One text can take over your whole day.
Maybe you are waiting for a reply. Maybe you are replaying a conversation, going quiet when you want to speak, or sending something you wish you could take back.
Secure Space helps you pause, understand the pattern underneath the reaction, and choose a different next step.
A private place to come back to yourself.
WHO IT’S FOR
Secure Space is for the moments when relationships feel hard to hold alone.
For breakups. For chasing connection when someone pulls away, or pulling away when closeness feels overwhelming. For the “what are we?” phase, when every unread message feels like a verdict. For anyone who has felt “too much” or like they were disappearing to keep the peace.
Not sure where you land? That is a starting point, not a problem to solve.
HOW IT WORKS
Begin with a short attachment assessment. Your result is not a label. It is a starting point for noticing your patterns around reassurance, space, and connection.
When something happens, Check In. Type a few words or choose how you are feeling, then find the tool that fits the moment: a Reset for clarity, Ground Me for a calming pause, Secure Send before a message, or a reframe for another perspective.
WHAT YOU’LL FIND INSIDE
• People: Keep people, relationship moments, reflections, notes, and dates in one private place.
• Check In: Name what is happening and find a helpful next step.
• Reset: A guided path from reaction to clarity.
• Repair: After a fight, a clear plan to make things right
• Ground Me: A short calming pause for when your body gets there before your thoughts do.
• Secure Send: Write in your voice, check tone and boundaries, then decide what feels right before you send.
• Daily Quiz: Practice everyday relationship moments in two minutes.
• Practice: Guided exercises for real situations in dating, relationships, breakups, communication, and self-worth. Return later for a gentle Look Back.
• Reframe Library: Find another perspective for delayed replies, conflict, distance, breakups, trust, and more.
• Learn and First Aid: Clear reads, prompts, and in-the-moment support.
• Insights: See your Secure Path and Growth Signals, including patterns and what seems to help.
• Daily Reframe: A fresh perspective and affirmation each day.
• Siri and Shortcuts: Open Check In, Reset, Ground Me, Secure Send, Today’s Reframe, or search the Library.
PRIVATE BY DESIGN
Your reflections, People profiles, assessment results, and personal insights are stored on your device. No account is required. We do not sell your personal data or use what you write to train models.
You can protect Secure Space with Face ID, Touch ID, or your device passcode.
Some optional Secure Send requests can use Apple Private Cloud Compute on supported devices. Secure Space always asks first and explains what is shared for that specific request. We collect only limited anonymous onboarding events to improve the setup experience. We do not collect your notes, messages, assessment answers, scores, people, or relationship activity.
SECURE SPACE PRO
Secure Space is free to begin. Secure Space Pro unlocks full access to premium tools, practices, People, Secure Path, Growth Signals, and more.
Payment will be charged to your Apple ID account at confirmation of purchase. Weekly and yearly subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period. You can manage or cancel subscriptions anytime in your App Store account settings.
A one-time lifetime purchase is also available.
A NOTE ON WHAT THIS IS
Secure Space is a self-reflection tool. It is not therapy and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are in crisis or feel unsafe, please contact a licensed professional or local emergency services.
Terms of Service: https://securespace.app/terms
Privacy Policy: https://securespace.app/privacy
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Thank you to everyone using Secure Space to grow in love and relationships.
If the app helps you, we'd really appreciate a review. It helps us a ton!
Here's what's new in v3.1:
NEW: Repair
Had a fight or a hard moment with someone? Repair helps you make things right, one step at a time.
• If it just happened, take two minutes to calm down first
• Look at what it was like for you, then for them
• Work out what's yours to own, and what isn't
• Get a short first message to send, written from your own words
• Know what to say when you talk, and what to do if it doesn't go well
The next day, we'll check in to see how it went. With Pro, a few days later we'll also ask how you did with what you said you'd do differently.
If something didn't feel okay, Repair can help you set a boundary instead. And if what happened was more than a disagreement, it points you to support.
Find it on Home under "Repair".
NEW: Highlights
Your attachment results now say more about you.
After the assessment, you get six personal highlights: your core need, biggest trigger, go-to reaction, growth area, a strength, and a hidden strength. They're built from your own answers, not just a label. Find them on your results, in Settings, and right after the assessment in onboarding.
Took the assessment before this update? You'll see a one-time invite to retake it and get your highlights. The retake is free, even if you're not on Pro.
NEW: App Icons
Secure Space has a new face. Bloom, the calm little heart from inside the app, is now your icon! With Pro, you can switch to any Bloom character, or go back to our classic icon, in Settings → App Icon.
CHANGED: Your tools are FREE to use
That's right, Check-In, Ground Me, Reset, and Repair are now free, as often as you like. No more limit on Resets.
Free means you do the work: every step is there, and you always finish with something you can use. With Pro, Secure Space works with you along the way: suggestions that fit your pattern, feedback as you write, AI reframes, and check-ins on how it went.
We believe these tools should be open to everyone, and the extra help comes with Pro.
Improvements:
• An improved look for Reset
• Better AI reframes
• More accurate pattern notes while you write
• New and updated Growth Signals
• Quick actions on a person's profile now fit their relationship status
We also fixed bugs and made the app faster and smoother.
Version 3.1
Subscriptions
Yearly
12 months of full access to all Pro features
Free Trial
The developer, Abboud Abou Elias, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
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The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
Usage Data
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Information
Seller
Abboud Abou Elias
Size
200.2 MB
Category
Health & Fitness
Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.