Stem: Lesbian Dating Chat App
Meet & Date Women
Only for iPhone
Free · In‑App Purchases
iPhone
Date, flirt, and connect with verified women in a space built for genuine chemistry. Stem is the sweetest way to pick your person.
Stem is a verified dating app built for lesbian, bisexual, sapphic, queer, curious, and open-minded women who want authentic connections in a safer, more intentional space.
Every profile on Stem is verified to help reduce fake accounts, bots, and catfishing, so you can focus on meeting real people with confidence.
Whether you’re looking for a relationship, new queer friends, genuine chemistry, or simply exploring connection, Stem gives you multiple ways to connect:
• Browse verified profiles and match with intention
• Chat, flirt, and meet women authentically
• Use Vibe to connect through personality, prompts, and face-free photos
• Join group chats and build your circle
• Share profiles and set your friends up
VIBE - CONNECT FIRST
Tired of appearance-first dating? Vibe lets you connect through prompts, chat, and face-free photos before profiles are revealed. Start with a question or share a photo that shows your personality; like your favorite view, coffee order, dog, bookshelf, adventure, or latest meal. Chat until your Vibe meter fills up, then reveal yourselves when the connection is mutual.
GROUP CHATS - BUILD YOUR CIRCLE
Dating is better with community. Join group chats, meet women beyond 1:1 matching, and create more natural ways to connect with people who share your interests.
SHARE PROFILES - SET FRIENDS UP
Found someone perfect for a friend? Stem makes it easy to share profiles and help your friends make meaningful connections too.
VERIFIED PROFILES - REAL CONNECTIONS
Stem is designed around trust, authenticity, and safety. Our verification process helps create a more comfortable space to date, chat, and connect.
Stem is built by and for the sapphic community, while welcoming women who are curious, exploring, or simply looking for authentic connection in a safer space.
Whether you’re searching for your person, your next date, a casual spark, or your next circle of friends, Stem is where real connections start.
Privacy Policy: https://stem.dating/privacy
Terms of Use: https://stem.dating/terms
Bug fixes and small improvements.
The developer, Frostbyte Labs LLC, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Location
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Sensitive Info
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Frostbyte Labs LLC
- Size
- 58.1 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 26.1 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 26.1 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
English and 27 more
- English, Czech, Danish, Dutch, Finnish, French, German, Greek, Hebrew, Hungarian, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Norwegian Bokmål, Polish, Portuguese, Romanian, Russian, Simplified Chinese, Slovak, Slovenian, Spanish, Swedish, Thai, Traditional Chinese, Turkish, Ukrainian, Vietnamese
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- This app has an age rating of 18+ with content restrictions.
Some content may be rated higher, and may therefore be restricted and managed by the developer through in-app controls. - In-App Controls
Age Assurance
Frequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Infrequent
Profanity or Crude Humor
Sexual Content or Nudity
Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
Social Media
Social Media (Age Restricted)
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Stem Premium $6.99
- Travel Mode $1.99
- 5 Gold Stars $3.99
- 15 Gold Stars $8.99
- 1 Gold Star $0.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 Frostbyte Labs LLC