tracking upgrade — your weekly report now includes Mentor messages, Future Letters, Void burns, and Reasons. The Mentor now proactively uses what you shared during onboarding instead of asking again. Credit & XP system clearly explained — tap (?) icon next to your credit counter, or open Settings > How It Works. Weekly stats visible from day 1. Site now in Turkish at thevalence.app. Stability improvements.
The developer, Furkan Dogan, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Furkan Dogan
- Size
- 50.8 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 14.0.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 14.0.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 14.0.0 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 14.0.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 11.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
13+
- 13+
- Infrequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Contains
Health or Wellness Topics
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Premium Lifetime $79.99
- Valence Premium — Yearly $39.99
- Valence Premium — Monthly $9.99
- Valence Premium — Weekly $4.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 Furkan Dogan